FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

M4M - FWBs? πŸ˜‰

M4M: FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M Vers Bottom πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

\++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

25[M4M] FWBs? πŸ˜‰

M4M: FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M Vers Bottom πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

M4M - FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M Vers Bottom πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

\++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

GGN: FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M Vers Bottom πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

FWBs? πŸ˜‰

25 M Vers Bottom πŸ‘ here, nerdy πŸ€“, super kinky πŸ‘„.

Ping me if you're interested in a meaningful friendship with some fun ; )

Age pref 22-45 yr. But can make exceptions, if you got the right vibe...πŸ’‹

++++ If you're a Bear 🐻, Bull πŸ†πŸ‚ or Jock πŸ‹οΈ...πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Looking for sane and well spoken πŸ₯‚ men, & good personal hygiene 🫧✨.

Selective.

Let's chat! πŸ’‹πŸ˜‰

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u/choco__donut β€” 6 hours ago

Dates/Friends? β˜•β˜•πŸŒΈ

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Hey!

I'm M24 ♂️

Gay (closeted) 🌈

Vers-Bottom πŸ‘

Geek πŸ€“

Looking for guys 21-45 yr for friendships/dating. Open to FWBs as well ; )

Interests: Food, culture, geography, design and architecture, plants, fragrance, art, sociology, etc.

Really enjoy chilling in a cafΓ© πŸ₯β˜•, going for late night ice creams 🍨🍦 , and long walks πŸƒ.

HMU. Let's chat : )

Selective.

Please be well spoken πŸ₯‚, sensible & hygienic.

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u/choco__donut β€” 13 days ago

Dates/Friends?β˜•β˜•πŸŒΈ

​

Hey!

I'm M24 ♂️

Gay (closeted) 🌈

Vers

Geek πŸ€“

Looking for guys 21-45 yr for friendships/dating. Open to FWBs as well ; )

Interests: Food, culture, geography, design and architecture, plants, fragrance, art, sociology, etc.

Really enjoy chilling in a cafΓ© πŸ₯β˜•, going for late night ice creams 🍨🍦 , and long walks πŸƒ.

HMU. Let's chat : )

Selective.

Please be well spoken πŸ₯‚, sensible & hygienic.

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u/choco__donut β€” 13 days ago

Gurugram: Dates/Friends? β˜•β˜•πŸŒΈ

​

Hey!

I'm M24 ♂️

Gay (closeted) 🌈

Vers

Geek πŸ€“

Looking for guys 21-45 yr for friendships/dating. Open to FWBs as well ; )

Interests: Food, culture, geography, design and architecture, plants, fragrance, art, sociology, etc.

Really enjoy chilling in a cafΓ© πŸ₯β˜•, going for late night ice creams 🍨🍦 , and long walks πŸƒ.

HMU. Let's chat : )

Selective.

Please be well spoken πŸ₯‚, sensible & hygienic.

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u/choco__donut β€” 13 days ago

Dates/Friends? β˜•β˜•πŸŒΈ

Hey!

I'm M24 ♂️

Gay (closeted) 🌈

Vers-Bottom πŸ‘

Geek πŸ€“

Looking for guys 21-45 yr for friendships/dating. Open to FWBs as well ; )

Interests: Food, culture, geography, design and architecture, plants, fragrance, art, sociology, etc.

Really enjoy chilling in a cafΓ© πŸ₯β˜•, going for late night ice creams 🍨🍦 , and long walks πŸƒ.

HMU. Let's chat : )

Selective.

Please be well spoken πŸ₯‚, sensible & hygienic.

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u/choco__donut β€” 13 days ago
β–² 7 r/AskGayMen

Are condoms necessary for Frotting πŸ†πŸ†?

I've never done this. Do guys actually use protection for it?

Any tips on how to frot safe?

Thanks ✌🏾

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u/choco__donut β€” 22 days ago
β–² 2 r/AskGayMen

(re-post) I'm stereotypically very boring, and finding it really hard to change. How to become more fun, and easygoing?

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β€’ I look boring -

I wear classic design/old fashioned outfits (avoid bright colors/funky prints simply because I don't like them), have a boring hairstyle, keep a stache and clean shaven cheeks (because I find this style really classy & professional).

\[Recently I pushed myself to try something new and got a new pair of glasses though, that are a fresh style popular among the youth, which make me look slightly less boring than before when I wore narrow plain black thin frames\]

β€’ My interests & hobbies have been deemed boring -

When it comes to music I listen to old classics (like Elvis Presley and Whitney Houston) or calm instrumental.

I don't watch movies or web-series (sticking to just infortainment/documentaries).

My hobbies involve just a bit of sketching/painting and going on walks, and swimming sometimes. I don't play any sports/games.

β€’ I don't drink alcohol or smoke -

Due to which I've lost countless friendships, because I was considered not one-of-them for refusing to booze with them.

β€’ I don't know how to click good pictures of myself due to which I look even more horrible when trying to find dates/friends/hookups online.

I somehow get very stiff in front of the camera, which makes me look very underconfident.

(I don't have friends who'd click candid pics of me, in which I could look better.)

The moment I share my pics, I get blocked by 9 out of 10 guys.

I've been told often that I look very boring, un-sexy and nerdy (not the hot nerd kind, but the boring nerd).

I want all this to change. I genuinely feel, if people gimme a chance I'm much more interesting & fun in person.

But, for me to get those chances, I need to do something to look slightly more fun & easygoing on the outside.

Is there anything I can do?

Is there hope I could get to meet and have hookups/date good guys with the way I am?

Thanks gaybros ✌🏾

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u/choco__donut β€” 26 days ago
β–² 1 r/GaySex

Repost - Frank Experience: BJs with or without condoms don't feel too different.

