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When I first started, I didn't know you had to use lube. So I would dry rub myself and that was more painful than satisfying.

My boyfriend was eating me out, and he had read that if you press on the abdomen during oral, it increases pleasure (and pressure)….yeah and I ended up farting on his face... I wanted the earth to swallow me up.

What is really you thing that completes you

We’ll go first: penetration alone is not the full syllabus. Clitoral stimulation matters way more than people admit.

For people who have tried a few, what makes one stay in your regular rotation?

One thing I find interesting about toy use is how different people focus on completely different parts of the experience. Some people care most about the sensation, like texture, pressure, vibration, suction, or fullness. Others seem to enjoy the visual side more, like the shape, size, color, setup, or how the toy looks during use. I do not think one side is better than the other.

Some toys look wild at first, but then you realize the idea behind them actually makes sense. Other toys feel like they were designed only to shock people, not to be enjoyable or practical.

What is one toy you saw and first thought was ridiculous, but later understood why people enjoy it?

I feel like male toys still carry a weird stigma, even though people are more open about vibrators and wellness now. A lot of guys are curious, but they either joke about it or act like it means something negative about them. For me, the interesting part is not just pleasure. It is also learning what kind of pressure, texture, or pace actually feels good without performing for anyone. Sleeves, strokers, prostate toys, and automatic toys all seem to create very different experiences. What made it feel normal for you?

I’m seeing so many options that it gets confusing fast. Some sleeves are called beginner-friendly, some are intense, some look realistic, some are fantasy/anime, then there are different textures, tightness levels, cases, mounts, warming, drying, cleaning, all of it.

For people who already own a few, what would you tell someone before buying their first one?

Everyone shows their favorite toys, but I’m more curious about the ones that didn’t survive regular use.

Was there any toy you were excited to buy but barely use now?

Maybe it was too loud, weak, strong, hard to clean, annoying to charge, bad app, wrong size, awkward shape, or just not the sensation you expected.

Also, which toy surprised you the opposite way, something you thought would be average but became a regular favorite?

I’ve noticed Lovense toys are everywhere on cam sites now, especially with tip-controlled shows. As a viewer, it looks fun because tips feel more interactive, but I’m curious how people actually see it.

For viewers, do Lovense reactions make you tip more, or does it get boring after a while?

For creators, does it genuinely increase tips, or is it just something viewers expect now?

Also, does the platform matter much in India? Like Stripchat vs Chaturbate vs other sites?

For guys who moved from hand only to using a stroker, Fleshlight, automatic toy, or anything similar, did it actually change your routine long term?

I’m not asking in a “is it better than real sex” way. More like, did it make solo time more interesting, help you slow down, make things feel less repetitive, or did it become one of those things you use twice and then keep in a drawer?

Also, what mattered more after buying?

Curious because product pages make everything sound amazing, but real use is usually more practical.

I’ve been thinking about this after reading a lot of posts here where people want to try something new, but don’t know how to bring it up without making their partner feel weird.

In Indian relationships, even saying “let’s try a toy” can sound like a big statement, like the other person is not enough or something is missing. But at the same time, I feel toys could actually make communication easier if both people are chill about it.

For people who have tried vibrators, strokers, couples toys, rings, or even basic massagers with a partner, how did the conversation start?

Did it make things more fun, or did it become awkward at first?

For people who have bought a few toys, what feature looked important before buying but did not matter much later? App control, waterproofing, vibration modes, quiet motor, suction, remote control, size, brand name, warranty?

I feel a lot of product pages push features, but real users probably care about very different things after 2-3 uses.

I keep seeing Lovense being recommended mostly because of the app and long-distance control, but I’m curious how people actually use it after buying. Do you mostly use the toy manually, with a partner controlling it, public/discreet mode, music patterns, or cam sites? Sometimes tech features sound exciting before buying, but later people only use 1-2 basic things. What happened in your case?

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