u/Gold_Climate_2731

Curious as to how we all ended up here? I'm in my 40's never married. I grew up in purity culture, so never considered I would be single at 40. I stopped attending church a few years ago but began to exploring my sexuality years before that. I love exploring my body and those of others. At the end of the day, I just didn't think it was reasonable for me to live a sex-free life because I was single. What about you?

Why is it that some masseurs on RM don't list their price? Is it because they're actually offering other services? Or are they just trying to negotiate? Personally, If I don't see a price I don't engage. Also, about what are you all paying for a massage?

Hey all, I'll be in the Tucson area this week. Anyone know what the conditions are like at Tanque Verde Falls? Im not from the area so looking for some tips/advice. Will there be water? Is it going to be too hot to hike? Just trying to figure out if it's worth checking out this time of year.

It took me a long time to accept I was small. When I began to embrace it, I realized despite my size, I love how it feels in my hand when hard!

Alright guys, in honor of Father's Day, did you ever get caught jerking by your dad?

Guys would you rather have 3-5 short and mediocre bate sessions a week or 2-3 longer edging sessions that lead to a great orgasm?

I'm curious, what is one idea or belief that you grew up believing was wrong because of church teachings that you've since changed? For me, it's the idea that masturbation is sinful. I grew up during "purity culture" so always felt guilty. I'm now In my 40's and embrace masturbation and view it as normal and natural.

About what age did you start sleeping naked? Curious because I grew up pretty conservative and casual nudity was not a thing in my house. I'm in my 40's now and started sleeping naked about 5 years ago. I wish I had started sooner!

Guys, how do you refer to your (or someone else's) penis? I generally use dick, but I see lots of people on reddit use the word cock. If you speak another language feel free to share that term too.

Guys, how do you refer to your (or someone else's) penis? I generally use dick, but I see lots of people on reddit use the word cock. If you speak another language feel free to share that term as well.

I remember when puberty hit thinking, "finally, my dick is going to grow..." that thought went on for years. Even in my early 20's I thought maybe I would hit some kind of growth spirt and my dick would get bigger. Obviously it never happened. I'm in my 40's now and I would say I truly didn't become comfortable with my size until I was in my 30's. My thinking now is, I'm just happy it works.

Curious what term you all use? I think I use the term Stroke most often.

Verbal meaning do you allow yourself to get into it? Do you embrace the moans, and grunts? Do you ramble as you're bating? I live alone and love being able to embrace the bate!

Hey guys, do you get loud when you bate? Meaning, when you're stroking, do you really get into it? Moans, grunts, and all that? I love being verbal. I also live alone so It might be easier for me!