We’re heading along to Rio’s in Kentish Town this evening, from about 7pm. We fancy sitting naked in the garden and drinking a bottle of wine.
Come along if you want to meet us and chat 👀
The key necklace on her and chastity cage on me will probably give us away. 😅
500+ days of denial and I no longer think about cumming
So a little background; my wife and I have chastity and cuckolding as pillars of our relationship. Both equally as devoted to each other and our lifestyle, so there is no issue of consent or one party being more or less in to things.
On January 1st 2025, we decided to attempt to go for a full year caged, with as few orgasms for me as she wanted to grant me.
By around month 4 with no orgasms, my wife decided (with the encouragement of a domme friend of hers/ours and her bull at the time) to make the full year orgasm free for me.
December 31st came and went (no 💦 pun intended) and she decided to reassess unlocking me for a release. She told me that a year was actually too easy and she prefers the sound of 1000 days as a milestone instead. We discussed this and I was given full authority to say yes or no. We agreed to give it a try.
All through this lockup period, I have been unlocked for PIV sex whenever my wife wants. I just have to stop short of cumming every time - something I’ve been well conditioned to do over the years so no issues there.
That brings us to today, 539 days in. No orgasms. And I’m reflecting on the time so far.
I live in a perpetual state of arousal. By brain is essentially saturated with desire 24/7. But curiously, I have absolutely no interest in cumming any more. And I don’t quite remember the last time that I did think about it.
Still horny, still love having sex with my wife, but we’ve effectively trained out of me the desire to orgasm. And I’m completely happy with where we are.
Anyone else experienced similar during long periods of denial?
So a little background; my wife and I have chastity and cuckolding as pillars of our relationship. Both equally as devoted to each other and our lifestyle, so there is no issue of consent or one party being more or less in to things.
On January 1st 2025, we decided to attempt to go for a full year caged, with as few orgasms for me as she wanted to grant me.
By around month 4 with no orgasms, my wife decided (with the encouragement of a domme friend of hers/ours and her bull at the time) to make the full year orgasm free for me.
December 31st came and went (no 💦 pun intended) and she decided to reassess unlocking me for a release. She told me that a year was actually too easy and she prefers the sound of 1000 days as a milestone instead. We discussed this and I was given full authority to say yes or no. We agreed to give it a try.
All through this lockup period, I have been unlocked for PIV sex whenever my wife wants. I just have to stop short of cumming every time - something I’ve been well conditioned to do over the years so no issues there.
That brings us to today, 539 days in. No orgasms. And I’m reflecting on the time so far.
I live in a perpetual state of arousal. By brain is essentially saturated with desire 24/7. But curiously, I have absolutely no interest in cumming any more. And I don’t quite remember the last time that I did think about it.
Still horny, still love having sex with my wife, but we’ve effectively trained out of me the desire to orgasm. And I’m completely happy with where we are.
Anyone else experienced similar during long periods of denial?
M37 F32. We’re also prepared to travel within UK. Drop us a message.
We are thinking about arranging a London g2g/meetup type thing for cuckold and chastity couples.
The idea potentially being the first time (or first few times if it’s a success) being couples only, and then the potential to add a dedicated meetup for couples and bulls down the line.
Is this something that anybody has an interest in? Trying to get an idea of if there’s demand for it, and if so would look to start a group specifically for it.