20 [F4M] #sanfrancisco CA - looking for my older husband

Hi :) I’m 20F, I’m 5’1”, mixed race, and curvy but not plus size. I care about how I look and present in the world and I love fashion espically second hand I care deeply about the environment and do my best to keep it in mind.

I’m currently in my last year of college. I love people and I love better understanding how they operate and why. People mean a lot to me and so does connection I’m an extrovert and deeply care for children and the vulnerable.

For fun I like to bake, cook, draw, paint, go for a hike, call a friend, read a book, or write. I love having creative outlets and the arts in general. I’m always looking for a new museum.

My friends would describe me as gentle and extremely loving. I very much know who I am and won’t allow myself to be treated poorly at the same time it’s very important to me that I’m kind to everyone I meet. Especially the people I care about. My family would say I’m ambitious and thoughtful, an old soul.

I would love to get married to someone older and have children whenever I find my person. Being a mother would mean the world to me as would being a wife.

I’d love someone dominant and kind, patient and loving. I’m open to a lot of ages but I tend to prefer 30-38 :)

Okie dokie, I hope you’re having a lovely day and if you’d like I’d love to chat with you 😊

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 13 hours ago

20 [F4M] #bayarea CA - looking for the love of my life

Hi :) I’m 20F, I’m 5’1”, mixed race, and curvy but not plus size. I care about how I look and present in the world and I love fashion espically second hand I care deeply about the environment and do my best to keep it in mind.

I’m currently in my last year of college. I love people and I love better understanding how they operate and why. People mean a lot to me and so does connection I’m an extrovert and deeply care for children and the vulnerable.

For fun I like to bake, cook, draw, paint, go for a hike, call a friend, read a book, or write. I love having creative outlets and the arts in general. I’m always looking for a new museum.

My friends would describe me as gentle and extremely loving. I very much know who I am and won’t allow myself to be treated poorly at the same time it’s very important to me that I’m kind to everyone I meet. Especially the people I care about. My family would say I’m ambitious and thoughtful, an old soul.

I would love to get married and have children whenever I find my person. Being a mother would mean the world to me as would being a wife.

I’d love someone dominant and kind, patient and loving. Please be 38 and younger though I am flexible.

Okie dokie, I hope you’re having a lovely day and if you’d like I’d love to chat with you 😊

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 14 hours ago

20 [F4M] #sanfrancisco - looking for my forever Daddy

Hello, I hope you’re having a good day. I’m a 20F college student in the Bay Area I’m 5’1”, curvy but not plus sized, and mixed race. I love to cook and bake, draw and paint, and go on hikes. I love to spend time with people talking and getting to know them.

I’m looking for a Daddy, I tend to prefer possessive men and I thrive under control but I also need someone that’s willing to hold me and cuddle me. That wants to spend time with me. I am looking for something long term and monogamous eventually I’d love to get married but we can talk about that later. It’s really important to me that I have a full relationship I’d like something where our roles and the dynamic are always present but at the same time I want to be someone that my dom can rely on too.

I’m a bit sexually inexperienced so I will need some patience in that regard with me learning. I do have a long list of things I’m into and things I’d like to try that I’d be happy to talk about.

In a relationship I need a lot of structure and guidance. I want my Daddy to push me to open up and be stern about keeping me on schedule. As a sub I’m very loving and I love to bake for my dom, and take care of him not in the same way he takes care of me but I do want him to know that he’s cared for and wanted. Anywhosies please be local, I prefer 38 and younger but I’m open to a lot. Thank you so much for reading 😊

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 9 days ago

Am I doing something wrong?

Hi, I’ve been trying to find my husband for some time now and I think I’m approaching something wrong or misrepresenting what I want. I’m in my early twenties and in college but my main goal in life is to be loving and devoted wife to a good man and have children. While I’ve tried to date I’ve done my best to be transparent about who I am and what I want but I seem to always attract men who think they want long term commitment but in reality don’t seem ready for it. This looks like being really into the fantasy but when reality comes knocking not want to face it. So to all the married or happily coupled women here how did you find your person? And to the men what do you think I’m doing wrong or how could I shift my approach to attract what I’m looking for? Thank you so much. I realize I was rather vague so if you have any questions please ask.

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 17 days ago

20 [F4M] #bayarea- looking for my forever dom

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
Please be 38 and younger (no one over 38)
I’m very monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 1 month ago

20 [F4M] #sanfrancisco, California- looking for my person

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please
Please be monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

Please say more than hi, tell me about yourself.

