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Hi, so my wite and I have been married for more than 6 years and over these years she has been meeting different guys but stuck with the same bull in the last 3 years. Over these years he has went from being her bull to becoming her boyfriend and even has lived with us for the past two years. He's also like family to me and is such a dominant guy but also is respectful.
About two months ago we was joking to me that I am such a sub and since I'm caged I don't deserve my last name. He said instead I should take his last name as a joke. I have thought about that and looked into it and told him that if it's actually a possibility I promise I would actually change my last name to his.
He loved the idea and in our marriage my wife did not take my last name so she was in full support of it too. What was initially a joke is something we are actually looking into now and our set deadline for this between us three is to have my last name gone and changed to his by October/ November at the very latest.

Hi, so my wife and I have been married for more than 6 years and over these years she has been meeting different guys but stuck with the same bull in the last 3 years. Over these years he has went from being her bull to becoming her boyfriend and even has lived with us for the past two years. He’s also like family to me and is such a dominant guy but also is respectful.

About two months ago we was joking to me that I am such a sub and since I’m caged I don’t deserve my last name. He said instead I should take his last name as a joke. I have thought about that and looked into it and told him that if it’s actually a possibility I promise I would actually change my last name to his. He loved the idea and in our marriage my wife did not take my last name so she was in full support of it too. What was initially a joke is something we are actually looking into now and our set deadline for this between us three is to have my last name gone and changed to his by October/ November at the very latest.

Hi, I have an interesting question here for everyone which I think will spark some discussion. Do you think Gen Z is the generation with the most littles/ DL’s? I feel like it’s probably since there definitely has been a lot more younger people getting into and funding out about ABDL. I myself am in Gen Z and have been wearing diapers for a long time now, now I even have my own crib and love expanding my nursery.

What are your thoughts?

Hi, I have been married for the past 6 years with my wife and we are proud to both have me as a virgin. Sex for both of us has never been a big deal and not something we want to do. We did agree that at some point it’s something we may end up doing but at the moment we are happy with the situation we are currently in. I have been playing around with chastity since 18 years old and in the last 2 years I have been 24/7 locked. Since early into our marriage my wife has been involving another bull for sexual pleasure and it’s a perfect system for us both.

Hi, I have been married for over 6 years to my beautiful wife and ever since we met I would say we were in a FLR because she was a lot more dominant than me both in life and sexually while I preferred to stay as sub. We have played around with chastity since early into our relationship and now I have been 24/7 locked for the past three years.

Something which she and I have been agreeing a lot on and implementing in this past two years was financial control. I am not exactly the best at managing my own money and my own bank statements prove that with silly purchases she wasn’t happy with so she opened a joint bank account for both of us and that is where I would have all of my money kept while my salary gets directly paid into her bank account. She lets me have a small allowance every month but she does increase or decrease it based on my behaviour. The allowance is not much either way it’s only enough for fuel and to just get around any real purchases I have to ask for permission for so she can top up my account.

The vast majority of the money goes directly into her account and it’s up to her on what exactly she wants to do with the rest after all expenses have been paid off.

Let me know your thoughts

Hi, I have been married for over 6 years to my beautiful wife and ever since we met I would say we were in a FLR because she was a lot more dominant than me both in life and sexually while I preferred to stay as sub. We have played around with chastity since early into our relationship and now I have been 24/7 locked for the past three years.

Something which she and I have been agreeing a lot on and implementing in this past two years was financial control. I am not exactly the best at managing my own money and my own bank statements prove that with silly purchases she wasn’t happy with so she opened a joint bank account for both of us and that is where I would have all of my money kept while my salary gets directly paid into her bank account. She lets me have a small allowance every month but she does increase or decrease it based on my behaviour. The allowance is not much either way it’s only enough for fuel and to just get around any real purchases I have to ask for permission for so she can top up my account.

Something else which she has done which I agree a lot with her now is I used to have a higher powered 3L sedan car which was relatively fast but was just expensive to upkeep and maintain especially in fuel. We have ended up selling the car and she has used some of that money to buy me a automatic 59 horsepower Volkswagen polo under her name which is far cheaper to upkeep, uses a lot less fuel and she said the car perfectly suits me and my masculinity especially since I don’t need to be trying to drive around fast or trying to “prove” anything to anyone.

