u/InfirmerieDeStJames

I want to take care of you. I want to praise you for how well you follow direction, and how sweetly you tribute me.

Life is hard, and you deserve someone who appreciates you, calls you sweet names, and gently makes you lose your mind with need.

I like to degrade, but I have more fun when I get to softly teach and guide, so I decided that I wanted to find a sweet paypig for me to cherish, my own prized pet. ❤️

I want to take care of you. I want to praise you for how well you follow direction, and how sweetly you tribute me.

Life is hard, and you deserve someone who appreciates you, calls you sweet names, and gently makes you lose your mind with need.

I like to degrade, but I have more fun when I get to softly teach and guide, so I decided that I wanted to find a sweet paypig for me to cherish, my own prized pet. ❤️

I want to take care of you. I want to praise you for how well you follow direction, and how sweetly you tribute me.

Life is hard, and you deserve someone who appreciates you, calls you sweet names, and gently makes you lose your mind with need.

I like to degrade, but I have more fun when I get to softly teach and guide, so I decided that I wanted to find a sweet paypig for me to cherish, my own prized pet. ❤️

I have a person who wants me to wear and stretch out some clothes, which I’m happy to do, but I don’t know a good way to receive them without giving away my name and address, which I’d prefer not to do. How do other people handle this?

I’m in Canada, btw.

I have experimented with lots of types of domination, and in a degree of kinks, but I don’t think anything has compared to the rush that I feel when a person tributes me, when they skip a drink at dinner or meeting up with friends so that they can afford to send me a little more.

This represents, tangibly, the part of domination that I live for. Making something endure a little bit to earn their praise. I WANT to praise, pathetic little things make me want to protect them and cherish them, but doing that without any kind of effort isn’t fun or valuable.

I love a paypig who just wants to serve, to devote themselves to me, to be owned by a confident man who’s strong and caring and sometimes cruel when you need to be corrected or put in your place. This kink isn’t about yelling or screaming or being over the top for me. It’s about my quiet dominance forcing a person to bend to my will because they recognize that’s the natural order of things.

I have my own opinions, and they might confuse some people, because to me it feels like intent 100% and actions 80% of the time.

That is to say that it’s okay for there to be punishments, humiliation/degradation, and harder moments sometimes, but the dom should always be doing it from a place of care and respect. There’s a lot of talk on here about the love between dom and sub, but I think that a non-romantic dynamic can still be soft and caring.

I’d love to hear what other people think defines a soft dom.

I want to take care of you. I want to praise you for how well you follow direction, and how sweetly you tribute me.

Life is hard, and you deserve someone who appreciates you, calls you sweet names, and gently makes you lose your mind with need.

I like to degrade, but I have more fun when I get to softly teach and guide, so I decided that I wanted to find a sweet paypig for me to cherish, my own prized pet. ❤️

I was reflecting on being a dom, especially an often softer dom, and I started to think about why I like to do this. There’s so much to it, including that it’s what sets my brain back in order, but I wanted to highlight some of the moments and things that make me love it so much. So below is a loose list of things that scratch my brain mid and after a scene. These all pertain to any subs, regardless of gender 😊

The way their breath hitches when I do something that turns them on, or press a particularly good spot inside. That little hitch means so little to some people, but I know that it’s like a brain reset for half a second. It’s beautiful to know that I can help turn off all their thoughts and second guessing off for a bit. That my fingers or tongue or cock have silenced anything outside of that moment.

When I tell her to use her words and she looks at me with big eyes as she tries to form words and sentences, as she struggles between the moaning little mess that she is and the dirty talking princess that we both want her to be. Seeing her piece just enough phrases together and watching that plea slip from her lips feels like finding religion.

When we are post-scene, sweat slicked and lying together, and we get a chance to catch our breath while cuddled up. Getting him to tell me which moments were his favourite, his mood, and feeling the rise and fall of his breathing while we spoon. It makes me feel like the protector that being dominant draws me towards.

The moments mid scene where I can see their desperation. Reaching for my cock with fervour, or the belief that in those seconds, more than anything, they NEED to worship me with their mouth. Soft dominance is about caretaking for me, but I live for those moments of worship, of overwhelming need.

Making her beg, hearing “please daddy” said over and over like a prayer, then having the power to tip over that edge into perfect relief. It feels incredible, like I’m needed, and the fact that we both know in that moment that I can provide just what she needs to feel better. To shatter her sweetly, and once she can think again, she will feel that much better. This goes doubly for edging and denial scenes!

I love this, and every day/week/month/year I feel more sure that this is a fundamental part of myself that I couldn’t live without.

Hi,

I do custom audio content (among other things) but it seems like there aren’t really any subreddits dedicated to that as a concept. Does anyone know of any? Are there any under the FH tree of subreddits? I’d love to get some advice!

Hi r/AudiosGoneWild, I'm a verified performer on r/GoneWildAudio looking to be verified to post here as well! here is the https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildaudio/s/qJtRjOq8pC to my post where I was verified

I know it’s hard, it’s difficult to be so pathetic. But that’s okay, I’m here to take care of you, to take all of those hard thoughts away. I’ll turn you into my pretty little mess while I drain you dry. A soft daddy dom to show you your place in life, to praise you for being good while pitying you and degrading you in the next sentence.

