36 [M4F] #Denver/#OKC - I’ve got a feeling that this time will be different for both you and I.

Because you’ve come across the person who won’t leave it up to you to carry the conversation. Who’s not incapable of talking about things that are deep or meaningful, but is also guaranteed to make you laugh. And who doesn’t even want to go *there* without establishing that chemistry actually exists.

And I’ve come across you, who is likely also fatigued of what our corner of Reddit can be. So you lurk until the right time, but are willing to give it a go if the vibe is right.

I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and I pride myself on being open minded. I’ll definitely make fun of you, but I’m not too self-absorbed to laugh at myself more. I’ve actually got a Master’s degree in being funny, if that kinda thing impresses you. A 4.0 in sarcasm, if you will.

I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, and I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a fun debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time. I love discovering and sharing music, it’s my love language.

I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. Kindness and empathy are easily the most attractive traits that I find in a woman. Like a “how do you treat the waiter” kind of kind. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. I totally understand that this is online affairs. But full transparency, If things go the way that I hope then I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel. If that checks out for you, then your location doesn’t much matter. With that said, I’m based in Denver and I have a few places that I semi-often travel to (Oklahoma City, for example)

I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.

Let’s start our conversation with something different. Give me something really random that you hate and why 🤔😂

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 26 days ago

36M [M4F] was feeling really crappy today. Went to the doctor and turns out I’m missing vitamin U… #MST

I’m talking a severe deficiency 😭

I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and converse about topics that mean something. I’m not afraid of deep conversation, but I also love to make fun of each other, laugh and make good use of my degree in sarcasm. I’ve actually got a Master’s degree in being funny, if that kinda thing impresses you.

I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, but I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a good, healthy debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time.

I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. I totally understand that this is online affairs. But full transparency, If things go the way that I hope then I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel.

I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.

Let’s chat!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 28 days ago

36M [M4F] Was feeling really crappy today. Went to the doctor and found out I’m missing vitamin U. #OKC #Oklahoma

I’m talking a severe deficiency 😭

I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and converse about topics that mean something. I’m not afraid of deep conversation, but I also love to make fun of each other, laugh and make good use of my degree in sarcasm. I’ve actually got a Master’s degree in being funny, if that kinda thing impresses you.

I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, but I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a good, healthy debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time.

I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. If things go the way that I hope, I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. Fair warning, I’m based in MST, but I travel to OKC often, hence the tags. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel.

I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.

Let’s chat!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 28 days ago

36M [M4F] If you don’t read another post today, read this one. Let’s consider the potential of you and I. #MST #CST

~But I’ll start with a little about me.

I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and converse about topics that mean something. I’m not afraid of deep conversation, but I also love to make fun of each other, laugh and make good use of my degree in sarcasm.

I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, but I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a good, healthy debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time.

I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. If things go the way that I hope, I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel.

I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.

Let’s chat!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 29 days ago

36M [M4F] Ok, here’s what I’m looking for. Take a look and tell me if this is too much #MST #CST

But I’ll start with a little about me.

I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and converse about topics that mean something. I’m not afraid of deep conversation, but I also love to make fun of each other, laugh and make good use of my degree in sarcasm.

I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, but I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a good, healthy debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time.

I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. If things go the way that I hope, I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel.

I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.

Let’s chat!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 29 days ago

36M [M4F] there’s so much for you and I to talk about. Just this once, stop lurking and let’s do this #OKC #MST

So I’ll start~

I'm a 36M, and I live in Colorado. I genuinely enjoy the story behind who might respond to this post, why they’ll respond, and what can come of it. The story of how you and I crossed paths will certainly interest me. What we have in common, and what we don’t. But I’ve gotta admit that if we were to really really hit it off, meeting IRL would definitely be something that’s on the menu for me. That causes me to be partial to those of you who live in a place where I am or travel to frequently/easily (talking to you, OKC). BUT if you think we’d vibe well and you’re in the US, I wanna chat. Because airplanes do exist, and you honestly just never really know what you’re missing. So stop lurking and let’s find out.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). Dark humor, all the things. I take pride in taking care of myself. I’m pretty clean cut, well groomed, and I go to the gym…but I’m not a “gym rat”. I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few extended conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that on Telegram - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok, let’s just be real with each other.

I’m generally attracted to easy going women who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. If you can mix funny and flirty, I’ve been desperately looking for you. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation on music. I wanna know what your music taste is like and what the most random song that you’re currently obsessed with is.

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 29 days ago

36M [M4F] A new season of one of my favorite documentary series just came out and I’m really excited. I just wanted you to know that #OKC #Oklahoma

And lurking ain’t working 😂 I’ll start here…follow me: 

I'm a 36M, and I live in Colorado. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I promise it’s mostly interesting, but I can’t give everything away here. I'II actually be there next in about a month (during the finals?!) If that’s where you are, I’d love to use this time in advance of that to get to know each other. If you’re in Colorado, that’s awesome too…things have just been kinda stagnant here. I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). Dark humor, all the things. I take pride in taking care of myself. I’m pretty clean cut, well groomed, and I go to the gym…but I’m not a “gym rat”. I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few extended conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that on Telegram - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok, let’s just be real with each other.

