u/poe93001

40 [M4F] #WA - #Online sub looking for a connection and to serve a dominant woman

I'm looking for a dominant woman to get to know and chat a lot with. I have a lot of time and attention to give. I'm very responsive. I always have my phone around and am eager to connect and chat. Ideally we'd text a lot and work our ways up to occasional voice or video calls when we're available and free. I really enjoy the live interaction. I've only done a few of them before, but they've all been very intimate and memorable.

I'm a sub leaning switch. I like giving up control over certain aspects of my life and serving a woman and pleasing them. I enjoy hearing what turns women on. Nothing turns me on like hearing a woman turned on. What can I do to please you? That's my #1 priority. I have many different kinks and am open to exploring yours or having my limits pushed a bit.

I live in WA, am married and have a couple kids, my day to day is pretty ground hog day-ish with a few fun trips/weekend activities mixed in. I'm looking forward to the weather turning and spring coming. It's like a brand new fresh start for the year. I like to garden, run and program. I want to know all about you. I enjoy answering and asking lots of questions during the early phase. Let's have some fun! Stop by and tell me a bit about what you're seeking in a dynamic. I promise you’ll get a reply!

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u/poe93001 — 19 hours ago

40 [M4F] #WA - #Online sub looking for a connection and to serve a dominant woman

I'm looking for a dominant woman to get to know and chat a lot with. I have a lot of time and attention to give. I'm very responsive. I always have my phone around and am eager to connect and chat. Ideally we'd text a lot and work our ways up to occasional voice or video calls when we're available and free. I really enjoy the live interaction. I've only done a few of them before, but they've all been very intimate and memorable.

I'm a sub leaning switch. I like giving up control over certain aspects of my life and serving a woman and pleasing them. I enjoy hearing what turns women on. Nothing turns me on like hearing a woman turned on. What can I do to please you? That's my #1 priority. I have many different kinks and am open to exploring yours or having my limits pushed a bit.

I live in WA, am married and have a couple kids, my day to day is pretty ground hog day-ish with a few fun trips/weekend activities mixed in. I'm looking forward to the weather turning and summer coming. It's like a brand new fresh start for the year. I like to garden, run and program. I want to know all about you. I enjoy answering and asking lots of questions during the early phase. Let's have some fun! Stop by and tell me a bit about what you're seeking in a dynamic. I promise you’ll get a reply!

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u/poe93001 — 20 hours ago

40 [M4F] #online PST Any kinky, dominant, controlling women?

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport and a good sfw connection of course. One without the other is no fun.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types and ages are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 2 days ago

40 [M4F] #online PST Any kinky, dominant, controlling women?

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport and a good sfw connection of course. One without the other is no fun.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types and ages are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 8 days ago

40 [M4F] #online PST Any kinky, dominant, controlling women?

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport and a good sfw connection of course. One without the other is no fun.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types and ages are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 9 days ago

40 [M4F] #online PST Any kinky, dominant, controlling women?

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport of course. I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw.

I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

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u/poe93001 — 11 days ago

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport and a good sfw connection of course. One without the other is no fun.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types and ages are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 17 days ago

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport and a good sfw connection of course. One without the other is no fun.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types and ages are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 23 days ago

I'm looking for a dominant woman to get to know and chat a lot with. I have a lot of time and attention to give. I'm very responsive. I always have my phone around and am eager to connect and chat. Ideally we'd text a lot and work our ways up to occasional voice or video calls when we're available and free. I really enjoy the live interaction. I've only done a few of them before, but they've all been very intimate and memorable.

I like giving up control over certain aspects of my life and serving a woman and pleasing them. I enjoy hearing what turns women on. Nothing turns me on like hearing a woman turned on. What can I do to please you? That's my #1 priority. I have many different kinks and am open to exploring yours or having my limits pushed a bit.

I live in WA, am married and have a couple kids, my day to day is pretty ground hog day-ish with a few fun trips/weekend activities mixed in. I'm looking forward to the weather turning and summer coming. I like to garden, run and program. I want to know all about you. I enjoy answering and asking lots of questions during the early phase. Let's have some fun! Stop by and tell me a bit about what you're seeking in a dynamic. I promise you’ll get a reply!

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u/poe93001 — 23 days ago

I’m mostly referring to online dynamics, but how do you respond to task failures? Of course life gets in the way, or sometimes tasks are proposed which the sub doesn’t want to do. How do doms usually respond? Seems like the typical options are

  1. Give a punishment which results in either

a. The punishment being completed and things going back to normal or

b. The sub fails to complete the punishment too and then what? It seems like dynamic falls apart after this

Or

  1. Ignore sub, withdraw attention or something which also isn’t great for the dynamic.
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u/poe93001 — 25 days ago

There’s just something about a kinky, dominant woman who knows what she wants and takes it that’s really hot to me. Tell me how to please you and what you like. I love hearing the phrase “I want…” After we establish some good rapport of course.

I’m not looking for a kink dispenser. I want to know the sfw you just as much as the nsfw. I like getting to know new people. I want to know everything about you that you're willing to share. The weirder you are the better. What you do and what your typical day is, what you like, what you're looking for, what your goals are, what makes you sad and happy etc.

I'm married, tall, slim, blond, a couple kids. The west coast is the best coast. Some days I have more free time than others. I’m online a lot most days and should respond pretty quickly to messages after the initial intro is made. I used to have a lot of hobbies, hiking, sailing, learning a new language, playing guitar, but nowadays most of my time is spent working/parenting. I swing trade stocks and follow the market very closely day to day. I don't ghost. If I'm not feeling it, I'll tell you rather than just ignoring you. I enjoy voice chats/memos. I'm usually pretty good at keeping the conversation flowing. Stop by and say hello and tell me how I can make your day better. Are you angry today? Sad? Bored? How do you wish you felt? I’ll do my best to make it happen.

Ideally you enjoy occasional live calls as they are my absolute favorite when we can both find time for them and after we’re comfortable with each other and reach that stage. Any race and most body types are fine with me. I’m good with curvy tho I’m not into obese. I have a preference for short brunettes with long hair, but this is more want to haves rather than need to haves at this point. Please just have time and attention to give and I will return it in spades.

I’m happy to discuss kinks in DM. I’m fairly flexible and open to a lot of different things though I have preferences and limits of course. My main kink is receiving attention and learning what you want and need and how I can give that to you. The more detailed and specific you can be with what you want and like in my eyes, the hotter it is to me.

Most of my alone time is during the work week. I wfh most days. I chat outside of those hours too, but may be slower to reply. I would love to have someone to keep me company and make our own little world/fantasy. Whatever that may be. Weekends I don’t disappear, but I have much less privacy. Don’t feel like you need to write an essay to say hello, just tell me your age/timezone/relationship status and a bit about what you’re seeking. Some people disappear if they don’t check all the boxes, I guess feeling like they’re depriving me of my perfect match but I’m nothing if not flexible and a quick learner. I’ll take a good match over a non existent perfect match any day.

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u/poe93001 — 26 days ago