u/nyctn

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting(no online play, expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?

Like the headline suggests im seeking a submissive that wants to belong to a dom in every way possible and enjoy the security and comforts of being with one. Someone ideally under 45 who is open minded and looking to explore different aspects of kink along with exploring each other together.

**Seeking a Trad Wife for a Primal, Devoted, Sadistic Dom**

I’m a career-focused Dom looking for a woman who wants a **traditional, committed, real-world bond** — not endless online chatting. After proper vetting, the intention is to meet in person and build something grounded, steady, and deeply aligned.

I’m an ambivert and a white-collar professional who balances intellect with hands-on grit. I read a lot, wrench on machines, follow motorsports, ride, dive into anime and manga, and unwind with movies, shows, or a bit of recreational bud. I’ve got a calm, steady presence — and a soft spot for every pet I meet.

**What I’m Seeking**

A woman who wants connection, partnership, devotion, and a sense of belonging. Someone who feels at home in a traditional dynamic: nurturing, loyal, feminine, and drawn to the idea of building a life with a man who leads with strength, steadiness, and purpose.

A woman who wants to be chosen — and claimed.

**The Dynamic**

In public, I’m the composed, protective, gentlemanly Dom: the man whose hand rests at the small of your back because you’re mine.

In private, my energy turns more primal — intense, grounding, commanding. I guide, shape, and structure. I give you clear expectations, tasks, rituals, and the security that comes from knowing exactly where you stand.

I adapt to the woman in front of me:

Soft and patient when you’re exploring new territory.

Firm and unyielding when you crave someone who won’t be moved.

**My Style of Leadership**

I’m drawn to devotion, service, loyalty, domestic partnership, and a life built on shared values.

I’m equally drawn to the untamed parts of a dynamic — the parts where your surrender meets my steadiness, where your softness calls out the deeper, more instinct-driven side of me.

Everything here — like in any real relationship — is based on communication, compatibility, and consent. No assumptions, no rush, no pressure. Just intention.

So… if you’re a woman who wants a life where you can **belong, soften, follow, and flourish** under a man who knows how to lead—

What’s your excuse now for not messaging me?

Like the headline suggests im seeking a submissive that wants to belong to a dom in every way possible and enjoy the security and comforts of being with one. Someone ideally under 45 who is open minded and looking to explore different aspects of kink along with exploring each other together.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation.

Have you been curious about giving up control in your life? Learning to be a good slave to serve and please others? To live a life as proper eye candy and sexual object?

Blackmail ownership ensures no turning back, no second guessing. Permanent life and lifestyle change.

Experienced Dom into slave training/blackmailing females, as well as feminine bois

# My interest in sissys, fem, and trans are ONLY smooth, and fairly passable, petite and toned feminine body types#

My kinks are, but not necessarily limited to: Clothing control, Public tasks, CNC, Chastity, free use, orgasm control/denial, objectification, humiliation/degradation, breath play, a bit of a Sadist. Submissive couples.. .some more taboo not to be listed here.

Not into: Bathroom play/diapers/babyplay, CIS Men (aside from Financial blackmail or M/F submissive couples/cucks)

NOTE:

~I will expect immediate proof that you are genuine and serious... As well as fitting my personal preference in physical appearance

So I know you actually read this, and are genuinely serious and interested, tell me some basic information about you in your opening message. Age, location, experience, appearance, etc. And tell me you are ready to validate yourself

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting(no online play, expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting(no online play, expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?

Have you been curious about giving up control in your life? Learning to be a good slave to serve and please others? To live a life as proper eye candy and sexual object?

Blackmail ownership ensures no turning back, no second guessing. Permanent life and lifestyle change.

Experienced Dom into slave training/blackmailing females, as well as feminine bois

# My interest in sissys, fem, and trans are ONLY smooth, and fairly passable, petite and toned feminine body types#

My kinks are, but not necessarily limited to: Clothing control, Public tasks, CNC, Chastity, free use, orgasm control/denial, objectification, humiliation/degradation, breath play, a bit of a Sadist. Submissive couples.. .some more taboo not to be listed here.

Not into: Bathroom play/diapers/babyplay, CIS Men (aside from Financial blackmail or M/F submissive couples/cucks)

NOTE:

~I will expect immediate proof that you are genuine and serious... As well as fitting my personal preference in physical appearance

So I know you actually read this, and are genuinely serious and interested, tell me some basic information about you in your opening message. Age, location, experience, appearance, etc. And tell me you are ready to validate yourself

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting(no online play, expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting( expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?

Career minded Dom, seeking a steady submissive female partner to get to know in person after proper vetting(no online play, expectation would be to be able to meet). I would describe myself as an ambivert white collar professional who enjoys reading, being a grease monkey, motorsports, riding, anime, manga, movies, shows, smoking bud recreationally(sex drive and munchies oriented) and playing with all kinds of pets.

In the dynamic would describe myself as a gentle(in public mostly) primal Dom with a sadistic side that enjoys physical contact with his sub, assigning tasks, public fuckery...Can be soft for those that are new and want to explore the waters but rough for those that need it.

I'm into bondage, rope play, role playing, choking, cuffs, restraining, impact play, voyeurism, using toys, degradation and humiliation..

As in life all the things mentioned are negotiable, so what's your excuse now not to message me?