u/avgliterature

37 [M4F] #online #Michigan Chastity/denial sub looking for discrete training and ownership

Married 37 M sub who is a fan of chastity, edging, denial, cbt, plugs, toys, and nipple play and looking to be obedient to someone who enjoys these things as well! I’m not afraid to try new things as long as limits are discussed first of course.
I do have a need for discretion so I’m not available for 24/7 or a tpe type situation. There will be times where I’m unavailable but most likely can still carry out long term requirements (chastity etc) but this will all be communicated/discussed of course.
This dynamic would be online, however I’m located in SW Michigan so if you are and are interested in meeting I’d be open to it, other locations would be less likely but still considered.
I do like to get to know people first, making sure it will be a good fit before jumping right into the dynamic…ideally if we move forward we can talk and chat normally from time to time as well!

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u/avgliterature — 2 days ago

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. The intimacy of my marriage has been over for a while now. We're basically in a roommate situation where we co-parent. That being said I’m not looking to leave and don’t expect you to be either.

I want to feel that tingling in my gut and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being excited and encouraging of our accomplishments. I want to be someone you turn to when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around.

I'm looking for someone who is personable, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! I do have one child, if you do or don’t have kids that’s fine by me. For this to work there needs to be a spark of physical attraction for each of us of course. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures soon after we start, but understand if you want to wait a bit! As far as intimacy goes, I enjoy a slow burn and allowing that to naturally happen. I value discretion and assume you do as well.

A little about me, I'm 5’10”, around 190 lbs, dark brown hair, groomed short beard, dark features, kind smile. I do have a bit of a dad bod but working on it.

Luckily I’m available to talk the majority of most days, my work is pretty easy going most of the time and I do my best to chat as life allows outside the 9-5 and as my discretion lets me. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable.

If you're missing having someone giving you the attention you deserve, making you feel good about yourself, and getting those tingly feelings all over again, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. Looking preferably for you to be in Southwest Michigan/Michiana, Portage/Kalamazoo, or the Lansing area. Michigan and the Midwest are ok as well. Let’s chat!

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u/avgliterature — 19 days ago

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. The intimacy of my marriage has been over for a while now. We're basically in a roommate situation where we co-parent. That being said I’m not looking to leave and don’t expect you to be either.

I want to feel that tingling in my gut and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being excited and encouraging of our accomplishments. I want to be the first person you think of when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around. I'm not afraid of catching those feelings for one another either, starting online and hopefully meeting up if the stars align at some point.

Luckily I’m available to talk the majority of most days, my work is pretty easy going most of the time and I do my best to chat as life allows outside the 9-5 and as my discretion lets me. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable.

I'm looking for someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! I do have one child, if you do or don’t have kids that’s fine by me :) For this to work there needs to be a spark of physical attraction for each of us of course. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures soon after we start, but understand if you want to wait a bit! As far as intimacy goes, I enjoy a slow burn and allowing things to naturally happen.

A little about me, I'm 5’10”, around 190 lbs, dark brown hair, groomed short beard, dark features, kind smile. I do have a bit of a dad bod but I am on a fitness journey and have been continuing to work out consistently and have been getting outside as much as I can!

If you're missing having someone giving you the attention you deserve, making you feel good about yourself, and getting those tingly feelings all over again, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. Looking for you to be in Southwest Michigan/Michiana, Portage/Kalamazoo, or the Lansing area. Let’s chat!

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u/avgliterature — 22 days ago

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. The intimacy of my marriage has been over for a while now. We're basically in a roommate situation where we co-parent. That being said I’m not looking to leave and don’t expect you to be either.

I want to feel that tingling in my gut and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being excited and encouraging of our accomplishments. I want to be the first person you think of when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around. I'm not afraid of catching those feelings for one another either, starting online and hopefully meeting up if the stars align at some point.

Luckily I’m available to talk the majority of most days, my work is pretty easy going most of the time and I do my best to chat as life allows outside the 9-5 and as my discretion lets me. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable.

