Hey,

Married dad, 33, wife is not aware that I'm bicurious.

HWP, 6'2", present very masculine, but have really good hygeine, hitting the gym more recently.

I am normally completely in control every day. I take care at home,work, with family, and friends. But I just want to have a moment where I can shut my brain off and be told what to do.

I've NEVER experienced anything with a guy before, so I'm looking for someone in a similar boat. Someone newer who's interested in taking things slow, but who is more dominant by nature. I would love to try giving head, being the bottom, and having someone who wants to dominate be more in control when we get there.

I'm into breweries, coffee, reading, some gaming, guitar and concerts, and being outdoors.

I'd love to talk more, share photos, see if we're a match, etc. but just hit me up and let me know. I'd love to hear what you're into and about.

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a very successful career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. the typical happy American dream but I'm not happy, although I think most my friends would be shocked to know I'm posting on here. I am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that. I think I'm trending towards separation.... but I'm not sure. I'm trying to work on myself and make sure I'm doing everything possible, but I'm honestly just tired and need something in life for myself.

I'm tall (6'2"), dark hair, attractive, tattoos, a nice smile, I've been told I have a great voice. I love to be snarky/witty/sarcastic, but I also love to be real. I think I'm quite intelligent and looking for someone that can keep up. I'm highly attracted to intelligence and wit. I think physical attraction is also key, I don't have a type per say, but I'd appreciate if you take care of yourself and generally care about your apperance. I'm not a super model and would say I have an average build right now, but I'm working on it and getting back into a strict gym routine (I'm also just ALWAYS SORE NOW, doing this in my 30s is nothing like it was at 20). haha.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games but I get so little time to just sit and play nowadays. My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love a night out as much as a night in watching a movie with homemade cocktails or tea. I've been working on visiting every Minneapolis-area brewery and have a running list of where I've been.

If any of this sounds like you or is of interest to you I would love to chat and get to know you. Otherwise, good luck in your search!

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a very successful career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. the typical happy American dream but I'm not happy, although I think most my friends would be shocked to know I'm posting on here. I am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that. I think I'm trending towards separation.... but I'm not sure. I'm trying to work on myself and make sure I'm doing everything possible, but I'm honestly just tired and need something in life for myself.

I'm tall (6'2"), dark hair, attractive, tattoos, a nice smile, I've been told I have a great voice. I love to be snarky/witty/sarcastic, but I also love to be real. I think I'm quite intelligent and looking for someone that can keep up. I'm highly attracted to intelligence and wit. I think physical attraction is also key, I don't have a type per say, but I'd appreciate if you take care of yourself and generally care about your apperance. I'm not a super model and would say I have an average build right now, but I'm working on it and getting back into a strict gym routine (I'm also just ALWAYS SORE NOW, doing this in my 30s is nothing like it was at 20). haha.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games but I get so little time to just sit and play nowadays. My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love a night out as much as a night in watching a movie with homemade cocktails or tea. I've been working on visiting every Minneapolis-area brewery and have a running list of where I've been.

If any of this sounds like you or is of interest to you I would love to chat and get to know you. Otherwise, good luck in your search!

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I'm looking for someone that sees me, someone that's a best friend, where we connect and the energy and connection is there without really having to try that hard. I crave being seen, and known, and liked. If all that falls into place I would also love to meet in person and see how things go.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart.

I've also been.... mistreated, emotionally batted around, disrespected, and told that any of my concerns as related to the relationship are just not that important. All that being said... I'm coming into this with some skeletons. I know that this is probably not the right way to address my problems, and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2" ~ 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel, my voice should be used in documentaries or podcasts, and my demeanor is calming even thought I look slightly intense and have a mild-moderate RBF. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel, my voice should be used in documentaries or podcasts, and my demeanor is calming even thought I look slightly intense and have a mild-moderate RBF. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hey,
Thanks for taking the time to read my post.

I'm sure that guys like me are a dime-a-dozen, but I guess I'll start with a bit of the about-me.
- Tall, Dark, Handsome (200 lbs and 6'2") HWP.
- Professional and successful
- Clean, DDF, Good Hygeine, a very normal and upstanding guy.
- Tattoos
- Social Drinker
- Non-Smoker but don't judge if you do.
- Married with kids (Marriage is... on the rocks and in a bad spot currently and happy to share anything. I get if this is a deal-breaker but I'm happy to answer any questions about anything).
- Generally in charge at work, leading the home, successful, constantly "on" and having to have my stuff all together or things fall apart.
- Have hobbies, go to therapy, getting back into working out, taking the time to really learn about myself and figure out how to be the best version of myself.

