u/Dessert-Goat314

Why is it so hard to find other handsome laidback & chill black men like myself? (33)

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 4 days ago

Why are Caribbean men my weakness?

I’m talking Afro Caribbean and Latin Caribbean. It’s like all of them are attractive to me. Can anyone relate or is it just me?

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 12 days ago

Why are Caribbean men my weakness?

I’m talking Afro Caribbean and Latin Caribbean. It’s like all of them are attractive to me. Can anyone relate or is it just me?

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 12 days ago

Why are Caribbean men my Weakness??

I’m talking Afro Caribbean and Latin Caribbean. It’s like all of them are attractive to me. Can anyone relate or is it just me?

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 12 days ago

Who do you guys fantasize about? People you know or “celebrities” & “influencers”?

33 & Bi curious. I can say I’ve never fantasized about any guy I ever met in real life. I will see a guy out in public, think he’s handsome, but I keep it moving. Same goes for coworkers. I never sexualize them.

Then after thinking there’s 3 main guys I do fantasize about and they are:

Jayson Tatum - NBA player

RNBFoeMob - apparently he’s a rapper. Only came across him on the explore & reels page on my Instagram. I do think it’s a little weird because he’s young (early 20’s) but, yea can’t stop watching videos of him. And his voice is attractive.

YoSoyDarlin1 - Instagram model from Dominican Republic. I think he is so damn gorgeous 🔥🔥🔥 been eyeing his photos for years 😩

Also I guess that explains my type?? When people ask I don’t know how to respond, because I never did anything with a guy 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 14 days ago

Who do you guys fantasize about? People you know or “celebrities” & “influencers”?

33 & Bi curious. I can say I’ve never fantasized about any guy I ever met in real life. I will see a guy out in public, think he’s handsome, but I keep it moving. Same goes for coworkers. I never sexualize them.

Then after thinking there’s 3 main guys I do fantasize about and they are:

Jayson Tatum - NBA player

RNBFoeMob - apparently he’s a rapper. Only came across him on the explore & reels page on my Instagram. I do think it’s a little weird because he’s young (early 20’s) but, yea can’t stop watching videos of him. And his voice is attractive.

YoSoyDarlin1 - Instagram model from Dominican Republic. I think he is so damn gorgeous 🔥🔥🔥 been eyeing his photos for years 😩

Also I guess that explains my type?? When people ask I don’t know how to respond, because I never did anything with a guy 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 14 days ago

I know this is a long shot… 33 black bi curious from St. Louis. Looking for a Chicago masculine homeboy to help me explore

5’9… currently 205lb (I’m losing though, been in the gym since March haha)

Never been with a guy. Must be discreet and masculine

Only Curious to get my dick sucked, sit in between your legs and you jerk me off, get my ass ate, and probably cuddle.

I come to the city occasionally and would like a homie to kick it with and help me explore my curiosity

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 15 days ago

Bi curious 33M… I just want a laid back/chill homeboy who I can have a close emotional friendship with and who is handsome like Jayson Tatum 😂😂😂. Why is this so hard?

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 15 days ago

Bi curious 33M… I just want a laid back/chill homeboy who I can have a close emotional friendship with and who is handsome like Jayson Tatum 😂😂😂. Why is this so hard?

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 15 days ago

Any other black or brown bi curious men on here that’s down to chat and possibly be friends? 33 bi curious black guy (Midwest, USA)

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 16 days ago

May sound dumb, but it’s hard to find a person that matches. Everybody is into clubbing/partying, horny 24/7, or gaming. I’m laid back and chill.

My hobbies are bowling, being a foodie and trying new & different restaurants, traveling, movie going, escape rooms.

33 bi curious black guy looking for friends. Please be in my age group.

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 17 days ago

May sound dumb, but it’s hard to find a person that matches. Everybody is into clubbing/partying, horny 24/7, or gaming. I’m laid back and chill.

My hobbies are bowling, being a foodie and trying new & different restaurants, traveling, movie going, escape rooms.

33 bi curious black guy looking for friends. Please be in my age group.

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 17 days ago

Not complaining. But they starting to catch my attention hahaha. It’s like they are just popping up everywhere.

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 18 days ago

Sad but true. Feel like I be wasting my time. Nobody can hold a conversation. Everybody is hyper-sexual. Everybody be demanding a nude pic in the intro like I know them.

And the worst part. I’m a black guy that’s attracted to black and Latino men. And they are the main ones.

Why can’t we hold a convo, get to know each other and see if the attraction is there??

I guess that’s what I get for wanting to try something new in my 30s

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 22 days ago

33M black. Bi Curious. Looking for long term friendship and consistent conversations. I’m masculine and looking for other masculine men. I’m laid back and chill for the most part. And love good conversations. Love food, movies and relaxing. Hit me up if you think we match!

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 23 days ago

33M black. Bi Curious. Looking for long term friendship and consistent conversations. I’m masculine and looking for other masculine men. I’m laid back and chill for the most part. And love good conversations. Love food, movies and relaxing. Hit me up if you think we match!

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u/Dessert-Goat314 — 24 days ago