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 1 month ago

20 [F4M] #sanfrancisco- looking for my husband

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please
Please be monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

Please say more than hi, tell me about yourself.

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

20 [F4M] #bayarea- looking for my forever dom

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
Please be 38 and younger (no one over 38)
I’m very monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

20 [F4M] #BayArea- looking for my forever dom

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please
I’m very monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

20 [F4M] #SanFrancisco, California looking for my person

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please
I’m very monogamous

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

20 [F4M] #san Francisco, California Breed me and keep me… please

I’ve posted here before so if you’re re-reading and it feels familiar please reach out again.

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

20 [F4M] #bayarea breed me and marry me… please?

, I’ve posted here before so if you’re re-reading and it feels familiar please reach out again.

Who am I:
I’m 20 from Los Angeles but I go to college in the Bay Area. I’m 5’1” slim but curvy with curly auburn hair and brown eyes. I’m mixed race and I dress really girly. If I could walk around campus in heels I would but I’m forced to wear flats.

I love to cook and bake for other people. I paint a lot and I’m starting to sell my art work, I’m getting my degree in stem and have taken high level math courses but I will pull out a calculator if you ask me a basic arithmetic question. I work out regularly and love to move my body. I love a good dad joke and appreciate dry humor. I have way too many skirts and have already ordered more.

I love people in general I’m an extrovert and extremely loving. I’ve held crying strangers before, given away my pepper spray because someone was walking home alone defenseless. I will give away all my money in monopoly when I see someone get sad because they’re losing. I’m, as my friends say, painfully caring. With that being said, I know how to stand my ground and will not accept less than what I deserve.

What I’m looking for:
I need a husband, I’d like to married and pregnant by 23 and I’m looking for my person. I need someone strong mentally and physically. Someone who doesn’t run when things get rough or hide when they feel a big emotion. I prefer quieter men, a bit stoic. I’m a chatter box but I appreciate silence and a man who knows when to speak and when silence says more. I want to be a stay at home mom, I want nothing more than to be a wife and a mother and I will be very involved with the children and manage all household manners. In return I need you to provide, I’ll be at home ready to help you relax everyday. I need a dominate man, I’m very submissive and I’d like a tpe dynamic.

Really I just want someone that’s ready to love and be loved. I want to know you, see you, feel you. So please be ready to be known.

Physically I like green eyes and I prefer a man that’s active and attractive. But please don’t let that discourage you.

Someone who wants children I’d really like to be bred.

Dealbreakers:
Divorced
Have children
Emotionally immature
Vanilla in the bedroom or otherwise
Long distance (I’m open to it but please be willing to put in the effort and I am willing to relocate but I do have school so please keep that in mind)
If you’re a bit dull
38 and younger please

Thank you for reading all of that, if you’re interested please say hi. I’d love to chat and see if things go well. I also like to exchange pictures early so please be prepared and tell me what about my post did you like? What makes you happy? Why Reddit?

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

Hi! Thank you for reading. I’m 20F from Los Angeles but I go to school in the bay. I’m in college, please ask me what I study I love to talk about it. I’m 5’1, brown eyes, curly auburn hair, mixed race and I’ve been told I have a good body.

Okie dokie why I’m here:
I want to find my husband, the father of my children, my dominant, the love of my life. I am submissive through and through and I’m looking for my dominant. I’m not interested in long talking stages or wondering if the man I’m seeing is actually interested in me. I want to know and I want it to be very clear that we’re both in this for marriage and children. I want nothing more than to build a loving and safe home for children to come and for my husband. I want to serve him and feel his protection and love always. I want a 1950s, traditional style home where I stay home with the babies and ensure the house is a home. And I get spankings at my dom’s will.

What I have to offer:
I’m the oldest of five I did bedtime, bath time, diapers, reading, taught them how to use spoons, all of it. I have experience being a maternal figure and nothing has ever made me feel as fulfilled. I love to cook and bake and I take pride in a clean home. I’m always eager to please and I will always make my relationship with my husband a top priority. I understand things will get difficult and I see them as opportunities to confirm to one another just how much we’re invested in this in each other, how much love and trust there is. I don’t bow out when things get difficult and I’m not one to expect the world and give nothing in return. I’m an active lover, emotionally speaking, I constantly think of ways for my future husband to feel more loved, appreciated, seen, known, heard. It brings me great joy to know that I’m contributing to his happiness.

