25 [M4M] #CulverCity - Looking for new friends (or more with the right person) :)

Hey everyone, I’m a 25 year old guy still somewhat new to LA (been here less than a year) and would love to try to me more social and make friends with people (and see if it goes further with the right person) :)

A bit about me: I’m quite a bit nerdy, neurodivergent, currently in graduate school for urban planning, and some of my interests/hobbies are geography, geology, plants, transit, photography, hiking, Star Wars, cartoons, video games (deltarune is my favorite currently), instrumental music, etc.

I’m not the greatest with being social (I’m typically more of a homebody/quiet setting enjoyer), but would like to try branching out a bit and being more social.

For compatibility, I’m 6’2, have quite a bit of body hair, a little bit of a belly, and think I’m probably verse (but only have experience topping). I’d still love to chat and be friends even if you wouldn’t be interested in things going further though!

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 11 days ago

25m trying to be more social and make new friends :)

Hey everyone, I’m a 25 year old guy still somewhat new to LA (been here less than a year) and would love to try to me more social and make friends with people (and see if it goes further maybe with the right person).

A bit about me: I’m quite a bit nerdy, neurodivergent, currently in graduate school for urban planning, and some of my interests/hobbies are geography, geology, plants, transit, photography, hiking, Star Wars, cartoons, video games (deltarune is my favorite currently), instrumental music, etc.

I’m not the greatest with being social (I’m typically more of a homebody/quiet setting enjoyer), but would like to try branching out a bit and being more social. I’m not naturally great with going out places, but I’d love to try doing that with someone since doing it alone is way harder 😅

Please reach out if you’d like to chat and/or hang out! :)

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 13 days ago

25m looking to make new friends :)

Hey everyone, I’m a 25 year old guy still somewhat new to LA (been here less than a year) and would love to try to me more social and make friends with people (and see if it goes further maybe with the right person).

A bit about me: I’m quite a bit nerdy, neurodivergent, currently in graduate school for urban planning, and some of my interests/hobbies are geography, geology, plants, transit, photography, hiking, Star Wars, cartoons, video games (deltarune is my favorite currently), instrumental music, etc.

I’m not the greatest with being social (I’m typically more of a homebody/quiet setting enjoyer), but would like to try branching out a bit and being more social.

Please reach out if you’d like to chat and/or hang out! :)

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 24 days ago

Best places/methods to meet gay friends (and potential bfs)?

Hi everyone, I’m a 25 year old guy still somewhat new to LA. I’ve struggled a lot with meeting/connecting with guys (not just here tbh), so was wondering if anyone has advice on what places/activities have you all had luck finding other gay guys to be friends with or date?

I’m neurodivergent so am not the best in settings like bars or clubs, but I really want to try to be more social and meet people because loneliness sucks :(

For reference, my typical interests are a bunch of nerdy science topics (geology, astronomy, botany, geography, etc), certain fandoms, video games, photography, hiking, and just being silly with people I’m comfortable with no matter the activity :)

Any advice would be appreciated!

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 28 days ago

First experience being submissive in bed

I’ve thought of myself as a top for most of my life, but recently that’s changed. I’ve been so turned on at the idea of bottoming and making a man feel good by being inside me 😅

The other day I got the closest I have so far to trying that. I was cuddling a guy I met online and he made me flip over and grinded his cock on my ass while we were both naked. He was slightly pushing his cock into my hole to tease me but didn’t fully go in as I had told him I wasn’t quite ready. Then we changed positions and I grinded on his cock until he came.

I think I can safely say I’m at least verse now because that experience turned me on so much. I’m still super nervous to try bottoming but fuck, I know I need it and I want to try so badly now 🤤

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

First experience being submissive in bed

I’ve thought of myself as a top for most of my life, but recently that’s changed. I’ve been so turned on at the idea of bottoming and making a man feel good by being inside me 😅

The other day I got the closest I have so far to trying that. I was cuddling a guy I met online and he made me flip over and grinded his cock on my ass while we were both naked. He was slightly pushing his cock into my hole to tease me but didn’t fully go in as I had told him I wasn’t quite ready. Then we changed positions and I grinded on his cock until he came.

