u/1cantsaythisonbumbl3

I’m wanting someone & something Fun to Add to Life.. looking for Regular Connection regardless of the term used; Something Fun & Chill; Situationship; Casual & ongoing; Friends w/ Benefits; Kinky D/s FB; Play Partner, etc. (Open to More overall But I'm not dating right now or rushed in life for 'The One'/Forever person)

Hedonistic at core/Primally driven, Daddy/Dom type overall for a Kinky/Sub/Servicing type or Submissive-leaning in bed, but it's moreover about having the right chemistry for something good (kinks and labels aside)

I'm 38 y/o, 6'0, Brown man, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, tattooed, and currently more of a dad bod (see partial pic in profile). I'm single, straight, live alone, will host in #Burnaby (Brentwood mall/skytrain area.. it would be practical if you’re close/or at least not very far, maybe in a nearby city at most)

life's long work days, and long weeks, but it's not all work; I'm busy Mon-Fri business hours, generally freed up wanting to disconnect from my devices, to pour few drinks, have weed, chill, hang & bang (play) with a fun woman on my wavelength when comes evening.. It's mostly about adding something good to life.. regularly ongoing is best so a good connection is the main thing.

I'm not swiping the apps (posting on Reddit and FetLife with my cards on the table) check out old Reddit posts under my profile if interested or a more in depth Fetlife as well.. I'm very kinky w/ a high sex drive but I'm not chasing one specific kink-fulfillment, I want someone I mesh well with overall for a consistent fun situation (being exclusive, longer running, meeting often is ideal)

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If you're interested & seeking similar then: introduce yourself with some info (hey or age/F is not enough - say something that tells me about you, what caught your eye, what you’re looking for etc), then let's swap pics to check baseline attraction, then public meet up somewhere for a lowkey chemistry check to see if we'd click IRL for more.. Note: I'm not here for random one off hookups But I'm also not here for neverending text based chats or online stuff/long distance, etc

I can meet during daytime, especially for a quick vibe check at first (being I’m remote, wfh, have meetings) but I am generally busy during the the workdays and work week so am wanting someone also looking for meeting in the evenings/nights for many hours at a time (and/or a full evening, or the full day overnight type play sessions on a weekend).. I'm seeking good chemistry, a fun vibe, good sex, each meetup ending feeling fulfilled and wanting it/more again soon another day..

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Preferences aside, I don’t like to list a “type”, I honestly find many different aesthetics/looks or types attractive.. I’ve genuinely equally liked a range and I’d add to this, I do like added dimensions from age gaps, contrasts and differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities/mannerism, from other countries/different backgrounds, etc.) so, if its there then it’s nice to have within an overall connection but I’m not seeking it out in a “build a person” type approach based on a myriad of preferences - looks & chemistry both do matter, either mutual interest is/isn't there, its not about fantasy lists.. I’m open to seeing who’s on the other end thinking alike & interested in fun regular situation/kinky fwb match etc where there are some noticeable contrasts between us.

Single kinky late-30s Brown man seeking regular FWB. I'm in North Burnaby, by Brentwood mall/skytrain area.. looking for something that's ongoing and fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. preferably we’d mesh well enough to want to keep it going a longer time and ideally matching kinkwise; re: older posts in profile.

Preferences aside, I don’t like to list a “type”, I honestly find many different aesthetics/looks or types attractive.. I’ve genuinely equally liked a range from: dark black to pale white, curvy to petite, early20s to late40s, short to tall, local women to those born raised in other countries but here now, etc because good looking is good looking Plus* personality and energy combine to create actual real world attraction and chemistry.. but I’ll add to this, I do like added dimensions from age gaps, contrasts and differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities/mannerism, from other countries, different backgrounds, etc.) so, if its there then it’s nice to have within an overall connection but I’m not seeking it out in a “build a person” type approach based on a myriad of preferences - looks & chemistry both do matter, either mutual interest is/isn't there, its not about fantasy lists.. I’m open to seeing who’s on the other end thinking alike and interested in fun regular situation/kinky fwb match.

Single kinky late-30s Brown man seeking a FWB. I enjoy added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (older or younger, varying styles and personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.).. if there then nice bonus in overall connection, as is D/s dynamic or lots of alignment kinkwise; see old posts in my profile

I'm in North Burnaby, by Brentwood mall/skytrain area.. looking for something that's ongoing and fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. preferably we’ll mesh well enough to want to keep it going longer term..