What I need:
I need someone level headed that doesn’t rush to conclusions or get overwhelmed by emotions. I’m not saying I way a robot, I struggle with anxiety and I feel things deeply so having a partner to balance that out will be helpful. Someone stoic in nature, dominate, kind, gentle, and consistent. A leader and provider. Someone who can make a nice chunk of the decisions who doesn’t mind that I lean on him for things that might be considered “too small to bother with.” I’m a submissive inside and out of the bedroom ideally I’d like a tpe relationship where my husband is the guiding hand. Someone to laugh with, to know completely and to allow myself to be known by. I need a man that’s willing to let me in someone who’s willing to see that their vulnerability is safe and prized with me.

I’m kinky, a short list of what I like is:
TPE
Impact play that might leave bruises
Having a caregiver, I’m not a little but I do like to come to my dom for advice and I need to be reminded to drink water sometimes
Breeding
Being owned, I like belonging to someone completely
I have more but those are the ones off the top of my head.

What I like in a man:
I have a soft spot for green eyes, I like hair, someone physically strong is really attractive, educated (I’d consider myself well read and educated and I’d like that in my partner), gainfully employed, in California, combing from a big family is a huge plus, pet lovers are welcome, I really like physical touch and closeness so I’d like that in my partner, someone who will listen to me talk because I’m a bit of a chatter box. I love to be around my partner it doesn’t have to be in person or contact but I need attention so someone who doesn’t mind spending time on the phone talking, doing board games together, or just sitting closely. I’m a little clingy but I respect boundaries. Oof that was one long run on sentence, thanks for getting through that.

Deal breakers:
Divorced, I’m sorry that’s not something I’m willing to work around
Previous children, again I apologize
Long distance with minimal effort, I’m willing to have a long distance relationship but I need to know there’s consistent effort being put in I don’t want to feel like the only person wanting intimacy in the relationship
Submissives, that’s my job
Not wanting a 1950’s/tpe relationship
Older than 38
I’m very monogamous
No fake doms pleaseeeeeeeee

Yeppers, that’s just about all I have to say. Thank you for making it this far and if you did please reach out. Tell me about yourself, who are you? Why do you want this kind of relationship? Why Reddit? Least favorite food? I want to know you. Thanks one more time :)

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

Hi! Thank you for reading. I’m 20F from Los Angeles but I go to school in the bay. I’m in college, please ask me what I study I love to talk about it. I’m 5’1, brown eyes, curly auburn hair, mixed race and I’ve been told I have a good body.

Okie dokie why I’m here:
I want to find my husband, the father of my children, my dominant, the love of my life. I am submissive through and through and I’m looking for my dominant. I’m not interested in long talking stages or wondering if the man I’m seeing is actually interested in me. I want to know and I want it to be very clear that we’re both in this for marriage and children. I want nothing more than to build a loving and safe home for children to come and for my husband. I want to serve him and feel his protection and love always. I want a 1950s, traditional style home where I stay home with the babies and ensure the house is a home. And I get spankings at my dom’s will.

What I have to offer:
I’m the oldest of five I did bedtime, bath time, diapers, reading, taught them how to use spoons, all of it. I have experience being a maternal figure and nothing has ever made me feel as fulfilled. I love to cook and bake and I take pride in a clean home. I’m always eager to please and I will always make my relationship with my husband a top priority. I understand things will get difficult and I see them as opportunities to confirm to one another just how much we’re invested in this in each other, how much love and trust there is. I don’t bow out when things get difficult and I’m not one to expect the world and give nothing in return. I’m an active lover, emotionally speaking, I constantly think of ways for my future husband to feel more loved, appreciated, seen, known, heard. It brings me great joy to know that I’m contributing to his happiness.

What I need:
I need someone level headed that doesn’t rush to conclusions or get overwhelmed by emotions. I’m not saying I way a robot, I struggle with anxiety and I feel things deeply so having a partner to balance that out will be helpful. Someone stoic in nature, dominate, kind, gentle, and consistent. A leader and provider. Someone who can make a nice chunk of the decisions who doesn’t mind that I lean on him for things that might be considered “too small to bother with.” I’m a submissive inside and out of the bedroom ideally I’d like a tpe relationship where my husband is the guiding hand. Someone to laugh with, to know completely and to allow myself to be known by. I need a man that’s willing to let me in someone who’s willing to see that their vulnerability is safe and prized with me.

I’m kinky, a short list of what I like is:
TPE
Impact play that might leave bruises
Having a caregiver, I’m not a little but I do like to come to my dom for advice and I need to be reminded to drink water sometimes
Breeding
Being owned, I like belonging to someone completely
I have more but those are the ones off the top of my head.

