u/Glass-Factor-376

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces “\~”

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces “~”

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

Life gets busy… work, responsibilities, routines. Somewhere in between, it’s easy to forget how nice it feels to genuinely look forward to a message from someone.

I’m hoping to find that kind of easy, feel-good connection — the kind where we can laugh, share a little about our days, and bring some lightness into each other’s routine. No pressure, no drama… just good conversation, a bit of playful energy, and something that makes you smile when your phone lights up.

About me: early 40s, grounded, positive, and someone who enjoys meaningful conversation mixed with a healthy dose of humor. I’m the type who’ll check in, remember the little things, and probably send you a message that makes you shake your head and smile.

About you: kind, engaging, and knows how to keep a conversation going. You enjoy a bit of wit, a bit of warmth, and appreciate that small connections can sometimes be the most refreshing part of the day.

If that sounds like something you’ve been missing too… say hello. “~”      

I’m 43, married guy in the Bay Area—tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄 “~”

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy in the Bay Area—tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄 “\~”

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy, tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces

I’m 43, married guy in the Bay Area—tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄 “~”

I’m 43, married guy in the Bay Area—tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

I’m 43, married guy in the Bay Area—tech by day, dad mode on weekends, gym in between so I can still pretend I’m athletic 😄
Life’s good on paper… but let’s be honest, somewhere between calendar invites and Costco runs, things have become a bit too predictable.
Not here to change anyone’s situation (including mine). Just looking for a genuine connection—someone who gets the balance of real life and the need for something that feels a little more… human. Think easy conversations, sarcasm, shared laughs, and that “how did we end up talking for 2 hours?” kind of vibe.
If it stays as great conversation, that’s already a win. If there’s chemistry and it evolves naturally, we figure it out like normal adults. No pressure, no drama—just mutual respect, discretion, and good energy.
About me:
•        43, married, fit-ish (I try 😅), Indian, 5’10
•        Big fan of witty banter, random thoughts, and conversations that don’t feel like a status meeting
Looking for someone who:
•        Is in a similar phase of life
•        Values discretion and honesty
•        Can hold a conversation and maybe throw in some sarcasm
•        Doesn’t take everything too seriously (but knows when to)
Bonus if you can make me laugh or recommend something better than Netflix’s “Top 10” list.
If this resonates, say hi. Worst case—we exchange a few messages and politely disappear like civilized people 😄

Congrats on finding this post. Considering the sheer lack of dicks (meant figuratively and literally) around here to pick from, this makes you super lucky to have found me, your needle in a haystack.

I want to find a connection like a lamp plug needs an electrical outlet. That’s not a bad pun about wanting to stick something in a hole, it’s saying we all need something to brighten our day. I’d like it if we could brighten each other’s day. I’m not saying I want to turn you on like a lamp, either. I’m saying I want to make your eyes light up when you see an orange envelope from me here or a text from me if we go elsewhere.

Everyone around here is going on and on about how miserable their lives are outside of this place - she doesn’t pay attention to me, she isn’t giving me the world and I give everything in my heart and soul to her!! Maybe we should admit we get lazy in our relationships sometimes or we need some kind of escapism from adulting. Feel like escaping? A few hours a day? We can joke and laugh and get to know each other. I’ll tell you terrible jokes in great quantity, and you’ll laugh either because every now and then I get one right ORRRRR you’re just laughing at me.

Me? I mean, I don’t want to talk about me, but since you asked: Early 40s, face like Clooney and a body like Captain America. And if you don’t believe the same way verbal equivalent of me taking a selfie above my head and off to my left because it makes me look skinny and is my good angle, I love to write long messages about how happy you’re making me, I’m friendly as hell, and I’m actually pretty easy on the eyes.

You? Just be nice, that’s all I ask. Know how to move a conversation so that I’m not doing all the heavy lifting, and let this be the space in the world where we think positive and not with super sad grumpy faces