u/1cantsaythisonbumbl3

Honestly, I’m just a single, kinky, busy, child-free and pet-free, 38 y/o man who enjoys having freedom in life.. looking for a good connection whether it stays casual or becomes more.. I’m not swiping any of the apps and I haven’t been on them for years. I feel like, life’s been all work for the last while. There’s more* under my profile* including partial pic and overall casual search, full cards up in case it resonates and there’s someone interested.. I’m not in a rush for anything serious nor otherwise, but open to either.. it’s about the person, vibe, connection..

and in the meantime wanting fun exclusive fwb situation with a good matchup who’d also be content having that. seems equally as much work finding good fwb as dating since I’m seeking someone I like for something ongoing, so consistency/chemistry/energy makes it worth having. not expecting any relationship from kinky fwb posts but that said also not here looking for random hookups/ons.

ultimately, I don’t want kids or pets, and want to meet a kinky match who thinks alike for something to last; this might? be a way to meet someone great by putting it all out there.. casually connect see where it leads, whether endgame or not, minus heavy front loaded expectations of longterm plan just because we’re in a narrower pool.. I’ve seen ads focused only on cf life or kink which I want too but also I’m not chasing a relationship on basis of it alone.. I want to vibe first & enjoy that connection, while knowing we both want similar life helps if it led to more..

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's def a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find, which I'd be happy to connect with for ongoing fun..

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I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it whether wet or dry, someone into it as much as the rest

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of truly raw honest play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink, power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more, that's my hedonic state, not as used as synonym for sensual..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy having single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex and breastplay like I enjoy

But* honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. although that is not my overall goal here

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal fun play, suspended in it with my likeminded matchup.. often

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If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly

Honestly, I’m just a single, kinky, busy, child-free and pet-free, 38 y/o man who enjoys having freedom in life.. looking for a good connection whether it stays casual or becomes more.. I’m not swiping any of the apps and I haven’t been on them for years. I feel like, life’s been all work for the last while. There’s more* under my profile* including partial pic and overall casual search, full cards up in case it resonates and there’s someone interested.. I’m not in a rush for anything serious nor otherwise, but open to either.. it’s about the person, vibe, connection..

and in the meantime wanting fun exclusive fwb situation with a good matchup who’d also be content having that. seems equally as much work finding good fwb as dating since I’m seeking someone I like for something ongoing, so consistency/chemistry/energy makes it worth having. not expecting any relationship from kinky fwb posts but that said also not here looking for random hookups/ons.

ultimately, I don’t want kids or pets, and want to meet a kinky match who thinks alike for something to last; this might? be a way to meet someone great by putting it all out there.. casually connect see where it leads, whether endgame or not, minus heavy front loaded expectations of longterm plan just because we’re in a narrower pool.. I’ve seen ads focused only on cf life or kink which I want too but also I’m not chasing a relationship on basis of it alone.. I want to vibe first & enjoy that connection, while knowing we both want similar life helps if it led to more..

Honestly, I’m just a single, kinky, busy, child-free and pet-free, 38 y/o man who enjoys having freedom in life.. looking for a good connection whether it stays casual or becomes more.. I’m not swiping any of the apps and I haven’t been on them for years. I feel like, life’s been all work for the last while. There’s more* under my profile including partial pic and overall casual search, full cards up in case it resonates and there’s someone interested.. I’m not in a rush for anything serious nor otherwise, but open to either.. it’s about the person, vibe, connection.. and in the meantime wanting fun exclusive fwb situation

ultimately I don’t want kids or pets, and want to meet a woman who doesn’t either for something that lasts; this might be a way to meet someone great by putting it all out there.. casually connect see where it leads, whether endgame or not, minus heavy front loaded expectations of longterm plan just because we’re in a narrower pool..
I’ve seen ads focused only on childfree life which I want too but also I’m not chasing a relationship on basis of it alone.. I want to vibe first, enjoy that connection, while knowing we both want the same helps if it gets serious, albeit not expecting a relationship from kink/fwb posts but that said also not into/looking for random hookups.. seems equally as much work finding good fwb as dating

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's def a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find, which I'd be happy to connect with for ongoing fun..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it whether wet or dry, someone into it as much as the rest

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of truly raw honest play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink, power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more, that's my hedonic state, not as used as synonym for sensual..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy having single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex and breastplay like I enjoy

But* honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. although that is not my overall goal here

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal fun play, suspended in it with my likeminded matchup.. often

———
If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's def a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find, which I'd be happy to connect with for ongoing fun..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it whether wet or dry, someone into it as much as the rest

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of truly raw honest play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink, power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more, that's my hedonic state, not as used as synonym for sensual..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy having single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex and breastplay like I enjoy

But* honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. although that is not my overall goal here

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal fun play, suspended in it with my likeminded matchup.. often

———
If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly

The ANR/ABF acronyms aside, to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed.. others have different perspectives..