What I like in a man:
I have a soft spot for green eyes, I like hair, someone physically strong is really attractive, educated (I’d consider myself well read and educated and I’d like that in my partner), gainfully employed, in California, combing from a big family is a huge plus, pet lovers are welcome, I really like physical touch and closeness so I’d like that in my partner, someone who will listen to me talk because I’m a bit of a chatter box. I love to be around my partner it doesn’t have to be in person or contact but I need attention so someone who doesn’t mind spending time on the phone talking, doing board games together, or just sitting closely. I’m a little clingy but I respect boundaries. Oof that was one long run on sentence, thanks for getting through that.

Deal breakers:
Divorced, I’m sorry that’s not something I’m willing to work around
Previous children, again I apologize
Long distance with minimal effort, I’m willing to have a long distance relationship but I need to know there’s consistent effort being put in I don’t want to feel like the only person wanting intimacy in the relationship
Submissives, that’s my job
Not wanting a 1950’s/tpe relationship
Older than 38
I’m very monogamous
No fake doms pleaseeeeeeeee

Yeppers, that’s just about all I have to say. Thank you for making it this far and if you did please reach out. Tell me about yourself, who are you? Why do you want this kind of relationship? Why Reddit? Least favorite food? I want to know you. Thanks one more time :)

reddit.com
u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago

Hi! Thank you for reading. I’m 20F from Los Angeles but I go to school in the bay. I’m in college, please ask me what I study I love to talk about it. I’m 5’1, brown eyes, curly auburn hair, mixed race and I I’ve been told I have a good body.

Okie dokie why I’m here:
I want to find my husband, the father of my children, my dominant, the love of my life. I’m not interested in long talking stages or wondering if the man I’m seeing is actually interested in me. I want to know and I want it to be very clear that we’re both in this for marriage and children. I want nothing more than to build a loving and safe home for children to come and for my husband. I want to serve him and feel his protection and love always. I want a 1950s, traditional style home where I stay home with the babies and ensure the house is a home.

What I have to offer:
I’m the oldest of five I did bedtime, bath time, diapers, reading, taught them how to use spoons, all of it. I have experience being a maternal figure and nothing has ever made me feel as fulfilled. I love to cook and bake and I take pride in a clean home. I’m always eager to please and I will always make my relationship with my husband a top priority. I understand things will get difficult and I see them as opportunities to confirm to one another just how much we’re invested in this in each other, how much love and trust there is. I don’t bow out when things get difficult and I’m not one to expect the world and give nothing in return. I’m an active lover, emotionally speaking, I constantly think of ways for my future husband to feel more loved, appreciated, seen, known, heard. It brings me great joy to know that I’m contributing to his happiness.

What I need:
I need someone level headed that doesn’t rush to conclusions or get overwhelmed by emotions. I’m not saying I way a robot, I struggle with anxiety and I feel things deeply so having a partner to balance that out will be helpful. Someone stoic in nature, dominate, kind, gentle, and consistent. A leader and provider. Someone who can make a nice chunk of the decisions who doesn’t mind that I lean on him for things that might be considered “too small to bother with.” I’m a submissive inside and out of the bedroom ideally I’d like a tpe relationship where my husband is the guiding hand. Someone to laugh with, to know completely and to allow myself to be known by. I need a man that’s willing to let me in someone who’s willing to see that their vulnerability is safe and prized with me.

What I like in a man:
I have a soft spot for green eyes, I like hair, someone physically strong is really attractive, educated (I’d consider myself well read and educated and I’d like that in my partner), gainfully employed, in California, combing from a big family is a huge plus, pet lovers are welcome, I really like physical touch and closeness so I’d like that in my partner, someone who will listen to me talk because I’m a bit of a chatter box. I love to be around my partner it doesn’t have to be in person or contact but I need attention so someone who doesn’t mind spending time on the phone talking, doing board games together, or just sitting closely. I’m a little clingy but I respect boundaries. Oof that was one long run on sentence, thanks for getting through that.

Deal breakers:
Divorced, I’m sorry that’s not something I’m willing to work around
Previous children, again I apologize
Long distance with minimal effort, I’m willing to have a long distance relationship but I need to know there’s consistent effort being put in I don’t want to feel like the only person wanting intimacy in the relationship
Submissives, that’s my job
Not wanting a 1950’s/tpe relationship
Older than 38
I’m very monogamous

Yeppers, that’s just about all I have to say. Thank you for making it this far and if you did please reach out. Tell me about yourself, who are you? Why do you want this kind of relationship? Why Reddit? Least favorite food? I want to know you. Thanks one more time :)

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u/Busy-Adeptness6634 — 2 months ago