u/Dry_Party_6414

I've been trying to find a new partner recently (21m and a sub btw), and for some personal reasons since irl meetings are not really an option I've been trying my chances on different subredddits.

I gotta say I do feel a bit burnt out now. Basically what I've seen so far is a circle of getting no dms when I poster when I do, getting ghosted or be clearly dealing with a scammer or a bot.

Now I understand many of the rejections since my Location is not really optimal(im in the middle east which makes things harder since majority of the users are American), and also I am indeed chubby which is a dealbreaker for many. However it still does for sure hurt overtime after taking too many of such rejections so im just wondering, should just take a break for now and give up on meeting new people with the mindset of potentially meeting a domme? Or should I just close the case entirely and give up.

Orrrr idk really but really thank you for reading all this <3

Hi everyone :)

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

When it comes to such relationships,The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun!

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet :)

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-29,30 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person :)

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it :)

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

Thank you for reading all this.

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D

Hey everyone!

So after taking good amount of break from trying to find a partner, I feel like I'm finally ready to put myself out there again. Now ideally what I'm really hoping for is something that has both the sweet goofy vanilla side and the fun very kinky side. However obviously that deeper sweet connection we could build as time goes so no need to rush^^

The thing I care about most though(as I kinda mentioned)is genuinely getting to know someone, building trust, and keeping communication open and honest and hopefully everything else just falls into place naturally from there...well it happens manually to be fair cause we'll be doing all the work haha

Now a little bit about me: I'm definitely on the nerdy side, pretty introverted and shy (even if it doesn't always show). My MBTI is INFJ/P if it matters. I'm super into music(actually it's my career, specially classical music :3) plus reading, video games, anime and just being very interested in psychology and philosophy. Oh and I'm currently in a bit of a book collecting obsession which is just way too fun lol

As it might show i also spend a good amount of time on the internet.

I'm not super experienced on the kinkier side of things but I'm open and curious. I enjoy things like I see^^

Now for kinks

I would say main ones would be petplay, impact play, bondage, humiliation, degradation, praise kinky, cbt, cei, orgasm control, exhibitionism and feet stuff? and way more things(basically just ask and im probably at least interested in anything that's not in my limit list), now as I said I do have a few limits which are anything dirty(like piss and stuff), public stuff, anything that has to do with blood and cuck stuff. So anything outside that and we can talk a lot about it!

About my looks, i'm 5'11", around 200 lbs so a bit chubby(which is going down since im losing weight), living in the Middle East, with white skin and honestly not that hairy of a body.

Now ideally im looking for someone in the 19 to 30 range, it's not a dealbreaker however the closer the ages the better in my eyes^^

I should mention that i do sometimes struggle with expressing my feelings properly, but I'm working on it!

If any of this sounds interesting, I'd genuinely love to just talk and see where things go :3

Excited to get to know you so pls DM me!^^

Hey everyone!

So after taking good amount of break from trying to find a partner, I feel like I'm finally ready to put myself out there again. Now ideally what I'm really hoping for is something that has both the sweet goofy vanilla side and the fun very kinky side. However obviously that deeper sweet connection we could build as time goes so no need to rush^^

The thing I care about most though(as I kinda mentioned)is genuinely getting to know someone, building trust, and keeping communication open and honest and hopefully everything else just falls into place naturally from there...well it happens manually to be fair cause we'll be doing all the work haha

Now a little bit about me: I'm definitely on the nerdy side, pretty introverted and shy (even if it doesn't always show). My MBTI is INFJ/P if it matters. I'm super into music(actually it's my career, specially classical music :3) plus reading, video games, anime and just being very interested in psychology and philosophy. Oh and I'm currently in a bit of a book collecting obsession which is just way too fun lol

As it might show i also spend a good amount of time on the internet.

I'm not super experienced on the kinkier side of things but I'm open and curious. I enjoy things like I see^^

Now for kinks

I would say main ones would be petplay, impact play, bondage, humiliation, degradation, praise kinky, cbt, cei, orgasm control, exhibitionism and feet stuff? and way more things(basically just ask and im probably at least interested in anything that's not in my limit list), now as I said I do have a few limits which are anything dirty(like piss and stuff), public stuff, anything that has to do with blood and cuck stuff. So anything outside that and we can talk a lot about it!

About my looks, i'm 5'11", around 200 lbs so a bit chubby(which is going down since im losing weight), living in the Middle East, with white skin and honestly not that hairy of a body.

Now ideally im looking for someone in the 19 to 30 range, it's not a dealbreaker however the closer the ages the better in my eyes^^

I should mention that i do sometimes struggle with expressing my feelings properly, but I'm working on it!

If any of this sounds interesting, I'd genuinely love to just talk and see where things go :3

Excited to get to know you so pls DM me!^^

Hi everyone :)

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

When it comes to such relationships,The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun!

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet :)

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-29,30 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person :)

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it :)

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

Thank you for reading all this.

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D

Hey everyone!

So after taking good amount of break from trying to find a partner, I feel like I'm finally ready to put myself out there again. Now ideally what I'm really hoping for is something that has both the sweet goofy vanilla side and the fun very kinky side. However obviously that deeper sweet connection we could build as time goes so no need to rush^^

The thing I care about most though(as I kinda mentioned)is genuinely getting to know someone, building trust, and keeping communication open and honest and hopefully everything else just falls into place naturally from there...well it happens manually to be fair cause we'll be doing all the work haha

Now a little bit about me: I'm definitely on the nerdy side, pretty introverted and shy (even if it doesn't always show). My MBTI is INFJ/P if it matters. I'm super into music(actually it's my career, specially classical music :3) plus reading, video games, anime and just being very interested in psychology and philosophy. Oh and I'm currently in a bit of a book collecting obsession which is just way too fun lol

As it might show i also spend a good amount of time on the internet.