Single, kinky, late-30s man for older or younger. I enjoy added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.) so, if there then is nice to have within an overall connection (I’m looking for something that's ongoing, fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. preferably we mesh so well we want to keep it going for longer time..)

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I’m wanting someone & something Fun to Add to Life.. looking for Regular Connection regardless of the term used; Something Fun & Chill; Situationship; Casual & ongoing; Friends w/ Benefits; Kinky D/s FB; Play Partner, etc. (Open to More overall But I'm not dating right now or rushed in life for 'The One'/Forever person)

Hedonistic at core/Primally driven, Daddy/Dom type overall for a Kinky/Sub/Servicing type or Submissive-leaning in bed, but it's moreover about having the right chemistry for something good (kinks and labels aside)

I'm 38 y/o, 6'0, Brown man, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, tattooed, and currently more of a dad bod (see partial pic in profile). I'm single, straight, live alone, will host in #Burnaby (Brentwood mall/skytrain area.. it would be practical if you’re close/or at least not very far, maybe in a nearby city at most)

life's long work days, and long weeks, but it's not all work; I'm busy Mon-Fri business hours, generally freed up wanting to disconnect from my devices, to pour few drinks, have weed, chill, hang & bang (play) with a fun woman on my wavelength when comes evening.. It's mostly about adding something good to life.. regularly ongoing is best so a good connection is the main thing.

I'm not swiping the apps (posting on Reddit and FetLife with my cards on the table) check out old Reddit posts under my profile if interested or a more in depth Fetlife as well.. I'm very kinky w/ a high sex drive but I'm not chasing one specific kink-fulfillment, I want someone I mesh well with overall for a consistent fun situation (being exclusive, longer running, meeting often is ideal)

Kinky, Single late-30s man here seeking a regular FWB.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And I enjoy the added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.) so, if there then is nice to have within an overall connection

I’m looking for a good connection for something that's ongoing, fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. and preferably we mesh well enough to want to keep it going and to have for a longer time.. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/vibe for what we like to start with. I’m busy, not on the swiping apps or actively dating/looking to, so posted on here to find someone I like and click well with

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Me: attractive, 38 y/o, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, with a shaved head and non-bearded, currently more dad bod (partial pic in profile), well groomed, clean/ddf. I can host and do prefer to, I live by myself in #Burnaby, I’m nearby the #Brentwood Mall and SkyTrain area

I'm focused on work, so keep busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature and balanced person who wants to add something/someone fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place.. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings.. I have a high sex drive that’s directly correlated with chemistry; I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but the overall energy/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for it to last for longer-run.. which is my goal

I’m wanting someone & something Fun to Add to Life.. looking for Regular Connection regardless of the term used; Something Fun & Chill; Situationship; Casual & ongoing; Friends w/ Benefits; Kinky D/s FB; Play Partner, etc. (Open to More overall But I'm not dating right now or rushed in life for 'The One'/Forever person)

Hedonistic at core/Primally driven, Daddy/Dom type overall for a Kinky/Sub/Servicing type or Submissive-leaning in bed, but it's moreover about having the right chemistry for something good (kinks and labels aside)

I'm 38 y/o, 6'0, Brown man, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, tattooed, and currently more of a dad bod (see partial pic in profile). I'm single, straight, live alone, will host in #Burnaby (Brentwood mall/skytrain area.. it would be practical if you’re close/or at least not very far, maybe in a nearby city at most)

life's long work days, and long weeks, but it's not all work; I'm busy Mon-Fri business hours, generally freed up wanting to disconnect from my devices, to pour few drinks, have weed, chill, hang & bang (play) with a fun woman on my wavelength when comes evening.. It's mostly about adding something good to life.. regularly ongoing is best so a good connection is the main thing.

