48 [M4F] #Lexington KY
Looking for a younger cis woman. Open to anyone over 18. But preferably under 30.
My name is Joe. I have been with my wife for 20 years. Things have been good. I love her.
But after our children were born sex started becoming more rare. It was understandable and expected. Raising kids is a lot of work. But I thought things would get better once the kids started getting older and didn’t need our constant supervision.
Unfortunately it didn’t. Once or twice a month became the norm. Which wasn’t ideal but I was willing to work with.
But about 4 years ago my wife was in a bike accident and developed vulvodynia. For those of you who don’t know, basically her nerve endings send pain signals instead of pleasure signals now. Very simplistic way of putting it. But you get the idea.
She’s seen doctor’s and psychiatrists. But none of them really know why or how it happened. If it’s physical or mental or both. But she has pain even from wearing tight pants. She has seen some improvement with a cream… but as you can imagine sex is off the table.
It’s been years at this point.
We can still do somethings. But it isn’t the same. And the intimacy has all but vanished. We still laugh and enjoy each other’s company. We like being around each other. But that’s it. We’re just 2 really good friends living together.
I miss sex. I miss romance. I miss experimenting. I miss the intimacy.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for something IRL but figured I’d see what I could find here.
As for me, I’m 48. White. 6 foot tall. Brown hair and blue eyes. I wear glasses. And I weigh about 250lbs.
If anyone would be interested in chatting and maybe more I’d love to hear from you.