Before the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. and it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking & focus that happens with non.. which is great but sadly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking online for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's def a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non-lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is a realistic find, which I'd be happy to connect with for ongoing fun..

———

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking something.. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm usually pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have my similar availability too.. easier to meet, even if just once a week

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife in an overarching FWB with ANR/ABF a part of it whether wet or dry, someone into it as much as the rest

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of truly raw honest play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink, power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more, that's my hedonic state, not as used as synonym for sensual..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy having single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex and breastplay like I enjoy

But* honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing thing can be cool too with the right woman.. although that is not my overall goal here

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm on here searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a good situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal fun play, suspended in it with my likeminded matchup.. often

———
If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough so, tell me a little about yourself and what caught your eye; basics of who/what/where/why inspire me to reply.. who’s on the other end and what is she wanting exactly

I’m a natural kinkster, mix of primal daddy dom energy. The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, and spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived’ & passionate kink energy having single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into that unbridled primally driven sex that’s kinky but is more..

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rougher, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of rawer hedonistic play which for me means expressed in rough sex, D/s play, kink and power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & much more, that's my hedonic state, not as it's used as synonym for sensual.. to clarify I'm looking for more than one thing here, I'm here looking for a overall fun match up in bed

There's a lot to the acronyms if you know them, but all a niche desire combined, not known or misunderstood..

I’ll especially clarify this terminology given mixed views, ANR/ABF: I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I had wet from a lactating woman... this happened with a few women... I liked it each time… enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later dry with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, but aside from of course the dry sucking focused generally.

I'm looking here for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in past.. having been with women into titsucking and all around breastplaying who were kinky/leaned submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play, dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR/ABF (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more of the passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe.. it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I need, natural area of focus/attention in bed

——— me:

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking fun match. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby, by Brentwood mall/skytrain…
I do prefer to meet late evenings/nights/weekends given I'm generally pretty busy Mon-Fri in business hours so would be best if you have a similar availability to meet..

Currently I'm not dating/not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a fun situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head, in my body" indulging.. and feel one long rendezvous a week would satiate me

——— you:

If you’ve read all this, it must have resonated.. if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all I get is age/F, hi, generic chat, etc that's not enough, do tell me a bit about yourself and what interested you. The basics of who/what/where/why inspires me to reply

Moreover I'm a Primal-Daddy / Daddy-Dom type, I click the most with naturally Submissive-Servicing in bed type. I do prefer experienced kinky women, open to amount of overlap in what we each like.. Overall I click with range of kinkier women, it's not about roles.. I mostly enjoy D/s off natural energy/power exchange/dynamics, (I'm not a roleplay person) and I have a higher sex drive so like going many times over each meet up playing and getting off repeatedly. I'm into a lot, I've got more in depth writings in my profile. I'm seeking a local single woman that's compatible..

I can host in #Burnaby near the Brentwood mall/skytrain, I'm attractive, Single, late-30s Brown man, 6ft, tattooed, with a shaved head, no beard, and got a beefier use to workout dad bod for the time being… partial pics in my profile, happy to swap face pics after you introduce yourself / what caught your interest…

I'm not dating around, not looking for anything beyond fun good ongoing (preferably exclusive) kinky/sub, FWB/FB/play partner/playmate... wanting a consistent good lighthearted situation; I’m just interested in keeping it low-key, simple, stay in vibe/drinks/weed, de-stress, play with a woman on the same wavelength.. ideally keep that going longer term as I don't enjoy always looking for someone and not after a series of hookups.. I prefer keeping a very regular situation with one woman I click well with overall.. I’d prefer one good lengthy play session a week with a fun matchup…

Me: late-30s, 6ft, Brown man born/raised in Canada, of South Asian/Indian background, clean/ddf, physically currently more of the dad bod, tattooed, shaved head & no beard, am considered attractive. Am private, mature, kinky but levelheaded & normal. Single, live alone, I can host in #Burnaby, I’m nearby #Brentwood mall/skytrain.

see partial pic under my profile along with info on kinks. If you’re interested and intentional about something IRL then first introduce yourself a little, let’s go from there.. swap pics for baseline interest then short meet & greet.

