r/tuberousbreast

Do my breasts look stereotypically tuberous? When I have puffy nipples (not cold) they look more tuberous. But when I’m cold they look normal. Could my period have something to do with this? I’m on my period and maybe my hormones make my nipples puffier?

Also, I wanted to understand if they weren’t fully developed. I’ve been looking into why my breasts are so small and oddly shaped and I came across pictures that show Tanner Stage 4 breasts and I feel they look quite like mine.

I had disordered eating during my entire teenage years (not eating enough, excessive exercise but never underweight due to muscle) and I feel like maybe I am still within stage 4? I was almost completely flat chested right up until about this year honestly, I’ve grown a cup in a year with little/no weight gain. I am 18 now so I understand I am not really fully developed, but I want to grow past this stage of my breasts because they look very unappealing and unconventional to me.

I want bigger boobs with a rounder shape. Do you believe that this shape is something I can grow out of? Is breast aug. my only chance to change the way they look now at my age?

Are my breasts tuberous? They look really weird and I’ve been comparing them to tuberous ones.. are they just small and asymmetrical?

When Love Isn’t Enough…

TLDR: started dating. He told me he loves breasts. Told him about my deformity. He told me love mattered most. Got married. Saw them. Changed his whole demeanor toward me and lost interest in a bond. :(
Yes, self love is key, but I wish I could be desired, honestly.

I understand I should have gone with my better judgment: don’t date a titty lover. Yet, what do you do when a man is a gentleman, not pushy, but genuinely seems interested, even after you educate him on your deformity? How would it have felt if I turned him down for liking breasts? After all, he continuously reassured me that no deformity or imperfection would chase his desire away. We are told, “love is enough with the right person,” we are also told, “confidence is key,” but what we aren’t told is enough is, “you never know until you try.”

He felt them and approved; TMI (too much info): he used to moan in delight when massaging them in the beginning. He also got harder during sex. Nowadays, he never gets hard enough to perform…

Ok, TMI-over. However, after I finally let him see them, the excitement on his face visibly diminished…I will never forget how disappointed he looked, the fake smile he tried to force before HE put my shirt back down for me…

The two year anniversary of this embarrassing night recently passed, and things have never returned to the elated, delightful love we shared before he saw my TBD. He once begged to take showers with me or see pictures. After seeing them, he’s made excuses when I ask if he wants to shower…he’s made excuses for his lack of response to intimate pictures. He’s made remarks like, “you still have a pretty face,” and, “I’m glad you found a nice guy like me to still love you regardless of those.”

Yet, I know it could be much worse. I know he could be really mean about my breasts. I’ve read hurtful stories on here from women whose husbands had hurtful nicknames for their tuberous breasts, so I am extremely grateful my husband hasn’t done that. It just hurts to have felt his excitement physically drain from him, because I wish he would have genuinely wanted a bond beyond my breasts, and I was open with him about them!!! I wish he would have made the decision to reject me before pursuing me as his wife.

If you read this, thank you very much. I don’t want to be negative, but I also want to prevent any of my fellow TBD sisters from this unnecessary heartache. I strongly advise against dating a man who openly tells you he’s a titty-lover—especially if you didn’t ask!!! Now, I’m stuck in a mental loop of constant reminders I’m not what my husband wants. I can’t go into public, watch shows, look at the internet, or even read books without my brain reminding me those women have breasts my husband would most likely approve of.

It’s a cruel reminder that there is something noticeably off about my breasts. I have been rejected for my breasts in the past—I even had a man on Craigslist (USA) ghost me when I answered his ad offering a free room to a woman willing to walk around in lingerie. Yes, it was a low moment in my life to even consider rooming with a stranger, but my emphasis is on the fact even a craigslist creep ignored me after seeing these things!!! Are they truly that awful looking? I’m open to feedback.

Anyway, TBD sisters, I know self-love is key, so I have been fighting really hard to spend more intimate time alone with my breasts. I am trying very hard to learn to love them…(while I save up money for surgery and recovery!) I hope this long-winded post will help some of you go into the dating world with extreme caution, because you cannot plant flowers in barren soil. In other words, love might not be enough if the man is genuinely and carnally aroused by breasts. I don’t want any of you stuck in this mental loop.

Constricted/tuberous breast correction. 255 low profile, silicone, dual plane. Also had a peri-areola lift to address the puffiness at the nipple.

Slight double bubble on my left breast that we are monitoring, but my doctor warned me pre-op that this could possibly happen due to my starting point. Some stitches poked through on my right nipple and I will likely do nipple tightening down the line.

Truly life changing surgery. Went from barely filling an A cup to 30DD.

tbh just hate how wide-set they are, but when I lift my hands straight above my head they get a nice lift and i don’t mind the shape then. i do want a lift when able to but cant identify whether or not they’re tuberous or just sag

Got into a relationship recently but am insecure about my breasts...do yall I have tuberous? also I've been trying to find out what is wrong with my left nipple (seen best in last photo) but have literally found nothing so if yall have any ideas please share them! Thank you

Hi I really need some advice if these are tuberous. I'm really insecure about and need advice on what my problem is and why my breasts look this way and how to stop hating them so much. 😭

Been very insecure about it tbh. I always slip away from intimacy because of this.... 💔

Always been envious of women with round breast....

I feel so awful and insecure about them, I’m 18f 270 pounds 5’11..

Like it don’t even help that I’m plus size, when people get with plus size women they expect them to have bigger breasts but not only are mine flat, they’re SO uneven and tuberous and saggy. I feel like I’m deformed. You know what’s crazy. My ASS cheeks are uneven as well.

I just don’t understand why they’re like this. I remember my mom took me to the doctor when I was 14, this old dude had been like I guess massaging/feeling on my breasts I guess to find a cancer thing but there was nothing. None of my other family members have this problem.

I’m now constantly maybe fat grafting but I’m not even sure how I’m going to get the money to get that done, and my insurance sucks so I’m also not sure if it’s even be covered.

What do you guys think I should do..or what’s your take in general?

Im 28
Thank you 🫶🏻

They were too cold and changed shape so heres them not cold, tuberous or nah? Idrk

I need help because I don’t know if my breast are tuberous or not. Sometimes they look great and other times I hate them cause of my big areolas and the weird shape they get when they’re not cold

I hate that I don't look normal. It's the worst feeling, you were robbed of the affection every normal girl gets and you just get treated like shit and a lantern. that's my fate I suppose but I'm going to change it no matter what and as soon as possible

First pic is 2 years postpartum after first baby. They went completely back to normal after breastfeeding.

Second-fourth pics are 2 weeks postpartum after second baby. Still dark and large but my areolas will shrink and lighten again (they did after my first)

Just curious if they’re actually tuberous if they’re only like this while pregnant and breastfeeding?