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37 [M4A] NNJ NYC- Are you looking to try spanking?

Experienced spanker here looking for in-shape spankees 18-30 who want to be taken over my knee. All races, orientations, genders, and experience levels are welcome. Usually the people who message me fall into at least one of the following categories:

Intro spanking - If it's your first time, we can talk about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. No problem if you're nervous. No problem if you want to stop or decide this isn't for you.

Erotic spanking - Some spankees like to be plugged for the spanking and/or want edging/milking after.

Ageplay spanking - Deep inside you is an inner boy/girl who wants to come out. Juvenile undies, shaving, bath time are examples of things these boys/girls like as part of their spanking sessions.

Discipline spanking - Some spankees want real accountability to help with school/gym/work/etc goals. These are higher intensity no-nonsense spankings

When you reply, please tell me which of these groups best describes you. Also include your age, height/weight and pic to start. There is one of me in my profile.

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u/drumerm0n — 1 day ago

37M [M4M] #NYC - Are you looking to try spanking?

Experienced spanker here looking for in-shape spankees 18-30 who want to be taken over my knee. All races, orientations, genders, and experience levels are welcome. Usually the people who message me fall into at least one of the following categories:

Intro spanking - If it's your first time, we can talk about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. No problem if you're nervous. No problem if you want to stop or decide this isn't for you.

Erotic spanking - Some spankees like to be plugged for the spanking and/or want edging/milking after.

Ageplay spanking - Deep inside you is an inner boy who wants to come out. Juvenile undies, shaving, bath time are examples of things these boys like as part of their spanking sessions.

Discipline spanking - Some spankees want real accountability to help with school/gym/work/etc goals. These are higher intensity no-nonsense spankings

When you reply, please tell me which of these groups best describes you. Also include your age, height/weight and pic to start. There is one of me in my profile.

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u/drumerm0n — 1 day ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Are you looking to try spanking?

Experienced spanker here looking for in-shape spankees 18-30 who want to be taken over my knee. All races, orientations, genders, and experience levels are welcome. Usually the people who message me fall into at least one of the following categories:

Intro spanking - If it's your first time, we can talk about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. No problem if you're nervous. No problem if you want to stop or decide this isn't for you.

Erotic spanking - Some spankees like to be plugged for the spanking and/or want edging/milking after.

Ageplay spanking - Deep inside you is an inner boy/girl who wants to come out. Juvenile undies, shaving, bath time are examples of things these boys/girls like as part of their spanking sessions.

Discipline spanking - Some spankees want real accountability to help with school/gym/work/etc goals. These are higher intensity no-nonsense spankings

When you reply, please tell me which of these groups best describes you. Also include your age, height/weight and pic to start. There is one of me in my profile.

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u/drumerm0n — 1 day ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Are you looking to try spanking?

Experienced spanker here looking for in-shape spankees 18-30 who want to be taken over my knee. All races, orientations, genders, and experience levels are welcome. Usually the people who message me fall into at least one of the following categories:

Intro spanking - If it's your first time, we can talk about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. No problem if you're nervous. No problem if you want to stop or decide this isn't for you.

Erotic spanking - Some spankees like to be plugged for the spanking and/or want edging/milking after.

Ageplay spanking - Deep inside you is an inner boy/girl who wants to come out. Juvenile undies, shaving, bath time are examples of things these boys/girls like as part of their spanking sessions.

Discipline spanking - Some spankees want real accountability to help with school/gym/work/etc goals. These are higher intensity no-nonsense spankings

When you reply, please tell me which of these groups best describes you. Also include your age, height/weight and pic to start. There is one of me in my profile.

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u/drumerm0n — 2 days ago

Any couples get spanked together?

I’ve only spanked a couple together a few times. It’s great when it works and everybody’s on the same page and getting their needs met though

u/drumerm0n — 2 days ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Are you a couple who needs a spanking?

Hello, I’m looking for a couple where one or both partners is looking for a spanking. Why you’re getting spanked and how you get spanked are both negotiable based on your needs, but both of you should be present for the spanking (at least the first time). MF, MM, and FF couples are all welcome but both partners should be younger than me.