I think I can safely say I’m at least verse now because that experience turned me on so much. I’m still super nervous to try bottoming but fuck, I know I need it and I want to try so badly now 🤤

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Are you guys only into exclusive tops/bottoms?

Hey everyone, for the most part I’ve only topped for all my sexual experience and thought I only wanted to do that. Recently though, I’ve been feeling like I want to bottom really badly, but also want to top still. So I guess depending on how bottoming actually goes, I’d say I’m verse.

This has been a bit stressful for me since I don’t really know how to balance those desires and I’m worried that a lot of tops and bottoms only want guys who exclusively bottom or top. Do you guys like exclusive tops/bottoms only? I’m worried I’ll be limiting my options by being into both :/

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Unsure how to combat overthinking and anxiety surrounding being vulnerable sexually

Hi everyone! I’m a 25 year old AuDHD gay guy who’s never really had experience bottoming (except for one time that was horrible in so many ways). I’ve primarily topped, but this week for some reason I’ve just been wanting to try bottoming and I can’t get it out of my head.

But at the same time, it makes me so nervous and anxious, partially because I’m just a naturally anxious person and partially because of the one pervious experience making it really hard to be vulnerable and trust people in that sort of situation.

I’ve been sitting in bed unable to sleep (it’s 4 am right now), and this has happened every single day this week. I don’t know what I should do, any advice would be appreciated so much :(

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago
▲ 10 r/GaySex

Unsure how to combat overthinking and anxiety surrounding being vulnerable sexually

Hi everyone! I’m a 25 year old guy who’s never really had experience bottoming (except for one time that was horrible in so many ways). I’ve primarily topped, but this week for some reason I’ve just been wanting to try bottoming and I can’t get it out of my head.

But at the same time, it makes me so nervous and anxious, partially because I’m just a naturally anxious person and partially because of the one pervious experience making it really hard to be vulnerable and trust people in that sort of situation.

I’ve been sitting in bed unable to sleep (it’s 4 am right now), and this has happened every single day this week. I don’t know what I should do, any advice would be appreciated so much :(

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

25M Anyone here into hairy bottoms? (SC: pbp567)

25m tall hairy guy here. I’ve only ever really topped, but recently I feel like I’m starting to want to take and please cock deep inside me. I’d love talking to a guy who can help me learn to be more sub :)

Please dm and help me learn to love taking cock 🫣

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

25m anyone here into hairy bottoms?

25m tall hairy guy here. I’ve only ever really topped, but recently I feel like I’m starting to want to take and please cock deep inside me. I’d love talking to a guy who can help me learn to be more sub :)

Please dm and help me learn to love taking cock 🫣

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Curiosity for bottoming led me to gape my hole with a toy

Outside of one time when I was tipsy, I’ve only ever been a top. My body is built that way stereotypically too, since I’m tall, hairy, and have a dad bod I would say. Recently though, I’ve been starting to crave dick in me so bad. That desire got so strong yesterday that I used a toy to fuck myself for the first time and it was so good 🤤.

I’ve never felt anything hit my prostate like that before, after a bit of that it made me start leaking my cum. Then I put it all the way in and just left it there while I jerked myself off. My ass was gaping so much when I was done and now I’m craving the real thing even more. Hopefully sometime soon I’ll be able to try a real dick inside me and have it breed me deep 😅.

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Curiosity for bottoming led me to gape my hole with a toy

Outside of one time when I was tipsy, I’ve only ever been a top. My body is built that way stereotypically too, since I’m tall, hairy, and have a dad bod I would say. Recently though, I’ve been starting to crave dick in me so bad. That desire got so strong yesterday that I used a toy to fuck myself for the first time and it was so good 🤤.