I can meetup during the daytime especially for the initial vibe check at first being remote/WFH/meetings.. But I’m generally fairly busy in the Mon-Fri Business hours, so I am looking for Evening/Nights/Weekends and for longer rendezvous & prefer keeping a lasting situation; I'm not on any dating/swiping apps nor actively looking to date.

I want casual/chill, longer-running FWB, meeting either weekday nights &/or weekends, preferably once a week or so, as I like having something consistent that's good; seeking that mutual energy/chemistry/attraction for this

I’m a Kinky, Single late-30s man seeking real world fun.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And enjoy the added dynamic from age gaps, contrasts & differences

I’m looking for a good connection - something that's ongoing, fun... Ideally a woman in a similar headspace as me... and preferably we vibe well enough to want to keep it ongoing and have for longer term. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/click for what we like to start with.

My kinks are varied but still connected. I enjoy age gaps in dynamics but not ageplay itself, & babygirl sub-types but not age-identifying littles. Also I do equally enjoy both older and younger women, rougher spirited sex, passion in kink, restraints, spanking, breastplay anr/abf (natural/primal), etc. My list of things I enjoy certainly isn't exhaustive. My views a bit nuanced, looking for the same, hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most.

Note: I’m just not into any sort of super regressive age stuff single # 'little' in Dd/lg, cg/l, or abdl etc. or cnc, or anything unhygienic and gross.. All of that doesn't jive with me and isn't my kink. Clarifying since people tend to conflate some kinks with other things... I definitely know what I do/don't like, and got strong preference for similar in a woman. I'm seeking someone on the same wavelength energy wise when it comes to all this.

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Me: I'm told/considered attractive, 37y/o, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, non-bearded, 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dad bod, well groomed, clean (partial pic in profile). I can host, I prefer to, and live by myself in Burnaby, near Brentwood Mall/SkyTrain.

I'm focused on work, so busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature, balanced person who wants to add something fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings... I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but overall chemistry/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for something to last longer-run... which is the goal.

If you're genuinely interested then introduce yourself with a bit of info, what caught your eye, etc. in your first message.. I won't reply to generic chats with no details and blank accounts because I’m not inspired by lack of effort… I'm looking for a Local IRL connection… ideally for nights & weekends, and hoping to mesh well for the ‘full evening meetup once a week play for many hours’ type of overall chemistry/connection from this ad.

Me: late-30s, 6ft, Brown man born/raised in Canada, of South Asian/Indian background, clean/ddf, physically currently more of the dad bod, tattooed, shaved head & no beard, am considered attractive. Am private, mature, kinky but levelheaded & normal. Single, live alone, I can host in #Burnaby, I’m nearby #Brentwood mall/skytrain.

see partial pic under my profile along with info on kinks. If you’re interested and intentional about something IRL then first introduce yourself a little, let’s go from there.. swap pics for baseline interest then short meet & greet.

I can meetup during the daytime especially for the initial vibe check at first being remote/WFH/meetings.. But I’m generally fairly busy in the Mon-Fri Business hours, so I am looking for Evening/Nights/Weekends and for longer rendezvous & prefer keeping a lasting situation; I'm not on any dating/swiping apps nor actively looking to date.

I want casual/chill, longer-running FWB, meeting either weekday nights &/or weekends, preferably once a week or so, as I like having something consistent that's good; seeking that mutual energy/chemistry/attraction for this

Me: late-30s, 6ft, Brown man born/raised in Canada, South Asian / Indian background, clean/ddf, physically currently more of the dad bod, tattooed, shaved head & no beard, considered attractive. And private, mature, kinky but levelheaded & normal. Single, live alone, I can host in #Burnaby, near #Brentwood mall/skytrain area.

see partial pic under my profile along with info on kinks. If you’re interested and intentional about something IRL then first introduce yourself a little, let’s go from there..