I'm not swiping the apps (posting on Reddit and FetLife with my cards on the table) check out old Reddit posts under my profile if interested or a more in depth Fetlife as well.. I'm very kinky w/ a high sex drive but I'm not chasing one specific kink-fulfillment, I want someone I mesh well with overall for a consistent fun situation (being exclusive, longer running, meeting often is ideal)

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If you're interested & seeking similar then: introduce yourself with some info (hey or age/F is not enough - say something that tells me about you, what caught your eye, what you’re looking for etc), then let's swap pics to check baseline attraction, then public meet up somewhere for a lowkey chemistry check to see if we'd click IRL for more.. Note: I'm not here for random one off hookups But I'm also not here for neverending text based chats or online stuff/long distance, etc

I can meet during daytime, especially for a quick vibe check at first (being I’m remote, wfh, have meetings) but I am generally busy during the the workdays and work week so am wanting someone also looking for meeting in the evenings/nights for many hours at a time (and/or a full evening, or the full day overnight type play sessions on a weekend).. I'm seeking good chemistry, a fun vibe, good sex, each meetup ending feeling fulfilled and wanting it/more again soon another day..

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex or attach the MommyDom/Worship/AgePlay angle to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, and not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one time hookups. I like a lot of things and have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just here looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play.. ideally primal, erotic ANR-ABF in a kinky FWB dynamic

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex or attach the MommyDom/Worship/AgePlay angle to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, and not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one time hookups. I like a lot of things and have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just here looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play.. ideally primal, erotic ANR-ABF in a kinky FWB dynamic

———

If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex as nurturing attaching Mommy Dom/Age Play etc to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play

———

If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex as nurturing attaching Mommy Dom/Age Play etc to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play

———

If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying (wet & dry) who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex as nurturing attaching Mommy Dom/Age Play etc to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But~ that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

I’m seeking an ongoing fun FWB / regular Play Partner - looking for a single woman who’s ideally close to or in #Burnaby to vibe with..

Me: Brown man, 38 y/o, 6ft, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, no beard, tattooed, currently more dad bod; I have partial sfw pics in my profile to start with & can swap face pics too after you introduce yourself and we've talked..

I'm single, straight, living alone & I can host, I’m nearby Brentwood mall. I'm busy, private, mature, have enough on my plate.. seeking a consistent fun situation, have drinks, chill, hang and bang; enjoy each other in a regularly ongoing capacity.. preferably around once a week on average & for longer sessions..

I’m kinky but everyone's got kinks, it's more about the energy.. I prefer exclusivity; I’m into a lot but balanced, and have a higher sex drive, I'm insatiable with the right counterpart/matchup.. I like to go many times over the course of many hours or full night..

Regarding kinks, I've gone all cards up in older posts; no checklists or fantasy mining, I'm here for something worthwhile, and of course I'd want to keep it going as long as possible when I've met someone great wanting same.. I’ve had great FWB in past, but not yet from reddit or fetlife type spaces..

I'm available weekday evening/nights and/or weekends, but I can meetup weekday daytime for the initial vibe check since I'm remote/WFH/meetings/etc but tend to get busy during the workdays so can’t be someone only available daytimes..

If interested, Introduce yourself, let's check vibes first, see if there's a mutual interest to pursue anything, then feel things out IRL

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

I’ve posted many times before but zero luck connecting online & find the acronyms lead to varying assumptions; trying again with more context to meet the right woman

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

It's been a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope to search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find.. I want a counterpart with as much affinity for it as me.. including solely dry without any intention of lactation..

So, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying [wet & dry] who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into kinker & rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic so we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one fun part of the whole overarching vibe..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, a dad bod currently (pic in profile), clean, mature, balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it

I’ve always considered Adult Nursing to be lactating or non lactating but at the same level of focus/attention; and Adult Breastfeeding to be specific to lactation only; and both being generally Breast Play.. All the terms are similar but regardless of which acronym, I’m looking for a woman that enjoys this as much as kissing/oral/sex.. and like me she sees it as an overall sexual activity, not like those people who do this without sex as nurturing attaching Mommy Dom/Age Play etc to it - that’s not for me. Although I’m kinky, that doesn’t jive energy wise.. I’ve also seen posts by those who want no sex suckling only but that to me is like oral without sex, I want more.. to me it’s a part of the whole & I’m not seeking one act.. I’m not compartmentalizing my desires to meet a willing woman who has a different perspective just to suck tits!

