u/Queen_Sorsha

Don't message me because I'm a beautiful woman and you think findom means buying my attention.

Don't message me because I'm a beautiful woman and you think findom means buying my attention.

Message me because you understand the kink and genuinely want to devote yourself to serving and pleasing me as my long term financial submissive.

Message me because you've read my pinned posts, you've spent time looking through my profile, and you've paid attention to detail.

Message me because you've already sent, you know that protocol matters, you've decided you're serious about worshipping me financially, and you're ready to lay all your cards on the table so that I can determine if we're aligned.

This isn't a one night stand where you get to nut to my performance of dominance for a fee and then leave. This is a genuine commitment where we both bring our full authentic selves. If you're not here to bond deeply and build a beautiful dynamic with me over time, dm someone else to get your quick fix.

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 1 hour ago

My sendy little buttslut's first DRAIN GAME! πŸ‘ πŸ• $3/upvote $6/comment, unlimited comments. 3.5 hrs. Anything over $300 becomes debt πŸ₯΅

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 1 day ago

Popping his drain game cherry πŸ’ πŸ€‘ 🍾 $3/upvote $6/comment

My devoted sendbitch wants to do his first drain game to celebrate my half birthday, and I'm happy to indulge him! He's plugged with a lovense toy right now that I'm controlling remotely, and he's gonna be stuffing progressively larger and larger toys into his cash hole for me over the course of the drain. His ass is mine. Let's make his wallet leak 😈

- Ends 4 pm PST (3.5 hr drain)

- $3/upvote, $6/comment (unlimited comments!)

- he's agreed to send a max of $300 today (if reached), the rest will become debt to be paid to me over time with 11% interest

- I can only respond to other people's comments

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 1 day ago

It's your Queen's half birthday today. What a wonderful reason to send πŸ₯³πŸ§πŸŽ‰

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 2 days ago

Logistical PSA - don't expect findommes to be psychic.

Men are such mysterious creatures (I say this very tongue in cheek)...what do they expect us to do, read their minds??

If you come crawling back into our dms with a brand new (blank, unremarkable) account, sporting a spiffy new account name that we have no way of recognizing, you gotta tell us who tf you are. Like, don't assume you're the only one sending? Don't assume you're the only one we're talking to??

This seems like common sense to me. Think it through. Whyyy do y'all do this, is it a lack of basic empathy/an inability to put yourself in another person's shoes, critical thinking clouded by horniness, or what. I'm bamboozled.

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 3 days ago

I see every time you displease or annoy me (even a little!) as an opportunity for training better behavior. How trainable you are determines whether I keep you.

You don't have to be perfect to serve me, but you do have to be trainable. You must WANT to be trained. If you don't respond to my feedback, conditioning and corrections in ways that I enjoy... you will be forgotten. You will lose the privilege of having access to my energy.

Before you dm, check in with yourself honestly about whether you like the idea of willingly being shaped into a tool for my pleasure.

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 4 days ago

Don't wait until you think you have my attention to send. Send, and you'll receive my attention- on my time.

35F

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 4 days ago

The kind of good boys I want (click to read)πŸ‘‡πŸ½

The ones who ask if they can please send

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Who beg to sendΒ 

Who ask if they can please send more than I told them to

Who plead to be allowed to send again

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 5 days ago

Are you in the mood to be brave or be hunted? Either way, you're already mine 😈

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 7 days ago

Selling physical items for pocket change is such a rough side hustle to try and engage in when findom is your main schtick πŸ’€

I realize this is kinda niche but like what do you mean you're only willing to pay $20 for my used house slippers I gotta walk my ass down to the post office and take time outta my day to mail that shit I got 3 different subs who would happily send me $20 right now if I just told them to dafuq

I feel like if I'm gonna be selling personal items I'm gonna wanna be charging findom prices. The only used panty I ever sold made me $300 (not including shipping). Sold to an already established high budget finsub (obviously). Was literally about to throw them in the trash; buying them was his idea, not mine.