Let me know your thoughts, thank you

So since the beginning of our marriage my wife has been controlling all of the finances and been giving me a small allowance. Something which we have decided to do was to sell my bigger truck ( ford f350) and we have used the money to save it and she spent a portion of it on getting me a much smaller less masculine car which is the Volkswagen polo. I think the one she got me only has 60 horsepower and has a very slow 0-60 I think it’s around 13 seconds. But I do appreciate it since she is the one who manages the finances around the house and would rather me drive slower and more cheaper/ economical cars than high powered trucks which just cost more. Let me know what you guys think about this in our FLR/ findom

I thought this would be an interesting topic to discuss on here with the entire community. I myself am in Gen Z and was born towards the beginning of this generation. Although chastity has people of all ages using it I have noticed that it just seems to be a lot more common within Gen Z where it does seem to be a lot more popular. Do you agree? And what are your thoughts?

I myself have been experimenting with chastity since I was 18 and now I have been locked for more than two years 24/7 with my partner holding my keys.

For a little while now I have had a baby monitor/ baby camera in my room. My mommy’s man has bought it and installed it in my room where I sleep. I wear diapers 24/7 and have been doing so due to a medical condition and also am in chastity. He knows that at night I would try to hump my pillow and plushies and does not like that I am attempting such things so he has bought and installed a baby cam where every night it overlooks my bed and room. During each morning when he wakes up he would speed run the footage of every night by 24x and see if I have tried to misbehave. I do have to say it has been very effective and he has put an end to my habit since I haven’t even tried to misbehave a single time since he installed it.

Hii, so something I find so hot and absolutely love is a big height/ size difference between me and my wife’s boyfriend/ bull. I have been married for more than 6 years and he was with my wife for about two years mainly just for sex but he has integrated very well as her boyfriend in the past year. Something which my wife teases me about so much is the actual height and size difference between me and her bf. I am 5’2 in height (156cm) and weigh approximately 55kg which is about 125lbs I think. He is 6’1 and weighs 105kg. He does go gym a lot and is a big guy especially compared to me I find it so nice but also humiliating standing next to him seeing just how much stronger and bigger he is. It also doesn’t help I am locked and he just finds it so cute how I am.

Hi, thought it would be an interesting discussion to have here with everyone. I’m sure a lot of people here are locked and some maybe even full time - 24/7 like I am. I rarely ever notice my cage much now and even when I do it’s usually just because I try to get hard and it quickly passes and I continue with my day. Last weekend me and my wife went to a restaurant and her bull/ boyfriend tagged along with us. We were eating on the table and as usual her boyfriend was getting very flirty and touchy with her. He is a very large man both physically and also down there and it has just hit me how I am sitting on the table locked and unable to do anything and he has free reign to do whatever he likes. That’s when realisation hit me that I really am just locked and it’s become completely normal for me.

Hi everyone, I wanted to ask if anybody else here has accepting friends who know you’re a little and either don’t mind or love it. I have been into diapers since I was literally a child but didn’t begin wearing until 18. I now have a wife and have been married for over 6 years. I’m so lucky to have her be so accepting of me being a little, wearing diapers and she loves being a mommy to me, it’s something I have slowly opened up to my friends about too and unfortunately I did loose a couple friendships but a lot of my friends who now know I am a little, and even wear chastity are actually super accepting of all of it, my best friend even thinks it’s cute and has given me little outfit suggestions.

I have been married to my wife for 6 years now and we have been practicing chastity ever since we first met, I have now been locked in chastity 24/7 for over two years and she has had a separate boyfriend/ bull for a couple of years. He knows and regularly sees me in chastity and loves that my own wife is inaccessible to me. Something which he loves to do to boost his own ego and my wife loves to see is give me instructions to follow which could be anything from sitting down, getting him something to doing chores/ cleaning, I must admit I really love following them too and he gets a good ego boost/ trip out of it. Something else which he has done which all of us loved was he bought me my kink3d baby cobra cage on my birthday as well as an inverted cage a couple months later.

Hi, me and my wife have went on holiday abroad recently and even though I was already locked for over two years 24/7 and have been on previous holidays locked this time it was probably the hardest. Not because it was difficult to wear the cage but the type of hotel which we went to. She booked an adults only hotel and I remained locked throughout the entire holiday. Through the night she would have me locked in my kink3d baby cobra and throughout the day she would swap me into my inverted cage (which her bull has bought me). She did that because she knew I would be looking at other half naked women and potentially try to get hard so it was only right I remained inverted. It was definitely harder than other holidays but amazing at the same time.