But* that said, breast play focused w/ massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. even though that’s not my overall goal..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a fun ongoing connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head to be in my body" indulging in carnal fun play

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly and are we aligned in our views of this or in the ballpark

I’m seeking an ongoing fun FWB / regular Play Partner - looking for a single woman who’s ideally close to or in #Burnaby to vibe with..

Me: Brown man, 38 y/o, 6ft, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, no beard, tattooed, currently more dad bod; I have partial sfw pics in my profile to start with & can swap face pics too after you introduce yourself and we've talked..

I'm single, straight, living alone & I can host, I’m nearby Brentwood mall. I'm busy, private, mature, have enough on my plate.. seeking a consistent fun situation, have drinks, chill, hang and bang; enjoy each other in a regularly ongoing capacity.. preferably around once a week on average & for longer sessions..

I’m kinky but everyone's got kinks, it's more about the energy.. I prefer exclusivity; I’m into a lot but balanced, and have a higher sex drive, I'm insatiable with the right counterpart/matchup.. I like to go many times over the course of many hours or full night..

Regarding kinks, I've gone all cards up in older posts; no checklists or fantasy mining, I'm here for something worthwhile, and of course I'd want to keep it going as long as possible when I've met someone great wanting same.. I’ve had great FWB in past, but not yet from reddit or fetlife type spaces..

I'm available weekday evening/nights and/or weekends, but I can meetup weekday daytime for the initial vibe check since I'm remote/WFH/meetings/etc but tend to get busy during the workdays so can’t be someone only available daytimes..

If interested, Introduce yourself, let's check vibes first, see if there's a mutual interest to pursue anything, then feel things out IRL

I’m seeking an ongoing fun FWB / regular Play Partner - looking for a single woman who’s ideally close to or in #Burnaby to vibe with..

Me: Brown man, 38 y/o, 6ft, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, no beard, tattooed, currently more dad bod; I have partial sfw pics in my profile to start with & can swap face pics too after you introduce yourself and we've talked..

I'm single, straight, living alone & I can host, I’m nearby Brentwood mall. I'm busy, private, mature, have enough on my plate.. seeking a consistent fun situation, have drinks, chill, hang and bang; enjoy each other in a regularly ongoing capacity.. preferably around once a week on average & for longer sessions..

I’m kinky but everyone's got kinks, it's more about the energy.. I prefer exclusivity; I’m into a lot but balanced, and have a higher sex drive, I'm insatiable with the right counterpart/matchup.. I like to go many times over the course of many hours or full night..

Regarding kinks, I've gone all cards up in older posts; no checklists or fantasy mining, I'm here for something worthwhile, and of course I'd want to keep it going as long as possible when I've met someone great wanting same.. I’ve had great FWB in past, but not yet from reddit or fetlife type spaces..

I'm available weekday evening/nights and/or weekends, but I can meetup weekday daytime for the initial vibe check since I'm remote/WFH/meetings/etc but tend to get busy during the workdays so can’t be someone only available daytimes..

If interested, Introduce yourself, let's check vibes first, see if there's a mutual interest to pursue anything, then feel things out IRL

I’m seeking an ongoing fun FWB / regular Play Partner - looking for a single woman who’s ideally close to or in Burnaby to vibe with..

Me: Brown man, 38 y/o, 6ft, attractive, clean/ddf, well groomed, shaved head, no beard, tattooed, currently more dad bod; I have partial sfw pics in my profile to start with & can swap face pics too after you introduce yourself and we've talked..

I'm single, straight, living alone & I can host, I’m nearby Brentwood mall. I'm busy, private, mature, have enough on my plate.. seeking a consistent fun situation, have drinks, chill, hang and bang; enjoy each other in a regularly ongoing capacity.. preferably around once a week on average & for longer sessions..

I’m kinky but everyone's got kinks, it's more about the energy.. I prefer exclusivity; I’m into a lot but balanced, and have a higher sex drive, I'm insatiable with the right counterpart/matchup.. I like to go many times over the course of many hours or full night..

Regarding kinks, I've gone all cards up in older posts; no checklists or fantasy mining, I'm here for something worthwhile, and of course I'd want to keep it going as long as possible when I've met someone great wanting same.. I’ve had great FWB in past, but not yet from reddit or fetlife type spaces..

I'm available weekday evening/nights and/or weekends, but I can meetup weekday daytime for the initial vibe check since I'm remote/WFH/meetings/etc but tend to get busy during the workdays so can’t be someone only available daytimes..

