u/pikachukitten

Between my HusDom and me, while I have the higher kink drive, he has a higher libido. We’ve found a lot of ways to meet in the middle by featuring lighter kinky elements like dirty talk, rougher handling, etc., in our intimacy, but sometimes I wish we could incorporate more kinky things.

Yesterday, HusDom surprised me by handing me his belt and spontaneously ordering me to go upstairs. Not quite sure what was happening, I obeyed and kneeled while waiting for him, holding the belt out. When he came up, he grabbed a leather cuff set that we bought on Valentines but haven’t used all that much, and proceeded to cuff me into a forced, “face down, ass up” position. From there, we proceeded to have an impact session with the belt with him mostly striking my ass and back upper legs. Then, he reclipped the cuffs so I was forced to stay kneeling, and I proceeded to service his cock until he came in my mouth.

I think he sensed that I was wanting a bit more and I love that he just went for it. It’s things like this where I’m just like, “How did I get so lucky??”

I wonder if other subs feel like this, but in my vanilla life I generally have a really have a hard time accepting praise or compliments, despite having a praise kink.

It hits differently when it comes from my husband / Dom, whether in a vanilla or kink context (and I do think that the presence of our dynamic has helped me accept and appreciate his praise a lot more).

Today, I had to take care of some regular life stuff (calling a government department to fix an issue). It got resolved and when I told him about how I handled it (because ofc I also have issues with boundaries and internalizing other people’s mistakes as my own and this time I didn’t play it like that) he just texted back “I’m so proud of you for telling them to just fix it”.

🥰🫠🫠🫠

Anyone else out there with weird praise issues haha?