I'm not super experienced on the kinkier side of things but I'm open and curious. I enjoy things like I see^^

Now for kinks

I would say main ones would be petplay, impact play, bondage, humiliation, degradation, praise kinky, cbt, cei, orgasm control, exhibitionism and feet stuff? and way more things(basically just ask and im probably at least interested in anything that's not in my limit list), now as I said I do have a few limits which are anything dirty(like piss and stuff), public stuff, anything that has to do with blood and cuck stuff. So anything outside that and we can talk a lot about it!

About my looks, i'm 5'11", around 200 lbs so a bit chubby(which is going down since im losing weight), living in the Middle East, with white skin and honestly not that hairy of a body.

Now ideally im looking for someone in the 19 to 30 range, it's not a dealbreaker however the closer the ages the better in my eyes^^

I should mention that i do sometimes struggle with expressing my feelings properly, but I'm working on it!

If any of this sounds interesting, I'd genuinely love to just talk and see where things go :3

Excited to get to know you so pls DM me!^^

Hi everyone :)

&#x200B;

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

When it comes to such relationships,

The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

&#x200B;

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

&#x200B;

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

&#x200B;

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

&#x200B;

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun.

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

&#x200B;

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

&#x200B;

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

&#x200B;

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-26 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

&#x200B;

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person

&#x200B;

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

&#x200B;

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

&#x200B;

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

&#x200B;

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

Thank you for reading all this.

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D

Hi everyone :)

&#x200B;

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

&#x200B;

When it comes to such relationships,

The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

&#x200B;

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun!

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

&#x200B;

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet :)

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-29,30 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

&#x200B;

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person :)

&#x200B;

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

&#x200B;

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it :)

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

&#x200B;

Thank you for reading all this.

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D

&#x200B;

&#x200B;

Hi everyone :)

&#x200B;

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

When it comes to such relationships,

The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

&#x200B;

&#x200B;

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

&#x200B;

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun!

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

&#x200B;

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet :)

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-26 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person :)

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it :)

&#x200B;

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

Thank you for reading all this.

&#x200B;

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D

&#x200B;

&#x200B;

Hi everyone :)

&#x200B;

It's been I a while since I've tried my chance to get into a relationship but I think it's time to give it another shot .

&#x200B;

When it comes to such relationships,

&#x200B;

The perfect situation for me would be a combination of all the good romantic things and all the good kinky things which I get it if it sounds a bit idealistic :D

&#x200B;

Of course how ever the most important thing is to have good communication about things and get to know each other and trust first and all the good things will come naturally :)

&#x200B;

Now a bit about me : I think I'm more in the nerdy side of things (even sometimes my friends do tell me that I have that cat personality)

&#x200B;

I'm also more of an introvert and shy person as well even tho sometimes it doesn't show 😅.

&#x200B;

If it matters my mbti is infj.(actually it sometimes comes as infp)

&#x200B;

Also I enjoy music,books,video games and anime a lot. Specially classical music to the point that it is my main career path :)

&#x200B;

I also enjoy things like psychology and philosophy a lot and I love learning more about them. It's always so great to try to learn how humans are honestly. However one of the most fun things for me to do is to collect things :D and I'm currently in the phase of collecting books and God if it isn't just so fun!

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the kinky stuff I'm mostly not that experienced and I'm pretty sure I don't 100% know what I absolutely love or don't.

&#x200B;

But some of the things I would say I really do enjoy are things like gentle femdom, pet play, bondage and a lot more things you name it :D

&#x200B;

How ever naturally I also have some limits like cuckolding or public things or dangerous things and dirty play andddd age play. Other than this I'm mostly open to experience new and different things :)

&#x200B;

Also about my looks, I'm 5'10 and around 200 pounds(still on my weight loss journey :D). Also one my doctor told me that my body type is mostly Russian in terms of physics which im not sure what it truly means but maybe it's worth mentioning haha. Worth to mention I live in the middle east if I haven't mentioned yet :)

&#x200B;

Now when it comes to the partner I'm looking for ideally it would be nice to not have a huge age gap even though it's not a deal breaker so 19-26 is the perfect range I think. (Naturally the less of an age gap the better)

&#x200B;

Also as I mentioned before what I truly care about is being open to communication and establishing trust So that's what I'm really looking for in a person :)

&#x200B;

Also I do think naturally things are gonna go only online but it would be amazing to have the idea of an irl relationship in mind ( of course if things work out :D )

&#x200B;

Personally I do tend to struggle a lot when it comes to communicating or even understanding my own feelings.

&#x200B;

Well I'm much better at it now but there sure is a long way to go before getting actually good at communicating such things.

&#x200B;

I thought this is a very important topic so it would be unfair to not mention it :)

&#x200B;

So for some final words if you're interested I would be glad to have conversation with you and see how things go :D

&#x200B;

Thank you for reading all this.

&#x200B;

Now i did try to post a few times but apparently it's under 500 words every time. I wonder if it will pass this time :D