u/untoldlegacie

Handsome 40M here. I stand 6’, rock a beard and manage to stay in decent shape. I love being outdoors, coach a baseball team when I’m not traveling for work and lately have been loving some red light therapy in the sauna. So why I’m here..

Im not looking for an emotional rescue—my marriage is stable - I’m looking for a connection that balances everyday banter with high-intensity, sexually charged excitement. I’m not looking for an emotional rescue—my marriage is stable—but I miss the thrill of the chase, the anticipation, the flirty messages.

I’m genuine, respectful and have a healthy libido as well as an open mind to explore things our primary partners don’t care for…but we still want to go back to them in our real world.

If this sounds like you, let’s chat!

Icebreaker- what are your plans for Memorial Day?

*notabot.

I’m a 49-year-old married woman with one child who is in his first year of community college. I’ve been married to his dad, my husband, my entire life but over Christmas, I started texting a younger man who approached me on a girls night out. Texts eventually became Sexting and last weekend when I thought I was home alone I met him for drinks and then brought him back to my house. Clothes came off fast and furious as we were both too drunk to even be ubering and had months of build up that was about to be satisfied. I don’t remember the last time I wanted to feel someone simply fucking me. It was and is still a blur but after ripping clothes off and being pushed against the wall of my unlit entry way I took him eagerly inside my mouth like I was competing for a prize just as a light turned on and I hear my son yelling from the living room. I started crying and heard the door open then slam.

As I calmed down and looked up my son who wasn’t supposed to be home was standing over me, still naked asking me what was happening. His voice was so calm snd controlled that it was almost welcoming to have him near. Later, he said that I was noticeably worked up, which is why he sat down on the ground next to me. He rubbed my back and we transitioned into small talk, which at some point led into laughing and us both agreed that we needed a drink. Still naked, we walked into the living room, and I sat down while he poured a drink. He promised me without ever asking for any explanation that this would be our little secret. A gracious hug turned into a longer hug with hands around my lower back, which eventually slid down lower. I don’t know why I let this continue, but with all of my emotions still worked up I allowed for him to pull me in closer. We kissed and then he took me to the couch.