I crave.... to submit, to take instruction, to be used for someone else's pleasure, and to just fully shut my brain off because I've NEVER gotten the opportunity to do so. However, I also crave connection and emotional honesty. I crave being seen and known for who I am and for taht to just be ok. I think an actual connection needs to be made first and I would love to get to know you for who you are and what you're looking for before anything physical.

I have many fantasies of being submissive and am happy to share tons of details. But some of the high-level things I'm interested in are...

Dom/Sub relationships where I would be the sub.
Master/Slave dynamics.
Taking Instruction.
Bondage/blindfolds
Light impact play
Toys/Pegging/Anal Play/Etc.
Feminization/humiliation
MAYBE some forced bi or cei type things?

My limits would be around scat/blood/impact that leaves serious marks/wax/electro/cbt/etc. That genre of things.

I'm an open book and would love to find someone to talk with about all of this. If not, good luck in your search!

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel, my voice should be used in documentaries or podcasts, and my demeanor is calming even thought I look slightly intense and have a mild-moderate RBF. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel, my voice should be used in documentaries or podcasts, and my demeanor is calming even thought I look slightly intense and have a mild-moderate RBF. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hey,

I'm 33, fittish, tall, 6'2" 200, attractive, straight, DDF, casual drinker, professional and put together, with 0 experience with a man but curious for forever.

I am looking for someone (preferably also newish to this but I'm open to you having experience) that would be interested in taking the lead, being dominant, running the show, etc. I have some things that I'm interested in trying specifically, but would love to chat specifics in DMs.

I cannot host. I only ask that you have good hygeine, are somewhat fit to average, and are DDF in return.

Hello,

If you're like me you're here because no matter how many times you try to make your needs known it just goes unheard, or they listen but nothing changes. You're working on being a better version of yourself and helping around the house and supporting them in what they do but they just don't pour back. Someone once said "Pouring from an empty cup" and that summarizes where I am in my marriage right now.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciated for what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula. Weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

Reposting to fix my title...

I've had a few conversations on here in the past but am looking for the one. I think the hardest thing is scheduling and location, but I'm holding out hope that someone is out there in a similar situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula -- weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

I've had a few conversations on here in the past but am looking for the one. I think the hardest thing is scheduling and location, but I'm holding out hope that someone is out there in a similar situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula -- weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

I've had a few conversations on here in the past but am looking for the one. I think the hardest thing is scheduling and location, but I'm holding out hope that someone is out there in a similar situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula -- weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

I've had a few conversations on here in the past but am looking for the one. I think the hardest thing is scheduling and location, but I'm holding out hope that someone is out there in a similar situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula -- weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula. Weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

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Hello,

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula. Weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders and feel like I constantly have to be on my A game or everything will fall apart. Even so, I feel like I'm just generally not liked, seen, or appreciatedIfor what I do. I'm never enough. I'm constantly fighting uphill to get things that I like and I want. And I'm just exhausted from the struggle. I know that this is probably not the right thing to do and not the moral thing to do, but here I am. I do have a professional therapist that I see regularly. And I promise that I will not use you as my therapist. I also understand that we both come into this with our own baggage and I'm happy to talk and listen to any of that.

I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting. Where it can be judgement free and we can just k ow each other without the masks or defenses we have to have up every day in reality.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

Half-Jokes aside, I'm looking for a true friendship, emotional connection, and a relationship. I'm hoping that we can vent, talk, and laugh about deep subjects, but also about the dumb things, movies, books, or the wildness of our everyday lives.

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula. Weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders. I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I'm in a difficult position in my marriage and things have been.... rocky for a while to say the least. I don't feel like I'm known or liked for who I am and I crave just being able to drop my defenses to truly know someone and be known by someone for who I really am and not for this person with all these expecations built around them. I go to therapy regularly to try and own my side of things and work through becoming a better version of myself. But I also realize I'm not perfect and continually have to work to be better.

I'm more than happy to talk about what led me to being here and reaching out like this, but I also don't want to just trauma dump and spouse bash. So always happy to answer questions and explain my background. But am also extremely interested in you and would love to get the full story. I'd love to eventually move to this being an in-person thing but I'm here for the ride and honestly open to any situation.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

Re-posting because I missed the rule about physical description: I will lead with that:

I'm conventionally handsome, a large number of tattoos, 6'2", 200 pounds, dark hair, usually rocking a bit of scruff or a clean shaven face. I've been told my eyes are uniquely hazel and my dentist says I have a uniquely shaped uvula. Weird fact about me that probably no one else in my life has ever noticed. I'd say right now I have an average build but I'm working on being in the gym more and building out more muscle definition and overall cardio/strength fitness.

