u/YourSubtleNeighbor

How many of use give full control of our orgasms over to our wives or partners? After many years we've finally reached the point where she is in full control of my orgasms, including masturbation. The most difficult part was giving up the freedom of masturbation, but other than that it was honestly a pretty easy thing to do. It allows me to focus on her and not worry about myself. She'll give me a release when she wants me to have one and when she feels like I deserve it.

Of all the aspects of our FLR I think this one has really been a positive change for me. Prior to this in the back of my mind I was always thinking about how I could get to orgasm and it was honestly a big distraction.

So, this is something I never realized but my wife pointed it out to me the other day after a fun session. Apparently whenever we start to fool around in any way I've been asking her to fuck me each time. I guess it's something she's been enjoying and playing around with. But she said that for the last couple months I've consistently been asking her to fuck me when we become intimate.

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She thinks it's adorable btw and loves that the assumption is now that I'm going to get fucked and not her. I have to admit it's kind of hot not realizing it and that it was just part of our evolution or whatever.

We did not start pussy free this year, but we go through periods of practicing it fully, somewhat, and not at all. We are in a FLR and fairly kinky so I apologize if not everything is well suited for here.

So far in 2026 I have touched or seen my goddesses pussy zero times in any way. I have cum 6 times so far from her vibrating my cage. She has cum countless times from her toys while I assist in different ways. I have been pegged regularly, minimum of twice a week.

I would say 2026 is a great year so far and I'm very excited to find out where she takes it from here.

It was the first time this ever happened, though nipple play has always made me cum more quickly. This time though, it was the only stimulation. It wasn't quick, but was delightfully satisfying. She was a mix of gentle and rough, teasing and sensitive. She used some toys too which really got me going. I was so relaxed and into it, listening to her voice, feeling her touch...I eventually just got lost in it all and before I knew it I felt my cum all over myself.

With a strap-on. Sorry for the click bait lol.

Occasionally she will let me fuck her wearing a strap-on while I'm caged and it's always really hot and really demeaning. Last night was such a fun session since it's been a while. She was planning to peg me afterwards so she was also wearing her while I was fucking her; way way hotter than I thought it would be. I couldn't help but stroke her cock at times.

I don't mean things you call each other as part of the dynamic or during a play session, I mean actual pet names for each other? We both have never been one for the cutesy pet names in any of our relationships.

For us, we've never had them. The closest thing to them are a few names have integrated themselves out of the bedroom and our dynamic into our every day addressing of each other.

Kind of pegging adjacent I guess so I'm happy to delete if it doesn't fit.

Part of our pegging sessions involve me give my wife a blowjob. Sometimes it's just a slow sensual warm up, other times it's a full throat fucking. Either way I absolutely love it and it really gets me in that submissive headspace. It's something that we both enjoy and it helps get us both ready for what's about to happen as soon as she decides I'm done sucking her cock.

I'd like to hear from both the givers and receivers on what they enjoy or don't and why. I've noticed this is something that is kind of underrepresented.