I’m generally attracted to easy going women who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. If you can mix funny and flirty, I’ve been desperately looking for you. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation on music. I wanna know what your music taste is like and what the most random song that you’re currently obsessed with is.

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 29 days ago

36 [M4F] To lurk or not to lurk, that is the question #OKC #Oklahoma #CST

And lurking ain’t working 😂 I’ll start here…follow me: 

I'm a 36M, and I live in Colorado. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I promise it’s mostly interesting, but I can’t give everything away here. I'II actually be there next in about a month (during the finals?!) If that’s where you are, I’d love to use this time in advance of that to get to know each other. Because I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). Dark humor, all the things. I take pride in taking care of myself. I’m pretty clean cut, well groomed, and I go to the gym…but I’m not a “gym rat”. I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few extended conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that on Telegram - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok, let’s just be real with each other.

I’m generally attracted to easy going women who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. If you can mix funny and flirty, I’ve been desperately looking for you. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation on music. I wanna know what your music taste is like and what the most random song that you’re currently obsessed with is.

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 29 days ago

Because you guys don’t play around about the Thunder.

Look, I know based on what I usually see here that it’s a little different to make a post for a trip that is ~5 weeks away. However, I think that having a little time to explore a connection can’t be a bad thing. So here goes.

I’ll be in OKC for a few nights and I think it’d be really cool to have some company to do dinner, drinks and whatever else we decide to get into with. During my last trip there, when I wasn’t in the middle of my obligations I spent time exploring downtown. Walking around, eating, drinking, looking for live music. 

Don’t want any spoilers so I won’t give toooo much about me here but I’m in 36, located in MST, yes I’m married and I travel to OKC on an irregular basis. I’m objectively funny (this can’t be disputed) appreciate an actually good conversationalist. I have a habit of laughing at a lot of things that I’m not “supposed” to. I love listening to, sharing and discovering music. I work out a couple of times per week, I take pride in being well groomed and smelling good. I’m an all around calm person, and really tight on OPSEC. 

I’m generally attracted to easygoing women who don’t mind mixing funny and flirtatious and who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and again I’m very OPSEC aware.

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

…then let’s argue about it. But it will be, because I’m gonna write the whole thing without mentioning “craving a spark”. 🤣

Let’s start here: I'm a 36M living in Colorado. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I'II actually be in OKC next in just over a month. I’ve done this before. I’m reaching exhaustion as far as this search goes, so I’m looking outside of my immediate area. I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). I definitely go to the gym, but I’m not a “gym rat”. More specifically, I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

You don’t owe me anything, I’m not out to talk to just anybody and I’m not weird or creepy. I’m probably one of the most normal guys in this corner of Reddit (but I’m biased). I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok…everyone’s got their thing. 

I’m generally attracted to easygoing women who don’t mind mixing funny and flirtatious and who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and again I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation with you helping me understand something. Why do we as millennials use “lol” in every sentence lol? 

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

…then let’s argue about it. But it will be, because I’m gonna write the whole thing without mentioning “craving a spark”. 🤣

Let’s start here: I'm a 36M living in Colorado. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I'II actually be in OKC next in just over a month. I’ve done this before. I’m reaching exhaustion as far as this search goes, so I’m looking outside of my immediate area. I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). I definitely go to the gym, but I’m not a “gym rat”. More specifically, I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

You don’t owe me anything, I’m not out to talk to just anybody and I’m not weird or creepy. I’m probably one of the most normal guys in this corner of Reddit (but I’m biased). I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok…everyone’s got their thing. 

I’m generally attracted to easygoing women who don’t mind mixing funny and flirtatious and who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and again I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation with you helping me understand something. Why do we as millennials use “lol” in every sentence lol? 

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

…then let’s argue about it. But it will be, because I’m gonna write the whole thing without mentioning “craving a spark”. 🤣

Let’s start here: I'm a 36M living in Colorado. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I'II actually be in OKC next in just over a month. I’ve done this before. I’m reaching exhaustion as far as this search goes, so I’m looking outside of my immediate area. I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). I definitely go to the gym, but I’m not a “gym rat”. More specifically, I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

You don’t owe me anything, I’m not out to talk to just anybody and I’m not weird or creepy. I’m probably one of the most normal guys in this corner of Reddit (but I’m biased). I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.

The few conversations I’ve had starting from Reddit have taught me that things just have to click, and to keep looking until they do. I’m starting to understand more why people prefer SFW pic swaps sooner than later, so I’m open to that - still at your pace though. Attraction is important, that’s just the truth. If we don’t click that’s ok…everyone’s got their thing. 

I’m generally attracted to easygoing women who don’t mind mixing funny and flirtatious and who can match (or at least handle) my sarcasm/humor. Ideally mid 20s to mid 40s. Whether you have kids or not doesn’t matter to me, I don’t have a problem relating either way. 

I strongly prefer telegram to Reddit chat, and again I’m very OPSEC aware.

Let’s start our conversation with you helping me understand something. Why do we as millennials use “lol” in every sentence lol? 

