u/Mysterious_Tea_8784

hey, hello.

let me get my disclaimers out the way first... I'm a plus size girly so if you're not into that don't message. I am also in a relationship with someone who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I'm here.

sadly recenly turned 30. F. Living in the north of England. Dyed red hair, green/grey eyes.

Anyway, looking for someone normal as a bare minimum (a big ask for Reddit I know) who is funny,kind, silly and for the love of God doesn't have the emotional availability of an egg🤣

I need a genuine connection to be able to get into a dynamic, so looking for someone I vibe with but also am physically attracted to.

Love silly, witty, caring types.

I'm a brat but have a big heart and actually prefer a soft dom with a natural golden retriever personality. A dom that helps me take care of myself and genuinley cares about my wellbeing.

kinks: orgasm control,denial, light degradation, rules,structure, nipple play, spanking,choking etc

hard limits- any shit or piss shenanigans, hard degradation, people with very specific fetishes. whatever tickles your pickle but kinda freaks me out 🤣

I would prefer somebody around my age but obviously there's leeway.

also please be willing to swap pictures off the bat

hey, hello.

let me get my disclaimers out the way first... I'm a plus size girly so if you're not into that don't message. I am also in a relationship with someone who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I'm here.

sadly recenly turned 30. F. Living in the north of England. Dyed red hair, green/grey eyes.

Anyway, looking for someone normal as a bare minimum (a big ask for Reddit I know) who is funny,kind, silly and for the love of God doesn't have the emotional availability of an egg🤣

I need a genuine connection to be able to get into a dynamic, so looking for someone I vibe with but also am physically attracted to.

Love silly, witty, caring types.

I'm a brat but have a big heart and actually prefer a soft dom with a natural golden retriever personality. A dom that helps me take care of myself and genuinley cares about my wellbeing.

kinks: orgasm control,denial, light degradation, rules,structure, nipple play, spanking,choking etc

hard limits- any shit or piss shenanigans, hard degradation, people with very specific fetishes. whatever tickles your pickle but kinda freaks me out 🤣

I would prefer somebody around my age but obviously there's leeway.

also please be willing to swap pictures off the bat

Hi, hey, hello.

let me get my disclaimers out the way first... I'm a plus size girly so if you're not into that don't message. I am also in a relationship with someone who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I'm here.

sadly recenly turned 30. F. Living in the north of England. Dyed red hair, green/grey eyes.

Anyway, looking for someone normal as a bare minimum (a big ask for Reddit I know) who is funny,kind, silly and for the love of God doesn't have the emotional availability of an egg🤣

I need a genuine connection to be able to get into a dynamic, so looking for someone I vibe with but also am physically attracted to.

Love silly, witty, caring types.

I'm a brat but have a big heart and actually prefer a soft dom with a natural golden retriever personality. A dom that helps me take care of myself and genuinley cares about my wellbeing.

kinks: orgasm control,denial, light degradation, rules,structure, nipple play, spanking,praise,choking etc

hard limits- any shit or piss shenanigans, hard degradation, people with very specific fetishes. whatever tickles your pickle but kinda freaks me out 🤣

I would prefer somebody around my age but obviously there's leeway.

also please be willing to swap pictures off the bat

Dont be a weirdo. I'll rip you a new one

x

Hi, hey, hello.

let me get my disclaimers out the way first... I'm a plus size girly so if you're not into that don't message. I am also in a relationship with someone who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I'm here.

sadly recenly turned 30. F. Living in the north of England. Dyed red hair, green/grey eyes.

Anyway, looking for someone normal as a bare minimum (a big ask for Reddit I know) who is funny,kind, silly and for the love of God doesn't have the emotional availability of an egg🤣

I need a genuine connection to be able to get into a dynamic, so looking for someone I vibe with but also am physically attracted to.

Love silly, witty, caring types.

I'm a brat but have a big heart and actually prefer a soft dom with a natural golden retriever personality. A dom that helps me take care of myself and genuinley cares about my wellbeing.

kinks: orgasm control,denial, light degradation, rules,structure, nipple play, spanking,choking etc

hard limits- any shit or piss shenanigans, hard degradation, people with very specific fetishes. whatever tickles your pickle but kinda freaks me out 🤣

I would prefer somebody around my age but obviously there's leeway.

also please be willing to swap pictures off the bat

Hey hey

I'm a British plus size gal who is in a relationship with someone who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I seek it online. if you're on board with all of the above keep reading!

This is my first time ever seeking a switch but I've learned from experience doms who are a little switchy are the ones I connect the best with 😇

I have dyed red hair, green/grey eyes and am very slightly alternative. think of it as an emo that has been diluted over a couple generations 😂

I'm sarcastic, funny, sweet and kind/caring (quoted from my reviews) Looking someone who is the same and doesn't take thia TOO seriously. I'm looking for a fun dynamic with a genuine connection. I can't do kink without connection. plus it makes it sooooo much more enjoyable.

I'll rattle off some general kinks but I'm more about getting to know someone before diving in to kink chat. nipple play, orgasm denial, orgasm control, rules/structure, choking, slapping, spanking, breeding.

attraction is super important to me in this and i want to feel super attractive to you too. so please be willing to swap selfies right away, I dont want to waste your time or mine!

Not the typical ' i like big beared hairy guys' I like sweet/cute looking guys so if that's you, skip to the front of the line!

preferred age range 25-35

I shall await my fate

Ciao for now

Happy sunday!

Most importantly, the disclaimers. I am in a relationship with somebody who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I seek it here. I'm a plus size/curvy whatever you wanna call it girl so you do need to be into that. If I haven't scared you off then keep reading I guess 😂

British. Red hair (not ginger, dyed red) green/grey eyes. Very slightly alternative looking.

Big mouth, big personality but very much a complete softie underneath.

Although I'm not single, I am looking for genuine connection and chemistry that leads into a dynamic. I can't do kink without connection, and it makes it so much more enjoyable when there is a connection.

Looking for a soft, caring dom who can be stern at times and maybe very occasionally a little switchy in a playful way. Most drawn to funny/Witty, silly, chatty enthusiastic types who have that kinda innocent look🫠

Please have good availability, good communication and be willing to share selfies straight away.

Age range 26-36

I'm patiently waiting 😇

Hey!

So first and foremost I am not single. I have a partner who isn't into this lifestyle and doesn't know I seek it here. However, I am still looking for genuine connection and chemistry with an online dynamic!

I don't jump into kink straight away. Submission is earned and I love a natural, flirty chemistry.

I'm a curvy/plus size girl from England. Dyed red hair, a smidge of alternative vibes, green/grey eyes.

I love to banter back and forth (obviously. I'm a brat) but do also have a very soft side. Only the special ones get to see that though 😉

I'm into the typical sub/brat stuff. Nothing too extreme. Nipple play, orgasm control/denial, structure, rules, punishments, light degradation.

About you...

Hopefully funny, sweet, caring, kind, can communicate like an adult, has good availability and is emotionally available.

I like the kind of doms that you wouldn't expect to be doms, boy next door cute types. Skip to the front of the line if that's you 😈

Attraction is important to me in this, both ways. I want to feel sexy and make you feel handsome as fuck. So please be willing to swap selfies early on!

Preferably you are 25-35, I just get along with people in this age range a lot more, but open to a few years either way!

Please include some basic details about you in your message! Iam super sick right now so feel free to link me to funny tiktoks/reels in your initial message to cheer me up, too. 😉

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