36 [M4F] #Denver/#OKC - I’ve got a feeling that this time will be different for both you and I.
Because you’ve come across the person who won’t leave it up to you to carry the conversation. Who’s not incapable of talking about things that are deep or meaningful, but is also guaranteed to make you laugh. And who doesn’t even want to go *there* without establishing that chemistry actually exists.
And I’ve come across you, who is likely also fatigued of what our corner of Reddit can be. So you lurk until the right time, but are willing to give it a go if the vibe is right.
I’m 36 and married with a career that’s certainly been interesting. I love to learn new things and I pride myself on being open minded. I’ll definitely make fun of you, but I’m not too self-absorbed to laugh at myself more. I’ve actually got a Master’s degree in being funny, if that kinda thing impresses you. A 4.0 in sarcasm, if you will.
I’m very happy with who I am these days. I’ve overcome a lot and defied a lot of odds and I think that’s something to be proud of. Going to the gym has been very important for me - especially recently, but I still like to eat and drink soooo…balance. I’ve got all of my hair, I’m pretty clean cut and take pretty damn good care of myself. I’m the occasional peloton rider, and I’m learning to love it. I’ll research a topic to death, and I love a fun debate. I’ve got a lot of other interests that we can get into with a little bit of time. I love discovering and sharing music, it’s my love language.
I’m hoping to find someone that is attractive, nice, and that I can effortlessly talk to. Kindness and empathy are easily the most attractive traits that I find in a woman. Like a “how do you treat the waiter” kind of kind. If you’re reaaallly nice then I promise I can turn down the smart ass-ness, but I’d love it even more if you can return fire. I totally understand that this is online affairs. But full transparency, If things go the way that I hope then I’m totally open to meeting when the time and place make sense. So it’d be great if you have the flexibility to work toward that with me. I take the occasional solo trip for different reasons, including work travel. If that checks out for you, then your location doesn’t much matter. With that said, I’m based in Denver and I have a few places that I semi-often travel to (Oklahoma City, for example)
I’m pretty pragmatic and this isn’t my first rodeo. So I know what this can be, but I also know what it can’t be. OPSEC is of extreme importance to me, and it should be to you too. If you’ve grown tired of searching, I can promise you that I’m worth your time. You’ll at the very least be in for a good laugh and some stimulating conversation. At best, we can really make something out of this.
Let’s start our conversation with something different. Give me something really random that you hate and why 🤔😂