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

I know based on what I usually see here that it's a little different to make a post for a trip that is a little over a month away. However, I think that having a little time to explore a connection can't be a bad thing. So here goes.

I'll be in OKC for a few nights and I think it'd be really cool to have some company to do dinner, drinks and whatever else we decide to get into with. During my last trip there, when I wasn't in the middle of my obligations I spent time exploring downtown... walking around, eating, drinking, looking for live music.

Don't want any spoilers so I won't give toooo much about me here but I'm mid-30s, located in MST and I travel to OKC on an irregular basis. I'm objectively funny (this can't be disputed) and appreciate an actually good conversationalist. I have a habit of laughing at a lot of things that I'm not "supposed" to. I love listening to, sharing and discovering music.

I work out a couple of times per week, but nothing too crazy. I take pride in being well groomed and smelling good. I'm an all around calm person, and really tight on OPSEC.

Ideally, you are mid 20s to mid 40s. Can hang as far as humor and sarcasm. Good OPSEC of course.

Post-Reddit chat, Telegram is my preferred platform.

Hope to talk soon!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

Of course you do.

I'm a 36M living in #MST. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons. I'II actually be there in a little more than a month for example. One thing that I'm realizing in searching for an AP is that I'd like for the opportunity to meet to be there.
Starting online is great. While it doesn't have to be (and shouldn't be) immediate, having the option of meeting up if it goes there would be nice. And with my upcoming visit, I decided maybe I should expand my scope to a place that I tend to visit.

Don't want any spoilers so I won't give toooo much about me here but again, I travel to OKC on an irregular basis. I'm objectively funny (this can't be disputed) and appreciate an actually good conversationalist. I have a habit of laughing at a lot of things that I'm not "supposed" to. I love traveling, I love finding new things to eat and drink, I love learning new things. I don't like pointless conversation, but I love learning from people.

I work out a couple of times per week, but nothing too crazy. I take pride in being well groomed and smelling good. I'm an all around calm person, and really tight on OPSEC. Ideally, you are mid 20s to mid 40s. Can hang as far as humor, sarcasm and conversation. Good OPSEC of course. Yes, we all know attraction is important. We will certainly get to that.

Assuming we connect and explore that connection for a while, I think it'd be really cool to have some company to do dinner, drinks and whatever else we decide to get into. During my last trip there, when I wasn't in the middle of my obligations I spent time exploring downtown... walking around, eating, drinking, looking for live music.

If we were to move from Reddit chat, Telegram is my preference. Shoot me a message!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

Easing my way back into the subs (you know the ones) because the cycle got a little exhausting for me. So I figure let's try something a little different.
Here goes...

I'm a 36M living in #MST. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons. I'II actually be there in a little more than a month for example. One thing that I'm realizing in searching for an AP is that I'd like for the opportunity to meet to be there.
Starting online is great. While it doesn't have to be (and shouldn't be) immediate, having the option of meeting up if it goes there would be nice. And with my upcoming visit, I decided maybe I should expand my scope to a place that I tend to visit.

Don't want any spoilers so I won't give toooo much about me here but again, I travel to OKC on an irregular basis. I'm objectively funny (this can't be disputed) and appreciate an actually good conversationalist. I’ve also learned that most people think that they are good conversationalists 😂😂. I have a habit of laughing at a lot of things that I'm not "supposed" to. I love traveling, I love finding new things to eat and drink, I love learning new things. I don't like pointless conversation, but I love learning from people.

I work out a couple of times per week, but nothing too crazy. I take pride in being well groomed and smelling good. I'm an all around calm person, and really tight on OPSEC. Ideally, you are mid 20s to mid 40s. Can hang as far as humor, sarcasm and conversation. Good OPSEC of course. Yes, we all know attraction is important. We will certainly get to that.

Assuming we connect and explore that connection for a while, I think it'd be really cool to have some company to do dinner, drinks and whatever else we decide to get into. During my last trip there, when I wasn't in the middle of my obligations I spent time exploring downtown... walking around, eating, drinking, looking for live music.

If we were to move from Reddit chat, Telegram is my preference. Shoot me a message!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago

I know based on what I usually see here that it's a little different to make a post for a trip that is a little over a month away. However, I think that having a little time to explore a connection can't be a bad thing. So here goes.

I'll be in OKC for a few nights and I think it'd be really cool to have some company to do dinner, drinks and whatever else we decide to get into with. During my last trip there, when I wasn't in the middle of my obligations I spent time exploring downtown... walking around, eating, drinking, looking for live music.

Don't want any spoilers so I won't give toooo much about me here but I'm mid-30s, located in MST and I travel to OKC on an irregular basis. I'm objectively funny (this can't be disputed) and appreciate an actually good conversationalist. I have a habit of laughing at a lot of things that I'm not "supposed" to. I love listening to, sharing and discovering music.

I work out a couple of times per week, but nothing too crazy. I take pride in being well groomed and smelling good. I'm an all around calm person, and really tight on OPSEC.

Ideally, you are mid 20s to mid 40s. Can hang as far as humor and sarcasm. Good OPSEC of course.

Post-Reddit chat, Telegram is my preferred platform.

Hope to talk soon!

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u/Distinct-Mud-6803 — 1 month ago