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Dear my fellows,

Happy Friday ⭐

So my Sub (m) and I (f) talked about the possibility to invite a third one or a couple into our dynamic. Everything was still superficial, but we were both into the idea.

For him it would be fine to either invite a man or a woman.

(Side question, he refuses to say he is bi, but actually it would be fine for him to suck a cock or even let a man penetrate him, if I demand it... But isn't this being bi? Maybe I am too much into categories)

If communication, trust and support are given, what are your thoughts or experiences from inviting a third one or a couple? How do you start this? What's your favorite memories so far?

Thank you ✨⭐

Dear all,

My male sub, who I am currently in a LDR dynamic due to different reasons, finished a couple of tasks perfectly and I want to reward him.

So beside giving him an allowance to please himself or maybe send him sexy pics of me, what kind of other reward ideas do you have (non sexual and sexual)?

Thank you so much!

Dear my male subs,

What do you actually enjoy about having a strap on put on and fuck your partner with it, instead of your penis?

I am mostly interested, as I see this fantasy a lot in the community.

Thank u✨

So here I am, dating someone, who's oblivious to the whole thing. To BDSM/Femdom or anything in general. He usually needed to be a little dominant in the past, but I know, sex in general is a hard topic for him, as he was bullied in the past.

I really cherish him, that's the whole shit point. I promised I wouldn't date any outsider anymore but tada here I am.

How can I introduce this to him? Like what was your way to do it? What kind of things should I be careful about? I am scared I will scare him off. Especially because I look certainly cute and sometimes even am a little clumsy or lost.

Thank you so much guys/divas/goddesses/queens and everyone between, in the middle, above or under :)⭐

So, my sub wears a cage and tomorrow will be a play session. How long is it, considering the health of his penis, okay to be aroused and have this cage on for him? Are there any dangers I should consider while playing?

Thank you so much!

Hi my dear✨

So actually it is quite obvious what we do, when it comes to sexual stuff. But I wanted to know what are your favorite scenarios or fantasies to get into the mood. The moment between a start and getting into more sexual stuff. Like an introduction, a little foreplay, getting your partner slowly into the sub mindset.

What are your favorite things to do? Or what do you wish for?

Thank you ✨⭐

So in general, I meet quite some subs on the internet. The most typical one seems to be, who wants to be toy boys or lust slaves. Honestly (yes, I am still a newbie) it is sometimes difficult to get enough ideas how to use them for my own pleasure, because I am so used to giving.

What do you usually do with those kinds of subs? Or what is your Domme doing with you usually? I need some kind of inspiration haha 🥹

Hey guys,

That's maybe weird to ask, but my sub is totally into serving me and gets more turned on by doing things for me, than being used.

Sounds nice at first, but I am so used to giving and using them/do things to my subs and now he is more into a field I barely have an idea about.😂

Dear subs, what do you love to do for your Dom/dommes? What kind of service do you offer or need to offer?

Dear Dom/Dommes, what are your advices or most beloved tasks for them to serve you?

Thank you so much ✨💕