I'm looking for someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! I do have one child, if you do or don’t have kids that’s fine by me. For this to work there needs to be a spark of physical attraction for each of us of course. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures soon after we start, but understand if you want to wait a bit! As far as intimacy goes, I enjoy a slow burn and allowing that to naturally happen.

A little about me, I'm 5’10”, around 190 lbs, dark brown hair, groomed short beard, dark features, kind smile. I do have a bit of a dad bod but I am on a fitness journey and have been continuing to work out consistently and have been getting outside as much as I can!

If you're missing having someone giving you the attention you deserve, making you feel good about yourself, and getting those tingly feelings all over again, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. Looking preferably for you to be in Southwest Michigan/Michiana, Portage/Kalamazoo, or the Lansing area. Michigan and the Midwest are ok as well. Let’s chat!

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u/avgliterature — 22 days ago

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. The intimacy of my marriage has been over for a while now. We're basically in a roommate situation where we co-parent. That being said I’m not looking to leave and don’t expect you to be either.

I want to feel that tingling in my gut and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being excited and encouraging of our accomplishments. I want to be the first person you think of when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around. I'm not afraid of catching those feelings for one another either, starting online and hopefully meeting up if the stars align at some point.

Luckily I’m available to talk the majority of most days, my work is pretty easy going most of the time and I do my best to chat as life allows outside the 9-5 and as my discretion lets me. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable.

I'm looking for someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! I do have one child, if you do or don’t have kids that’s fine by me. For this to work there needs to be a spark of physical attraction for each of us of course. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures soon after we start, but understand if you want to wait a bit! As far as intimacy goes, I enjoy a slow burn and allowing that to naturally happen.

A little about me, I'm 5’10”, around 190 lbs, dark brown hair, groomed short beard, dark features, kind smile. I do have a bit of a dad bod but I am on a fitness journey and have been continuing to work out consistently and have been getting outside as much as I can!

If you're missing having someone giving you the attention you deserve, making you feel good about yourself, and getting those tingly feelings all over again, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. Looking preferably for you to be in Southwest Michigan/Michiana, Portage/Kalamazoo, or the Lansing area. Michigan and the Midwest are ok as well. Let’s chat!

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u/avgliterature — 22 days ago

I miss waking up excited, knowing there's someone who's thinking about me. The intimacy of my marriage has been over for a while now. We're basically in a roommate situation where we co-parent. That being said I’m not looking to leave and don’t expect you to be either.

I want to feel that tingling in my gut and the curiosity of getting to know one another. I want to be supportive of one another through our struggles and stress, as well as being excited and encouraging of our accomplishments. I want to be the first person you think of when you have some news or get the latest scoop on any gossip going around. I'm not afraid of catching those feelings for one another either, starting online and hopefully meeting up if the stars align at some point.

Luckily I’m available to talk the majority of most days, my work is pretty easy going most of the time and I do my best to chat as life allows outside the 9-5 and as my discretion lets me. I know consistency is key and I feel I do a good job of communicating if I'll be unavailable.

I'm looking for someone who is laid back, has a good sense of humor, and is just as curious about life as I am! I do have one child, if you do or don’t have kids that’s fine by me :) For this to work there needs to be a spark of physical attraction for each of us of course. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures soon after we start, but understand if you want to wait a bit! As far as intimacy goes, I enjoy a slow burn and allowing things to naturally happen.

A little about me, I'm 5’10”, around 190 lbs, dark brown hair, groomed short beard, dark features, kind smile. I do have a bit of a dad bod but I am on a fitness journey and have been continuing to work out consistently and have been getting outside as much as I can!

If you're missing having someone giving you the attention you deserve, making you feel good about yourself, and getting those tingly feelings all over again, feel free to reach out and let me know a bit about you. Looking for you to be in Southwest Michigan/Michiana, Portage/Kalamazoo, or the Lansing area. Let’s chat!

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u/avgliterature — 22 days ago