I want casual, chill, longer-running FWB, meeting often.. Ideally for nights & weekends.. on average once a week as I like something consistent, that's good to add to life.

I could meetup during daytime, especially for the initial vibe check at first being remote/WFH/meetings.. but I’m generally pretty busy in the Mon-Fri Business hours so I’m looking for Evening/Nights & Weekends & for longer rendezvous & prefer keeping a lasting situation. I'm not on dating/swiping apps.. & not actively looking to date.

I've posted here in the past, no luck, trying again..

There's a lot to the acronyms if you know them, but it's definitely a niche desire, less known & I find often misunderstood... to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed..

Before I knew the mishmash understanding of the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. then it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later dry with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking and focus that happens with non.. which is great as well but oddly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking here for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is easier to find, which I'm certainly happy to connect with for ongoing fun to add to my life

> beyond the ANR/ABF specific search:

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking fun match. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm generally pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have a similar availability too..

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife preferably in an overarching ongoing fun.. (something consistent and casual, just fun, as I'm single, busy and not really looking to date right now)

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of raw hedonistic play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink and power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more.. that's my hedonic state, not as it's used as synonym for sensual.. to clarify I'm seeking more than one thing here, I'm looking for overall match up in bed, not just breastplay (be it dry or even lactating) alone..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy, single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex

But honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing fun can be cool too with the right woman..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a fun situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal play, suspended in it

> If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, so if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all you send is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough

I've posted here in the past, no luck, trying again..

There's a lot to the acronyms if you know them, but it's definitely a niche desire, less known & I find often misunderstood... to me it's a base instinct, sexual, natural within more lustfilled foreplay/play/sex.. something I like a lot, and is a natural area of focus/attention in bed..

Before I knew the mishmash understanding of the terms, I was lucky to find this organically a few times in my life.. I enjoy breastplay/breastsucking and enjoyed it dry ofcourse until I incidentally had wet from a lactating woman unexpectedly.. then it happened with a few women again.. I liked it each time.. enough to keep it going in FWB with first lactating, then later dry with non-lactating women.. it's definitely been a long time for me for being with a lactating woman, aside from of course the dry sucking and focus that happens with non.. which is great as well but oddly enough some bustier women are too sensitive for extensive sucking/suckling/play..

Now, I'm looking here for an ongoing regular setup for this again as part of the overall FWB like I've found in person in past.. having been with women into sucking and all around breastplaying who are kinky/lean submissive in bed, were into rougher sex, D/s play/dynamic and overall we matched well. The combination and range, mix of it all, is my ideal in bed.. for me, ANR (if we need to use terms) was only done before/during/after sex, never on its own.. I'm not a passive suckler.. I'm into more passion filled carnal energetic primal tit-sucking in sex and foreplay, it's fun in bed, it's sexual for me.. it's one part of the whole overarching vibe..

It's a difficult thing to search for and find, but this space offers a faint hope search.. especially for the prospect of lactating.. although I'm sure non lactating woman who enjoys more breastplay is easier to find, which I'm certainly happy to connect with for ongoing fun to add to my life

> beyond the ANR/ABF specific search:

I'm single, late-30’s, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, with moreso dad bod currently, clean, mature and balanced seeking fun match. I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby. I prefer to meet late evenings/nights, weekends given I'm generally pretty busy Mon-Fri business hours so would be best if you have a similar availability too..

I'm looking for someone who has a similar perspective as me to vibe with and have this as part of our regular sexlife preferably in an overarching ongoing fun.. (something consistent and casual, just fun, as I'm single, busy and not really looking to date right now)

Overall, I like a variety in bed, extended foreplay, gropey hot heavier makeouts, both slowed passion filled tempo and a rougher varied energetic spirited sex, going from tender to rough, reciprocated repeated oral and sex, playing a few hours each rendezvous throttling through varied emotions of raw hedonistic play which for me means expressed in rougher sex, D/s play, kink and power dynamics, choking, spanking, restraining & more.. that's my hedonic state, not as it's used as synonym for sensual.. to clarify I'm seeking more than one thing here, I'm looking for overall match up in bed, not just breastplay (be it dry or even lactating) alone..

