My daddy had a bad day & I want to surprise him in some way. I’ve done little photo shoots in the past. What are some other things I could text him so that he has a little surprise waiting when he wakes up?
I know a lot of people on here seem to be in LDRs or online dynamics. Does anyone have an app controlled toy rec that isn’t $200+? I don’t mind investing in the future, but right now it isn’t really an option. I got a cheapy one off of amazon & when it works its great but when it doesn’t it sucks LOL esp if we’re in the middle of playtime😅
Hi friends! I’ve been talking to my Daddy for about a month. Things have gone great! I really like him. Only downside is that there’s a 9 hour time difference between us. He’s also extremely busy with work. He let me know that this month would be a very, very busy one.
Even with knowing that, I’ve really been struggling. I think I maybe got 2-3 texts from him this morning when I first woke up. The past few weeks most of my experience has been steady texts throughout the day. Typically in the morning when I wake up & afternoon my time (which is right before bed his time) and playing on video a couple of times a week.
Should I see how the next couple of weeks go & hope things get a better? I feel like it’s a little too early for me to be like sooooooo I’m dying from lack of attention. Or should I be like hey I know you’re busy but can you try to be a bit more present?
This is my first dynamic & navigating it online has been a little challenging.
Is it possible to reach subspace when playing online? I recently learned about it and I want to reach that point so bad. Daddy & I have a call tonight and I can’t wait.
Is it possible to reach subspace when playing online? I recently learned about it and I want to reach that point so bad. Daddy & I have a call tonight and I can’t wait.
My online Daddy has set firm boundaries around revealing his identity too early on & gave me a timeline of three months. But today he said I may earn his trust earlier that! I’m so happy I could actually squeal! And talking about the possibility of meeting in person in a couple of months!
Hello! I’ve recently decided to explore BDSM as it’s something I’ve been interested in for a while. I’ve explored a dynamic online for a bit, but I think I’m ready for something in person. D/s relationships are something I’ve been interested in since I was like 18/19 and never really explored. I was raised in a realllllly conservative/fundamentalist Baptist church. So I felt a lot of shame around sex. I’ve actually been celibate for the past 5ish years while I tried to work through it.
With that being said, I’m not just looking for a Dom. I would like an emotional connection that could possibly turn into an actual long term. After chatting for a bit, I’m willing to provide a list of hard/soft limits & interests and SFW photos. A few dates before play will be necessary to build trust.
A bit about me:
29
White
5’, 260 pounds
Working on my Bachelors of Social Work. I have 5 semesters left plus earning my advanced Masters after I graduate.
Currently living with family to assist my mom in caring for my grandmother that has dementia.
Politically liberal & very outspoken about it.
Passionate about fitness & on a weight loss journey. I’ve lost 60 pounds over the past year and plan to continue.
Working in community mental health & plan to become a therapist in the future.
Not interested in having kids or parenting anytime soon, but marriage is in my 5 year plan.
Do not use nicotine and rarely drink alcohol. Regularly use marijuana in the form of vapes & gummies.
I enjoy spending time outside, working out, making content for TikTok & reading.
I have ADHD, anxiety & MDD that are all managed well with medication.
A bit bratty & chaotic sometimes but in an endearing way not annoying (I think LOL)
Ideal Dom
Between the ages of 27-35
Respectful
High achieving, ambitious, driven
Physically fit & works out regularly
Tall. Height difference is a big turn on for me.
Gentle, caring, intentional & nurturing
Experienced with BDSM. Interested in attending lifestyle events/parties/clubs (a big bucket list item for me)
More of a soft/pleasure/gentle Dom to teach, guide & provide structure.
Emotional Intelligence is a must. I’m a major overthinker & a bit impulsive at times. I need someone who is patient and understanding.
Interested in a 24/7 lifestyle in the future. (i am not interested in being a SAHW but TPE intrigues me.)
Lives within a 2-3 hour radius of me.
Hi everyone! I’m about two weeks into talking to a new Daddy that I’m really interested in, and things have been going well so far. The biggest challenge right now is the time difference—he’s about 9 hours ahead of me.
It’s been tough because when I’m free, he’s usually asleep, and when he’s available, I’m either working or getting ready for bed. On top of that, his job keeps him pretty busy.
I’d really like to keep building the connection, so I’m curious—what are some ways people stay connected and maintain momentum when there’s a big time difference like this?
I like him and feel like we have a good vibe, so I want to give it a real shot.