u/ldnsub-

Brief intro to us..my wife and I have been together for 10 years (married 1), cucking for 8, chastity for 5 and I’ve been locked and denied 24/7 since January 1st 2025. Initially meant to be a one year stint, upon completing 365 days she told me it was too easy, and the new goal was 1000 days.

All of this I must add, is entirely consensual.

Through this time, my wife and I continue to have sex, with only her getting to orgasm. This is in addition to her playing with bulls as and when we can fit that in to our lives.

She has now floated the idea of me spending the remainder of my 1000 days pussy free. We’re a little over half way, so that’s something around 440 days left to go.

I wanted to hear from anyone that has experienced anything similar. I’ll be honest and say I’m equal parts for and against it.

We’ll be floating around Angel for a few hours. Join us for a pint/glass of wine and a chat.

Not an invitation for anything other than good vibes and a chat about the lifestyle. We’ve met some lovely people doing this, let’s keep it that way 👌🏻😇

M37F32 - a few photos in profile. Femdom cuckold couple.

Open to various dynamics from you (femdom and sub, dom male & sub female, neither)

Solo female also welcome.

We’re heading along to Rio’s in Kentish Town this evening, from about 7pm. We fancy sitting naked in the garden and drinking a bottle of wine.

Come along if you want to meet us and chat 👀

The key necklace on her and chastity cage on me will probably give us away. 😅

500+ days of denial and I no longer think about cumming

So a little background; my wife and I have chastity and cuckolding as pillars of our relationship. Both equally as devoted to each other and our lifestyle, so there is no issue of consent or one party being more or less in to things.

On January 1st 2025, we decided to attempt to go for a full year caged, with as few orgasms for me as she wanted to grant me.

By around month 4 with no orgasms, my wife decided (with the encouragement of a domme friend of hers/ours and her bull at the time) to make the full year orgasm free for me.

December 31st came and went (no 💦 pun intended) and she decided to reassess unlocking me for a release. She told me that a year was actually too easy and she prefers the sound of 1000 days as a milestone instead. We discussed this and I was given full authority to say yes or no. We agreed to give it a try.

All through this lockup period, I have been unlocked for PIV sex whenever my wife wants. I just have to stop short of cumming every time - something I’ve been well conditioned to do over the years so no issues there.

That brings us to today, 539 days in. No orgasms. And I’m reflecting on the time so far.

I live in a perpetual state of arousal. By brain is essentially saturated with desire 24/7. But curiously, I have absolutely no interest in cumming any more. And I don’t quite remember the last time that I did think about it.

Still horny, still love having sex with my wife, but we’ve effectively trained out of me the desire to orgasm. And I’m completely happy with where we are.

Anyone else experienced similar during long periods of denial?