I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders. I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting.

Half-Jokes aside, I'm looking for a true friendship, emotional connection, and a relationship. I'm hoping that we can vent, talk, and laugh about deep subjects, but also about the dumb things, movies, books, or the wildness of our everyday lives.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I'm in a difficult position in my marriage and things have been.... rocky for a while to say the least. I don't feel like I'm known or liked for who I am and I crave just being able to drop my defenses to truly know someone and be known by someone for who I really am and not for this person with all these expecations built around them. I go to therapy regularly to try and own my side of things and work through becoming a better version of myself. But I also realize I'm not perfect and continually have to work to be better.

I'm more than happy to talk about what led me to being here and reaching out like this, but I also don't want to just trauma dump and spouse bash. So always happy to answer questions and explain my background. But am also extremely interested in you and would love to get the full story. I'd love to eventually move to this being an in-person thing but I'm here for the ride and honestly open to any situation.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

Half-Jokes aside, I'm looking for a true friendship, emotional connection, and a relationship. I'm hoping that we can vent, talk, and laugh about deep subjects, but also about the dumb things, movies, books, or the wildness of our everyday lives.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I'm in a difficult position in my marriage and things have been.... rocky for a while to say the least. I don't feel like I'm known or liked for who I am and I crave just being able to drop my defenses to truly know someone and be known by someone for who I really am and not for this person with all these expecations built around them. I go to therapy regularly to try and own my side of things and work through becoming a better version of myself. But I also realize I'm not perfect and continually have to work to be better.

I'm more than happy to talk about what led me to being here and reaching out like this, but I also don't want to just trauma dump and spouse bash. So always happy to answer questions and explain my background. But am also extremely interested in you and would love to get the full story. I'd love to eventually move to this being an in-person thing but I'm here for the ride and honestly open to any situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, tattoos, tall, a verified 7/10 on Reddit standards I'd probably say? But I can let you judge if we get there.
I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders. I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (:

Hello,

Half-Jokes aside, I'm looking for a true friendship, emotional connection, and a relationship. I'm hoping that we can vent, talk, and laugh about deep subjects, but also about the dumb things, movies, books, or the wildness of our everyday lives.

My brain is chronically engaged and I have a hard time not taking in information. I will be the all-star teammate at the next bar trivia night. Or I can bore you to death with all the random trivia I know about almost any subject.

I love playing and listening to music, I love movies that make you think, I love books, and I've been reading the Three Body Problem series recently and absolutely in love with it. I'm always looking for new book and music suggestions and would love to know what makes your brain tick. I'm a nerd at heart and have a special place in my heart for some video games, but am deeply committed to my work and the people around me in life.

I like working out and being outdoors. I would love to visit more national parks or take a trip to the boundary waters to back-country camp on an island for a week straight this summer.

Staring at the milky way in the dead of night is my favorite kind of quiet moment.

I'm in a difficult position in my marriage and things have been.... rocky for a while to say the least. I don't feel like I'm known or liked for who I am and I crave just being able to drop my defenses to truly know someone and be known by someone for who I really am and not for this person with all these expecations built around them. I go to therapy regularly to try and own my side of things and work through becoming a better version of myself. But I also realize I'm not perfect and continually have to work to be better.

I'm more than happy to talk about what led me to being here and reaching out like this, but I also don't want to just trauma dump and spouse bash. So always happy to answer questions and explain my background. But am also extremely interested in you and would love to get the full story. I'd love to eventually move to this being an in-person thing but I'm here for the ride and honestly open to any situation.

I'm conventionally handsome, tattoos, tall, a verified 7/10 on Reddit standards I'd probably say? But I can let you judge if we get there.
I have a career, four kids, pets, a house, etc. and am the sole breadwinner at home so I have a lot riding on my shoulders. I'd love to be able to just cut loose with someone, release some of the tension, and just exist in something that can be mutually beneficial, fun, and exciting.

I think attraction is important but not everything. I'm open to many backgrounds and walks of life and would love to get to know you for who you are.

If any of this sounds interesting to you I'd love to chat. And if not, good luck in your search. I know it's always a struggle for all of us. (: