u/doandroidsdreamx

55 [M4F] #Minnesota

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person. Im equally as cruel as I am tender and work with intention and enthusiasm to meet your needs as you meet mine.

Im particularly fond of impact play and degradation (I adore face slapping and verbal abuse), and enjoy orgasm control, face fucking, light bondage, water sports, free use, cnc, anal, and role play.
I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well and would love to hear your ideas and interests.
I’m also interested in bringing in TPE elements like clothing, fitness, and diet control, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub.
I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always.
Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. And although I have an age gap kink I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 23 or over 36 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you would have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 17 hours ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person. Im equally as cruel as I am tender and work with intention and enthusiasm to meet your needs as you meet mine.

Im particularly fond of impact play and degradation (I adore face slapping and verbal abuse), and enjoy orgasm control, face fucking, light bondage, water sports, free use, cnc, anal, and role play.
I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well and would love to hear your ideas and interests.
I’m also interested in bringing in TPE elements like clothing, fitness, and diet control, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub.
I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always.
Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. And although I have an age gap kink I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 23 or over 36 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you would have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 20 hours ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Sadistic dom looking for a dumb, fit slut for long term abuse

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 2 days ago

55 [M4F] #StCloud,MN - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 2 days ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 3 days ago
▲ 1 r/MN4r

[M4F] Sadistic dom looking for masochist sub

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 3 days ago

55 M4F] #Minnesota - When I break into you is the pain something new

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 3 days ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 5 days ago

My sub needs to be punished

So my sub did something bad enough that deserves a special kind of punishment. I’m not going to go into what she did, but let’s just say any of my usual punishments won’t suffice. I thought it would be interesting to see what you all might come up with. She is a pain slut and loves degradation, so pain might not be the best punishment, unless you can think of something extra brutal. Looking forward to your ideas!

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 8 days ago

55 [M4F] #StCloud,MN - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 9 days ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 9 days ago
▲ 1 r/MN4r

55 [M4F] #StCloud - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a FEMALE submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 9 days ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - Abuse is my love language

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 10 days ago
▲ 1 r/MN4r

Abuse is my love language

This ad is M4F.

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a female submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.
My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.
Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

I am new to long term dom/sub dynamics as an integral part of a relationship. I’ve played a lot in the past, but my kink identity didn’t crystallize for me until more recently. I am deeply interested in the complex dynamics involved in s/m relationships and find that I resonate at a core level with women who identify as submissive masochists. And while I am new to this concept as a lifestyle I do take it very seriously and am ready to learn and grow with the right person. I’m excited to build a dynamic with someone as equally fun and depraved as I am, a dynamic built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — so we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m also single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn. I own my own home and live alone.

I am disciplined when it comes to fitness and I am looking for a submissive who is also in shape or highly motivated to get in shape. I also have an age gap kink but I am still looking for someone with a bit of life experience. If you’re under 25 im probably not going to be interested, but if you really resonate with my post feel free to write.

I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. But if you are interested and far away you will have to relocate.

Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 10 days ago

55 [M4F] #StCloud,MN - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).

I enjoy all kinds of movies. I have a particular fondness for classic Hollywood era films and film noir. I love the aesthetic of black and white film. Im very interested in studying narrative and storytelling so I tend to watch a lot of movies that I can learn from. Sci-fi, film noir, and psychological thrillers are my favorite genres.

I’m single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn, and I own my own home and live alone.

I am looking for a submissive who is 23 or older and in shape. I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 12 days ago
▲ 0 r/MN4r

55 [M4F] #StCloud - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).

I enjoy all kinds of movies. I have a particular fondness for classic Hollywood era films and film noir. I love the aesthetic of black and white film. Im very interested in studying narrative and storytelling so I tend to watch a lot of movies that I can learn from. Sci-fi, film noir, and psychological thrillers are my favorite genres.

I’m single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn, and I own my own home and live alone.

I am looking for a submissive who is 23 or over and in shape. I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 12 days ago

55 [M4F] #Minnesota - When I break into you is the pain something new

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a female submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).

I enjoy all kinds of movies. I have a particular fondness for classic Hollywood era films and film noir. I love the aesthetic of black and white film. Im very interested in studying narrative and storytelling so I tend to watch a lot of movies that I can learn from. Sci-fi, film noir, and psychological thrillers are my favorite genres.

I’m single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn, and I own my own home and live alone.

I am looking for a submissive who is over the age of 21 and in shape. I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 13 days ago
▲ 0 r/MN4r

When I break into you is the pain something new

I am a (male) sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a female submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).

I enjoy all kinds of movies. I have a particular fondness for classic Hollywood era films and film noir. I love the aesthetic of black and white film. Im very interested in studying narrative and storytelling so I tend to watch a lot of movies that I can learn from. Sci-fi, film noir, and psychological thrillers are my favorite genres.

I’m single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn, and I own my own home and live alone.

I am looking for a submissive who is over the age of 23 and in shape. I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 15 days ago

55 [M4F] #StCloud,MN - Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyny, free use, cnc, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).

I enjoy all kinds of movies. I have a particular fondness for classic Hollywood era films and film noir. I love the aesthetic of black and white film. Im very interested in studying narrative and storytelling so I tend to watch a lot of movies that I can learn from. Sci-fi, film noir, and psychological thrillers are my favorite genres.

I’m single, a devoted cat dad with no human spawn, and I own my own home and live alone.

I am looking for a submissive who is over the age of 23 and in shape. I prefer meeting someone located in the state of Minnesota. Please be sure you know what your wants and needs are, your boundaries and limitations, and are able to communicate that. I place a high value on emotional intelligence, accountability, and the ability to communicate honestly and openly.

If you are interested please tell me a bit about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

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u/doandroidsdreamx — 15 days ago