The goal is something great.. for me, that's a 'tits in my face cowgirly, arched down doggy loving, enthusiastic sprawling oral giving, rough sex feening, spanking enjoying, choking liking, high sex drived' passionate kink energy, single fun local chick to see often.. regardless of roles/tags/dynamic.. someone into more unbridled primally driven sex

But honestly, dry or wet breastplay, massage, cuddle, foreplay specific ongoing fun can be cool too with the right woman..

Currently I'm not dating, not swiping apps, life is all work no play.. I'm searching for a worthwhile connection, not random one off hookups, I like a lot of things/have many kinks but I'm not expecting one woman into everything.. I'm just looking for a fun situation, to disconnect and be in the moment "out of my head and in my body" indulging in carnal play, suspended in it

> If you’ve read this far, it must have resonated, so if you're interested then introduce yourself - but I won't reply if all you send is age/F, hi, a generic line, etc that's not enough

I'm working a lot and feel I just want a regular FWB to add to my life; I'm not looking for much more currently

Me: late-30s, 6ft, Brown man born/raised in Canada, South Asian / Indian background, clean/ddf, physically currently more of the dad bod, tattooed, shaved head & no beard, considered attractive. Am private, mature, kinky but levelheaded & normal. Single, live alone, can host in #Burnaby, near Brentwood mall/skytrain area.

If you’re interested and intentional about something IRL then do introduce yourself a little, let’s go from there.. more info in posts under my profile if you want to read.

I want casual, chill, longer-running FWB, meeting often.. Ideally for nights & weekends.. on average once a week as I like something consistent, that's good to add to life.

I could meet during daytime, especially for the initial vibe check at first being remote/WFH/meetings.. but I’m generally pretty busy in the Mon-Fri Business hours so I’m looking for Evening/Nights & Weekends & for longer rendezvous & prefer keeping a lasting situation. I'm not on dating/swiping apps.. & not actively looking to date.

I’m a Kinky, Single late-30s man seeking real world fun.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And enjoy the added dynamic from age gaps, contrasts & differences

I’m looking for a good connection - something that's ongoing, fun... Ideally a woman in a similar headspace as me... and preferably we vibe well enough to want to keep it ongoing and have for longer term. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/click for what we like to start with.

My kinks are varied but still connected. I enjoy age gaps in dynamics but not ageplay itself, & babygirl sub-types but not age-identifying littles. Also I do equally enjoy both older and younger women, rougher spirited sex, passion in kink, restraints, spanking, breastplay anr/abf (natural/primal), etc. My list of things I enjoy certainly isn't exhaustive. My views a bit nuanced, looking for the same, hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most.

Note: I’m just not into any sort of super regressive age stuff single # 'little' in Dd/lg, cg/l, or abdl etc. or cnc, or anything unhygienic and gross.. All of that doesn't jive with me and isn't my kink. Clarifying since people tend to conflate some kinks with other things... I definitely know what I do/don't like, and got strong preference for similar in a woman. I'm seeking someone on the same wavelength energy wise when it comes to all this.

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Me: I'm told/considered attractive, 37y/o, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, non-bearded, 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dad bod, well groomed, clean (partial pic in profile). I can host, I prefer to, and live by myself in Burnaby, near Brentwood Mall/SkyTrain.

I'm focused on work, so busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature, balanced person who wants to add something fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings... I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but overall chemistry/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for something to last longer-run... which is the goal.

If you're genuinely interested then introduce yourself with a bit of info, what caught your eye, etc. in your first message.. I won't reply to generic chats with no details and blank accounts because I’m not inspired by lack of effort… I'm looking for a Local IRL connection… ideally for nights & weekends, and hoping to mesh well for the ‘full evening meetup once a week play for many hours’ type of overall chemistry/connection from this ad.

I’m a Kinky, Single late-30s man seeking real world fun.. I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types. And enjoy the added dynamic from age gaps, contrasts & differences

I’m looking for a good connection - something that's ongoing, fun... Ideally a woman in a similar headspace as me... and preferably we vibe well enough to want to keep it ongoing and have for longer term. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we’d sync/click for what we like to start with.

My kinks are varied but still connected. I enjoy age gaps in dynamics but not ageplay itself, & babygirl sub-types but not age-identifying littles. Also I do equally enjoy both older and younger women, rougher spirited sex, passion in kink, restraints, spanking, breastplay anr/abf (natural/primal), etc. My list of things I enjoy certainly isn't exhaustive. My views a bit nuanced, looking for the same, hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most.

