u/Realistic_Degree_188

A sub wants to be naked in a session

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I'm a baby domme so would appreciate any advice. A sub's (not my partner) primary kink is being nude. He's not an exhibitionist but rather, he enjoys the liberation & freedom of being without clothes. He's in a high stress job & a former Muslim so wants to get away from form of rigidity.

He suggested going to a s*x social club. He likes CFNM so I will be clothed. What activities should I do with him? We talked about it briefly as he's only had 1 other domme before but it seemed like rather light BDSM (eg golden showers etc). He definitely doesn't want any marks but said wanted to try paddling. I suggested going shopping for toys together - this way I can get a better feel of what he's looking for. I am thinking more lighter stuff - collaring, feather tickling, chastity.

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u/Realistic_Degree_188 — 3 days ago

How do you deal with Flakes?

I've had guys requesting worn items or to go shopping but when it's time to meet in person, person flakes. Should I request a deposit before meeting? Do you ask for more $ when meeting in person?

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u/Realistic_Degree_188 — 11 days ago
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Fetlife verification

I just received a notice from FL that I have to provide a gov't ID for verification. I'm rather leery to provide that info. Should I be concerned?

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u/Realistic_Degree_188 — 15 days ago