Please don't be mad, this is just my personal experience -

I've sucked cocks both with and without condoms (flavored & non-flavored), and the difference I felt was really small.

With the condom on I could still feel the texture, veins, and warmth of the cock well enough!

And, clean cocks are tasteless & odourless anyways, so whether condoms on or not BJs were bland anyways for me.

Only difference was that, I couldn't taste precum/cum with the condoms, but I can trade that off for some improved safety/STI protection.

And most importantly, the guys I sucked with condoms never complained about any reduction in sensation/pleasure.

So, I can't really understand all this rage/backlash/shaming for BJs with condoms.πŸ€”

Before you guys judge me and call me boring/paranoid/hypochondriac (which I've already been called multiple times in the past due to my safety practices), I live in a region where regular & judgement-free STI testing/treatments are very difficult to access therefore I prefer being safe when meeting random hookups.

I want to re-clarify that this is just my experience. I'm not trying to force any narrative here. I just wanna know your experiences & opinions on this.

Cheers ✌🏾

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u/choco__donut β€” 27 days ago

Frank Experience: BJs with or without condoms don't feel too different.

Please don't be mad, this is just my personal experience -

I've sucked cocks both with and without condoms (flavored & non-flavored), and the difference I felt was really small.

With the condom on I could still feel the texture, veins, and warmth of the cock well enough!

And, clean cocks are tasteless & odourless anyways, so whether condoms on or not BJs were bland anyways for me.

Only difference was that, I couldn't taste precum/cum with the condoms, but I can trade that off for some improved safety/STI protection.

And most importantly, the guys I sucked with condoms never complained about any reduction in sensation/pleasure.

So, I can't really understand all this rage/backlash/shaming for BJs with condoms.πŸ€”

Before you guys judge me and call me boring/paranoid/hypochondriac (which I've already been called multiple times in the past due to my safety practices), I live in a region where regular & judgement-free STI testing/treatments are very difficult to access therefore I prefer being safe when meeting random hookups.

I want to re-clarify that this is just my experience. I'm not trying to force any narrative here. I just wanna know your experiences & opinions on this.

Cheers ✌🏾

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u/choco__donut β€” 27 days ago
β–² 23 r/gaybrosindia

STI Awareness is a disaster in our society.

Especially so, for us queer folks.

  1. About 4-5 years ago, I had gone to a general physician at a medical college hospital to get vaccinated against HPV and HepB. He refused to prescribe those vaccines to me, stating that the HPV vaccine was only for girls and questioned me as to why did I think I needed the HepB vaccine. I wasn't brave enough back then, to tell him that I wanted to get sexually active, therefore the measures.

Last year, I finally got prescriptions for those vaccines from a pvt doctor in a different city.

  1. Condom use is shamed.

I used to use condoms for oral sex. I can't even tell you how much I was shamed for that. I've been called boring, paranoid, coward, etc. and I was told that if I really wanna be so careful, I should stop having sex.

Safety & precaution in general is considered boring, un-sexy, and cowardly.

In fact, in our society there's more stigma associated with safety, testing & treatment than with the STIs themselves.

Majority of people have no idea that even oral sex can transmit STIs.

Majority of people don't even know that there are STIs other than HIV too.

  1. There are some NGOs who assist with PrEP access n stuff. I've spoken to a few counsellors from those NGOs, and found them quite rude/impatient and of incomplete knowledge.

  2. Pvt clinics & labs are extremely expensive. In Tier 1 cities, just to even say Hi to a physician it costs β‚Ή750-1500.

The test for Gonorrhoea (NAAT) costs β‚Ή5000-8000, so hardly anyone gets tested for it.

While, it's really important that sexually active folks get tested for it regularly, because stuff like Gono or Chlamydia when in the mouth/throat/butt doesn't cause any symptoms in majority of cases, while remaining highly contagious, so people might end up spreading it to multiple sexual partners unknowingly.

Today I was trying to enquire about gono testing from an NGO counsellor and she scolded me saying that -- I read stuff on Google and believe it, and I'm asking for unnecessary tests that aren't recommended unless symptomatic.

I'm just so tired.

At this point I'm left to doubt whether the problem is with the system, or is it actually me who's the problem.

Looks like most people are doing fine, without regular testing, without condoms for oral sex, without getting vaccinated, etc.

Am I just worrying too much and taking unnecessary precautions?

I don't know. I'm really confused.

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u/choco__donut β€” 28 days ago

Do you like your dick/balls/butt played with while you give BJs?πŸ’

For me, it's almost a deal breaker, if a top won't gimme a handjob at least.

I immensely enjoy giving BJs, but only when the Tops/guys getting sucked at least bother to keep stimualting me by massaging my balls, stroking my cock, rimming me, fingering me, with spanks and indulging in some cuddles before & after the BJs.

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u/choco__donut β€” 1 month ago

I'm such a huge AD(DICK)T! πŸ†πŸ’πŸ€€πŸ₯΅πŸ˜‚

I just enjoy giving nice wet sloppy BJs SO MUCH! πŸ†πŸ‘„πŸ’πŸ‘…πŸ₯΅πŸ€€

It started about a year ago, and since then I'm hooked! I literally drool at the sight/thought of cocks!

There have even been nights when I've sucked 2 cocks, one after the other.

I hardly get tired.

I simply enjoy this immensely!

The lovely aroma of a clean cock and mildly sweaty balls πŸ˜‹ is so enticing!

Goodness! Can't wait to suck the next one! 🫦

PS: Though I feel properly fulfilled only when the guy getting sucked keeps playing with my cock, butt, balls, nipps, etc as well : ) and makes me cum once he cums! 😁

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u/choco__donut β€” 1 month ago