If interested, Introduce yourself, let's check vibes first, see if there's a mutual interest to pursue anything, then feel things out IRL

Kinky, Single late-30s man here seeking a regular FWB.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And I enjoy the added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.) so, if there then is nice to have within an overall connection

I’m looking for a good connection for something that's ongoing, fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. and preferably we mesh well enough to want to keep it going and to have for a longer time.. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/vibe for what we like to start with. I’m busy, not on the swiping apps or actively dating/looking to, so posted on here to find someone I like and click well with

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Me: attractive, 38 y/o, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, with a shaved head and non-bearded, currently more dad bod (partial pic in profile), well groomed, clean/ddf. I can host and do prefer to, I live by myself in #Burnaby, I’m nearby the #Brentwood Mall and SkyTrain area

I'm focused on work, so keep busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature and balanced person who wants to add something/someone fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place.. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings.. I have a high sex drive that’s directly correlated with chemistry; I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but the overall energy/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for it to last for longer-run.. which is my goal

Kinky, Single late-30s man here seeking a regular FWB.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And I enjoy the added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.) so, if there then is nice to have within an overall connection

I’m looking for a good connection for something that's ongoing, fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. and preferably we mesh well enough to want to keep it going and to have for a longer time.. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/vibe for what we like to start with. I’m busy, not on the swiping apps or actively dating/looking to, so posted on here to find someone I like and click well with

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Me: attractive, 38 y/o, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, with a shaved head and non-bearded, currently more dad bod (partial pic in profile), well groomed, clean/ddf. I can host and do prefer to, I live by myself in #Burnaby, I’m nearby the #Brentwood Mall and SkyTrain area

I'm focused on work, so keep busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature and balanced person who wants to add something/someone fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place.. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings.. I have a high sex drive that’s directly correlated with chemistry; I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but the overall energy/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for it to last for longer-run.. which is my goal

Kinky, Single late-30s man here seeking a regular FWB.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And I enjoy the added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc.) so, if there then is nice to have within an overall connection

I’m looking for a good connection for something that's ongoing, fun.. wanting a woman in a similar headspace as me.. and preferably we mesh well enough to want to keep it going and to have for a longer time.. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/vibe for what we like to start with. I’m busy, not on the swiping apps or actively dating/looking to, so posted on here to find someone I like and click well with

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Me: attractive, 38 y/o, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, with a shaved head and non-bearded, currently more dad bod (partial pic in profile), well groomed, clean/ddf. I can host and do prefer to, I live by myself in #Burnaby, I’m nearby the #Brentwood Mall and SkyTrain area

I'm focused on work, so keep busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature and balanced person who wants to add something/someone fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place.. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings.. I have a high sex drive that’s directly correlated with chemistry; I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but the overall energy/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for it to last for longer-run.. which is my goal

Kinky, Single late-30s man here seeking real world fun.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And enjoy the added dimensions of age gaps, contrasts & differences (be that older or younger, varying styles & personalities, from other countries, of different backgrounds, etc) so, if there, that’s nice to have within an overall connection

I’m looking for a good connection - something that's ongoing, fun... Ideally a woman in a similar headspace as me... and preferably we mesh well enough to want to keep it going and to have for a longer time… I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/click for what we like to start with. I’m busy, not on the swiping apps or actively dating/looking to, so posted on here to find someone I like and vibe well with

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Me: I'm told/considered attractive, 38 y/o, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, non-bearded, 6ft, currently the dad bod (partial pic in profile), am well groomed, clean. I can host and do prefer to, I live by myself in #Burnaby, I’m nearby the #Brentwood Mall and SkyTrain area

I'm focused on work, so keep busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature and balanced person who wants to add something/someone fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place. I want to pour some drinks, chill, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings... I have a high sex drive directly correlated with chemistry; I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but the overall energy/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for it to last for longer-run... which is my goal

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If you're genuinely interested then introduce* yourself with a bit of info, what caught your eye, etc. in your first message.. I'm looking for a local IRL connection.. ideally for nights & weekends, and hoping to mesh well for the ‘full evening meetup once a week rendezvous for many hours of play’ kind of overall chemistry for FWB, to just disconnect from everything else and indulge ourselves