I know that you get turned on from sending, and I know that you’re so pathetic that you need someone to tell you just what to do.

Don’t worry, my useless little piglet, I’ll tell you what to do, just relax and stroke away all of your money. You can use it to serve your superior. You’re going to do so well for me, I can already tell.

My favourite thing is not letting my subs cum. I have a few longer term ones now and the rule is that they can’t cum without permission, which I never really give 😭 I have one in debt to me who I told can’t cum until she’s paid it off.

Does anyone have particular rules they like to give all of their subs for fun?

I was reflecting on being a dom, especially an often softer dom, and I started to think about why I like to do this. There’s so much to it, including that it’s what sets my brain back in order, but I wanted to highlight some of the moments and things that make me love it so much. So below is a loose list of things that scratch my brain mid and after a scene.

The way her breath hitches when I do something that turns her on, or press a particularly good spot in her. That little hitch means so little to some people, but I know that it’s like her brain reset for half a second. It’s beautiful to know that I can help turn her thoughts and second guessing off for a bit. That my fingers or tongue or cock have silenced anything outside of that moment.

When I tell her to use her words and she looks at me with big eyes as she tries to form words and sentences, as she struggles between the moaning little mess that she is and the dirty talking princess that we both want her to be. Seeing her piece just enough phrases together and watching that plea slip from her lips feels like finding religion.

When we are post-scene, sweat slicked and lying together, and we get a chance to catch our breath while cuddled up. Getting her to tell me which moments were her favourite, her mood, and feeling the rise and fall of her breathing while I hold her. It makes me feel like the protector that being dominant draws me towards.

The moments mid scene where I can see her desperation. Her reaching for my cock with fervour, or the belief that in those seconds, more than anything, she NEEDS to worship me with her mouth. Soft dominance is about caretaking for me, but I live for those moments of worship, of overwhelming need.

Making her beg, hearing “please daddy” said over and over like a prayer, then having the power to tip over that edge into perfect relief. It feels incredible, like I’m needed, and the fact that we both know in that moment that I can provide just what she needs to feel better. To shatter her sweetly, and once she can think again, she will feel that much better. This goes doubly for edging and denial scenes!

I love this, and every day/week/month/year I feel more sure that this is a fundamental part of myself that I couldn’t live without.

I have a few subs, and I wouldn’t trade them for the world, but I keep thinking about subs that would be so fun.

I would kill to have a couple as paypigs. There’s something so hot about the idea of a couple that wants to serve, wants to send. To have them as my little puppets, giving them orders and making them edge each other and follow my rules. It would be incredible. Does anyone else have any dream paypigs like that?

I know it’s hard, it’s difficult to be so pathetic, such a waste of space. But that’s okay, I’m here to take care of you, to take all of those hard thoughts away.

I know that you get hard from sending, and I know that you’re so pathetic that you need someone to tell you just what to do.

Don’t worry, my useless little piglet, I’ll tell you what to do, just relax and stroke away all of your money. You can use it to serve your superior.

I know it’s hard, it’s difficult to be so pathetic, such a waste of space. But that’s okay, I’m here to take care of you, to take all of those hard thoughts away.

I know that you get hard from sending, and I know that you’re so pathetic that you need someone to tell you just what to do.

Don’t worry, my useless little piglet, I’ll tell you what to do, just relax and stroke away all of your money. You can use it to serve your superior.

I create immersive and high-tension scenes for people that want a blend of soft, attentive care and firm, dominant hand. I am no judgement and I put my all into every piece that I write, specializing in filthy dirty talk and D/s dynamics specifically. I am open to any combination of characters (MF, FF, MM, FNB, etc.) as I find many people attractive and can easily get into that headspace.

Outside of my writing, I’m also an avid roleplayer and feel comfortable jumping into many different personas. If you’re interested in roleplaying in a particular fandom, please reach out to confirm if I’m familiar with the fandom and can support from my end.

Some of the kinks that I specialize in are:
\\- Orgasm Control/Denial/forced orgasms
\\- Soft domination (Maledom or femdom)
\\- Praise
\\- Humiliation/Degradation
\\- Feminization/Sissification
\\- Age Play
\\- Predator/Prey
\\- Cumplay
\\- Spit
\\- Size difference
\\- Incest
\\- Freeuse
\\- Exhibitionism/Voyeurism
\\- Corruption
\\- Many other things, just ask!

Limits:
\\- Minors
\\- Death in a sexualized context
\\- Scat

My rates, paid through Throne or Youpay, are:
Stories: $0.05 per word, increased to $0.08 per word over 3k.
Live RP: $30/hour, capped based on availability.

A story to show my writing style: https://www.reddit.com/r/Femaleorgasmdenial/s/B7FTPN9lA7

How to Proceed:
Send me a brief message with the following:
\\- A short summary of your request
\\- Desired length and format
\\- Any preferred dynamics or kinks.

I look forward to building something intense with you. Yours in control, InfirmerieDeStJames