Note: I’m just not into any sort of super regressive age stuff single # 'little' in Dd/lg, cg/l, or abdl etc. or cnc, or anything unhygienic and gross.. All of that doesn't jive with me and isn't my kink. Clarifying since people tend to conflate some kinks with other things... I definitely know what I do/don't like, and got strong preference for similar in a woman. I'm seeking someone on the same wavelength energy wise when it comes to all this.

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Me: I'm told/considered attractive, 37y/o, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, non-bearded, 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dad bod, well groomed, clean (partial pic in profile). I can host, I prefer to, and live by myself in Burnaby, near Brentwood Mall/SkyTrain.

I'm focused on work, so busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature, balanced person who wants to add something fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings... I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but overall chemistry/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for something to last longer-run... which is the goal.

If you're genuinely interested then introduce yourself with a bit of info, what caught your eye, etc. in your first message.. I won't reply to generic chats with no details and blank accounts because I’m not inspired by lack of effort… I'm looking for a Local IRL connection… ideally for nights & weekends, and hoping to mesh well for the ‘full evening meetup once a week play for many hours’ type of overall chemistry/connection from this ad.

I’m Kinky, Single late-30s, into agegaps, contrasts and differences; I'm naturally a Daddy-Dom type and tend to click better with naturally Submissive-leaning types.

I’m looking for a good connection - something that's ongoing, fun... Ideally a woman in a similar headspace as me... and preferably we vibe well enough to want to keep it ongoing and have for longer term. I've got in depth writings in my profile for more to help determine if we sync/match in what we like to start with.

My kinks are varied but still connected. I enjoy age gaps in dynamics but not ageplay itself, & babygirl sub-types but not age-identifying littles. Also I do equally enjoy both older and younger women, rougher spirited sex, passion in kink, restraints, spanking, breastplay anr/abf (natural/primal), etc. My list of things I enjoy certainly isn't exhaustive. My views a bit nuanced, looking for the same, hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most.

Note: I’m just not into any sort of super regressive age stuff single # 'little' in Dd/lg, cg/l, or abdl etc. or cnc, or anything unhygienic and gross.. All of that doesn't jive with me and isn't my kink. Clarifying since people tend to conflate some kinks with other things... I definitely know what I do/don't like, and got strong preference for similar in a woman. I'm seeking someone on the same wavelength energy wise when it comes to all this.

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Me: I'm an attractive, single, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head, non-bearded, 6ft, currently the beefier use to workout dadbod, well groomed, clean, seeking a good matchup. I can host, I prefer to, and live by myself in Burnaby, near Brentwood Mall/SkyTrain area.

I'm focused on work, so busy within the Monday to Friday business hours. Overall I'm a chill, mature, balanced person who wants to add something fun to life, especially to unwind in the evenings/nights or weekends at my place. I want to pour some drinks, hang/play for few hours or for entire evenings... I'm into a lot, I'm hoping for a match who sees overlaps in most but overall chemistry/vibe/connection matters the most (not exact full 100% match on all things kink) especially for something to last longer-run... which is the goal.

If you're genuinely interested then introduce yourself with a bit of info, what caught your eye, etc. in your first message. I won't reply to generic chats with no details and blank accounts because I’m not inspired by lack of effort… I'm looking for a Local IRL connection… ideally for nights & weekends, and hoping to vibe well for the ‘full evening meetup once a week play for many hours’ type of overall chemistry matchup from this ad.

Me: late-30s, 6ft, Brown man born/raised in Canada, South Asian / Indian background, clean/ddf, physically currently more of the dad bod, tattooed, shaved head & no beard, considered attractive. Am private, mature, kinky but levelheaded & normal. Single, live alone, can host in #Burnaby, near Brentwood mall/skytrain area.

If you’re interested and intentional about something IRL then do introduce yourself a little, let’s go from there.. more info in posts under my profile if you want to read.

I want casual, chill, longer-running FWB, meeting often.. Ideally for nights & weekends.. on average once a week as I like something consistent, that's good to add to life.

I could meet during daytime, especially for the initial vibe check at first being remote/WFH/meetings.. but I’m generally pretty busy in the Mon-Fri Business hours so I’m looking for Evening/Nights & Weekends & for longer rendezvous & prefer keeping a lasting situation. I'm not on dating/swiping apps.. & not actively looking to date.