I’ve never felt anything hit my prostate like that before, after a bit of that it made me start leaking my cum. Then I put it all the way in and just left it there while I jerked myself off. My ass was gaping so much when I was done and now I’m craving the real thing even more. Hopefully sometime soon I’ll be able to try a real dick inside me and have it breed me deep 😅.

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Desire to explore bottoming but I have the wrong body type (advice appreciated)

So I’ve been a top for the vast majority of my sexual experiences (bottomed only once and it sucked for a few reasons), but recently I’ve been getting really turned on by the idea of taking cock inside me.

The problem is my body type is completely opposite what most people seem to be into in terms of bottoms. Specifically, I’m tall, hairy everywhere, hairier on the butt, and not super skinny (I have a bit of a belly/dad bod physique).

I don’t really know how to get started with experimenting since it feels like my body is just not built for being a bottom. That feeling is made stronger because I definitely still want to top too, and I don’t really know how to balance that with trying out bottoming at this stage.

Have any bottoms/verse guys here felt similarly or gone through a similar experience? And if so, what helped you figure out how to explore bottoming in spite of that? And for tops, are any of you guys into guys with the sort of physique I have or primarily only for twinks or something similar? Any advice would be appreciated!

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/GaySex

In need of advice for trying to bottom

Hi everyone, I’ve been overthinking a lot about bottoming and think it would be helpful to get some advice. Specifically, I have only ever bottomed once in my life, I was tipsy and he just sucked and didn’t listen to me telling him to go slower. Other than that, I’ve only topped.

I’ve been getting really interested in the idea of trying bottoming again, but there are a lot of aspects that make me really nervous and make me want to give up.

First, I have no idea what I’d be doing and the whole process of cleaning and prep stuff is a bit overwhelming.

Second, I have a really hard time feeling comfortable with someone for sex, even for non-anal stuff. I don’t really know how I’ll ever get myself to be in the right state of mind and comfortable with someone to be vulnerable like that, especially after how my first experience went. This is made even harder because I’m neurodivergent.

Third, my body type is like the complete opposite of the stereotypical bottom. Tall, body hair, pretty thick hair down there, bit of a dad bod so to speak. I know that there are a lot of bottoms with this body type but it feels weird to me for some reason and it makes it harder to get myself to try.

Fourth, I’m really into the idea of breeding, but get really anxious about STI risks from that. I don’t really know how to approach this in a way that keeps myself healthy, especially when I have a hard time trusting someone and being comfortable to begin with.

If anyone has any advice for any of these issues, I’d really appreciate hearing it! Not really sure where else to as honestly and I’m getting really frustrated with myself :/

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Helping “straight” guys learn

Helping straight/curious guys learn how much they like dick is always so fun for me. Talking to them and slowly getting them more and more into it before they finally go through with it is such a big turn on. There’s just something about them going from “I’m curious but I’ve only ever been with and/or thought about girls” to “I need your hairy cock in me” that gets me going 😅

It’s especially hot when it’s a guy who’s shorter and built like a twink, the contrast between that and my taller/hairy body type makes it even better. Do any of you all have similar experiences?

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

25m 6’2 hairy white guy looking for chats and more

Open for anything depending on how we vibe. Around my age is preferred but not required. Dm me :)

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Can’t get enough of breeding guys raw

I get so turned on from cumming inside guys and trying to get them pregnant in defiance of biology. Even better if it’s a twink since I’m hairy/have a dad bod, pressing my hairy body on his smooth body while I flood his guts with my dna is so addictive. Really looking forward to the next time 😅

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

Can’t get enough of breeding guys

I get so turned on from cumming inside guys and trying to get them pregnant in defiance of biology. Even better if it’s a twink since I’m hairy/have a dad bod, pressing my hairy body on his smooth body while I flood his guts with my dna is so addictive. Really looking forward to the next time 😅

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago

25m 6’2 hairy white guy looking for chats (SC: pbp567)

Any type of chats would be great! Somewhat around my age would be best, but anyone is welcome to dm.

reddit.com
u/random5835 — 1 month ago