55 [M4F] #Minnesota
I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.
D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person. Im equally as cruel as I am tender and work with intention and enthusiasm to meet your needs as you meet mine.
Im particularly fond of impact play and degradation (I adore face slapping and verbal abuse), and enjoy orgasm control, face fucking, light bondage, water sports, free use, cnc, anal, and role play.
I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well and would love to hear your ideas and interests.
I’m also interested in bringing in TPE elements like clothing, fitness, and diet control, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub.
I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always.
Not into DDLG or brat taming.
I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.
I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.
I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.
I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. And although I have an age gap kink I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 23 or over 36 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.
I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you would have to relocate.
Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.
If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.