I’m 37, tall and fit. I live alone in Manhattan and have been spanking butts since college.

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Daddy disciplinarian for younger

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Curious about spanking?

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago

37 [M4M] #NYC - Spanking Dom giving discipline spankings

Are you struggling with work or school? Making irresponsible choices or not acting your age? Well if you’re going to act immaturely, then that’s how you’ll be disciplined - pants and underwear down across my knee. You’ll have a safeword but the people I spank are getting actual punishment to help them improve, so make sure that’s what you want. Your spanking will be firm, but fair and appropriate for your behavior and pain tolerance.

Guys 20-30.

NYC locals only / in-person meets

No sex

In your first message, please introduce yourself and tell me a little about what’s going on with you and your behavior.

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago
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37 [M4F] #NNJ NYC - Curious about spanking?

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Dad for little seeking discipline

Spanking is an important part of this, but it isn't just about spanking. This about the feeling you get having your undies taken down and being laid across dad's lap when you know you've done something wrong, the feeling of having your bottom reddened, and then the feeling of being held afterwards.

Ageplay and spanking / discipline go hand in hand for me and hopefully they do for you as well. I'm pretty experienced but you don't have to be - just be able to communicate what you want and need

NYC only please

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u/drumerm0n — 10 days ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Are you a couple who needs a spanking?

Hello, I’m looking for a couple where one or both partners is looking for a spanking. Why you’re getting spanked and how you get spanked are both negotiable based on your needs, but both of you should be present for the spanking (at least the first time). MF, MM, and FF couples are all welcome but both partners should be younger than me.

I’m 37, tall and fit. I live alone in Manhattan and have been spanking butts since college.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Older disciplinarian for younger

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Curious about spanking?

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Curious about spanking?

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4M] #NYC - Spanking Dom giving discipline spankings

Are you struggling with work or school? Making irresponsible choices or not acting your age? Well if you’re going to act immaturely, then that’s how you’ll be disciplined - pants and underwear down across my knee. You’ll have a safeword but the people I spank are getting actual punishment to help them improve, so make sure that’s what you want. Your spanking will be firm, but fair and appropriate for your behavior and pain tolerance.

Guys 20-30.

NYC locals only / in-person meets

No sex

In your first message, please introduce yourself and tell me a little about what’s going on with you and your behavior.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago
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37 [M4F] #NNJ NYC - Curious about spanking?

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Dad for little seeking discipline

Spanking is an important part of this, but it isn't just about spanking. This about the feeling you get having your undies taken down and being laid across dad's lap when you know you've done something wrong, the feeling of having your bottom reddened, and then the feeling of being held afterwards.

Ageplay and spanking / discipline go hand in hand for me and hopefully they do for you as well. I'm pretty experienced but you don't have to be - just be able to communicate what you want and need

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u/drumerm0n — 18 days ago

37 [M4F] #NYC - Are you a couple who needs a spanking?

Hello, I’m looking for a couple where one or both partners is looking for a spanking. Why you’re getting spanked and how you get spanked are both negotiable based on your needs, but both of you should be present for the spanking (at least the first time). MF, MM, and FF couples are all welcome but both partners should be younger than me.

I’m 37, tall and fit. I live alone in Manhattan and have been spanking butts since college.

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u/drumerm0n — 25 days ago

37 [M4A] #NYC - Older disciplinarian for younger

Hello, I’m an experienced spanker looking for an in-shape spankee, aged 20-30, who want to try going over my knee. All races, orientations, and experience levels welcome.

If we decide to meet, it will be for coffee first. We will start by talking about everything you might like to try and things you're not comfortable with in detail. This includes touching (or lack thereof), implements, intensity, positions, and anything else that might be on your mind. It’s normal to be nervous and no problem if you want to stop midway through because you’ll always have a safeword.

So if this is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time, but have been too nervous to pursue, consider sending a message and starting the conversation.

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u/drumerm0n — 25 days ago