Thought I’d post this to everyone about my experience living in a FLR. I have been married for 6 years with my wife and been locked 24/7 for two years with a lot of wear even before then too. Something which I thought I’d share is that some people seem to think being in a FLR is a mainly sexual thing however that really is not the case and I would even say that 95% of our marriage is just casual. Ofcourse she is always in charge, and does manage me and my behaviour but in many ways it’s just causal without over sexualising anything. She does also keep parental controls on my phone and has a lot of control tactics and punishments for me since she loves being a dom but after you’re used to living this type of lifestyle you realise it’s just casual and non sexual in most aspects while it can be in other aspects.

For the past few years I have been locked in chastity and been wearing diapers. Me and my wife have progressed to this stage eventually and we both love it a lot. She has a bull who regularly sleeps with her and sees her, something which I thought of doing and both my wife and her bull also support is getting a “cuck” tattoo somewhere hidden so it will only be visible during diaper changes. As for what exact design or tattoo we still don’t currently know but something to do which chastity, diapers or even just the word “cuck” would be nice.

Let me know your thoughts, I would be pleased to hear them.

The philosophy that me and my wife had throughout our couple years of marriage is that I can’t possibly crave pussy if I never had it. When we met I was (and still am) a virgin while she wasn’t and had always been more of a dom. She and I absolutely love eachother and I have been in chastity for the past few years now. We have a very amazing marriage and as for the pleasure side of things she has a separate man for that while I would get an occasional unlock if I was on good behaviour.

Would love to hear your thoughts

I have been locked 24/7 for years by my wife and been playing which chastity ever since my teenage years. I have spent a decent portion of my university studies locked and now I am a mechanical engineer and I would say I’m pretty well experienced in different CAD software. Going a little bit off topic but my full time job is I have been in a graduate engineering position for a couple years for a very well known car manufacturer and I design and test regular and performance parts for various lines of cars.

I have had this thought for a bit and wondered how it would be good to take on this passion project where I would love to create a cage which is relatively cost effective, extremely comfortable for everyone (would include various sizes), would not bulge in the pants giving everyone confidence to wear their cage out, making it really cute and durable too. This is something I am really passionate about and would love to do as a passion.

Although I am saying this long before I can even begin designing anything I have to interview at least 50-200 locked people of all ages, sizes and backgrounds to know exactly what they need and want that way I can try to create the best possible cage for everybody. I really love this community and the people and would love to be able to contribute by making something which a lot of people want to be locked in and locked for longer periods of time.

Also another disclaimer I don’t intend on profiting off this project or product which I would like to make for the community. This is a cage I would like to make for everyone to be easily accessible and comfortable.

Let me know your thoughts and thanks!!

Hii everyone, thought I’d post this to give you a good idea on something you could do as a little. I have a cg who is my wife and we are massively into age play and having me be as close to a little/ baby as possible. Something which me and her love to do is to have days/ numerous days where I am a 24/7 baby, and what I mean is we try to have me as close to a little as possible with many daytime naps, 24/7 diapers which I already wear regardless, eating childish/ baby food and drinking milk, having lots of play sessions and watching exclusively baby rated movies on Disney+. The longest we have kept it up for now is three days and she always rewards me if I can go longer and be a little since we both love it.

In our marriage which started off as a FLR my wife has been keeping me locked since the start and years later we got married. I don’t know where she found this but one day about a year ago she recommended we try having her set up parental controls on my phone which the idea was it will keep her in check on what exactly i am always doing on my phone, staying safe on the internet, cutting out bad habits and giving her the overall power to allow/ deny me privileges on the internet. We have kidslox installed on my phone and it’s absolutely great in both of our opinions. I couldn’t possibly ever hide anything from her, she has an oversight of what all the apps I’ve used and for how long, she has blocked and restricted certain apps and even set time limits for me for apps and my device on certain days. We think it’s so great because she also uses it as a reward/ punishment tool where if I misbehave she would usually set a 3 hour daily screen time limit or even less which would give me incentives to be more behaved.

Let me know what you think of parental controls in a FLR?