Most tangible goods buyers out there don't seem to wanna spend enough to make it feel remotely worth it to me. It feels so transactional and that's because it literally is haha.

My fellow findommes who also sell stuff like socks, bathwater, underwear, toenail clippings, etc. on the side... how do you actually do it? Like, mentally? πŸ˜‚ How do you compartmentalize these 2 very different worlds? And where the heck does one find customers for this kind of thing who aren't cheap af??

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u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 7 days ago
β–² 3 r/FindomBank

There is no one right way to do Findom. Like any healthy and consensual D/S dynamic, it’s about the negotiations, intentions, limits and boundaries that two people agree on between themselves.

What are some non negotiables for you (either as a some or a sub)?

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 7 days ago

A little birdie told me you're into long term enthusiastically consensual power exchange in the form of financial domination 🎡 🎢 🎡 🎢 🐦

Step into my office πŸšͺ🫴

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 7 days ago

Do not assume that I'm a cold shallow money grabber just because I require tribute before giving you much attention.

I'm all about genuine connection. Here in these findom spaces, however... why would I engage with a prospective sub who fails to do the bare minimum? The initial tribute isn't about me wanting to make a quick easy buck and take advantage.

It's about subs showing me they value my time and can pay attention to detail. It's an expression of submission and worship. It shows me they're serious about wanting to be of service and can follow simple instructions. It's the first test that gets them in the door. If they fail the test, they don't get in the door. It's as simple as that.

Requiring tribute to put care into considering someone does not mean I'm only about the bottom line. That said, my time is valuable, my expectations are clear, and I won't give away my energy for free to a person who hasn't yet proved they're worthy of it. There are far too many time wasters (as in, not actual finsubs) on this app for doing it any other way to be sustainable.

Once we've settled into an established D/S dynamic with a solid foundation, I'm happy to shower my subs with lots of time and warmth. It never feels transactional. Either of us can initiate conversation and it never feels like my subs have to be sending every time we're talking. That would honestly be horrible!

It's not black and white. I'm an experienced financial dominatrix with a full and deep understanding of this kink. I'm not a soft mommy domme, though I can be quite caring and nurturing, and I do have a vested interest in seeing my subs thrive.

Protocol is important to me, I can be strict where it matters, I will not compromise on my boundaries and limits, and I also care about respecting theirs. I'm open to respectful feedback but I don't entertain bullshit. I'm crystal clear on who I am as a person and as a domme. This is about centering my pleasure.

Here's what gives me pleasure.

Am I here for the money? Yes. That is an important part of findom and it wouldn't be findom without it. I'm not ashamed to say I love money, and, even more to the point, I love what it represents when subs send it to me. I can fully own that the power exchange of being sent to turns me on.

Am I equally here for connection? Absolutely. Just sending with no real authenticity or depth isn't interesting to me. On the flipside, just connecting with no sending isn't what I'm here for - I've got plenty of that in my vanilla life. That wouldn't be financial domination.

It's the balance of both that really butters my toast, and the subs who understand that very quickly find a way into my heart. ❀️‍πŸ”₯

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 8 days ago

I want your full surrender. When you release your dollars, you set them free so they can find their way to where they belong β™₯️

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 8 days ago
β–² 10 r/findom

I fucking love milking your wallet πŸ’¦

You're so good at giving it to me 😍🀍

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 9 days ago

You'll be begging me to own you forever once you take the leap into my service πŸ’‹

I'm not kidding; this is a common occurrence. ⏳

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 9 days ago

While I can be a little evil at times, I try to make a positive impact on the life of every finsub I touch.

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 12 days ago
β–² 4 r/FindomForLife+1 crossposts

I'm your new religion πŸͺ½ πŸ’«πŸ«°

Less thinking, more sending.

u/Queen_Sorsha β€” 12 days ago