u/x2karbon

I have a secret thing for girls with a bit of androgyny to them, whether in looks or attitude. Think Joan Jett, Pink, or Hillary Swank when she is looking leaner and a bit less soft. It is something of an irony, because I am very much a heterosexual Alpha-male type who loves lush, feminine women and all of their delicious curves and ages.

Although, there is something so tempting about an athletic, almost boyish female with slim hips, firm and lithe belly, and long, lanky limbs. My own personal nod to homo-eroticism, I suppose, but I do not desire men in this way, although I really like girls who are a bit queer (and I mean that in the best possible way). I think it is the contrast of hardness with softness, a touch of butch amid the girlishness like a sharp spiciness accompanying sweetness, they do make me hungry, oh yes, they certainly do, the way I savor chocolate with a dash of chili powder.

I also am drawn to them because I do like to play rough. The feeling of a woman struggling against me arouses me ferociously; the way the thrashing of a prey animal stimulates a predator. Of course, only if that is what she wants, because I might be a bit of a beast, but I do try not to be a bastard and I am generally successful. But that is what I want to find, someone who has the spine to struggle, fight back against me, who enjoys resisting me until I have to overwhelm her, then enjoys the act of surrendering to me even more.

I have exceptionally strong, sensitive hands, so it gives me great pleasure to grip, squeeze, and pinch smooth, supple flesh. My palms ache at the idea of doing so. Spanking and smacking are other things I enjoy very much, and I love knowing that I have left vivid reminders of my attentions on the secret places beneath a woman's clothing. Ones only she knows about, but which remind her of their presence with every movement.

I also have a particular fondness for biting, especially on a woman's thighs, hips, legs, and ass. My teeth and jaws are very strong, sharp, and sensitive, and the feel and taste of skin between my teeth is a potent aphrodisiac to me. Literally, I feel like a wolf at a feast when I do that.

So, this is what I seek, someone young enough that she is eager to learn some of the many wicked things I can impart, but mature enough to understand that we both have lives apart from each other and desire to keep that separate from one another. Someone who will share time with me when I can come to her, who will allow me the opportunity to feed the appetites that the darker aspects of my nature give rise to, and who will draw enjoyment from that sort of interaction with me. Almost needless to say (but not quite), she should be intelligent, the brighter the better, because I love clever brains and smart girls of all sorts are the only ones I can connect with.

**As for me,** I am highly intelligent, have a very good (if warped) sense of humor, creative, witty, and generally very interesting. I am 6', medium built, athletic, non-smoker, well educated and well traveled.

Whoever might answer this post should be similar to me in at least some respects, particularly with regard to having a good brain and taking care of herself physically, as a sound mind and body go hand in hand for me. Beyond that, there is not much more to say. Well, there is, but I will keep that for if and when I get to know someone. I am not averse to e-mailing/chatting online until we both get comfortable with one another, given what I am looking for. Just be straightforward and open-minded above all else. Please be kind enough to send a picture in your reply.

One last thing that needs to be said: Even if 50 Shades of Grey is what inspired you to seek out this sort of interaction, please understand that it is decidedly not an accurate or realistic representation of healthy or realistic kink relationships. So, let's play rough, shall we. And yes, you may definitely hit me back if you are so inclined. All the more fun if you are!

You clicked on this post because you are curious. There is a good chance this post will leave you craving, much in the same way I crave. You should really respond to me to put me to test…

1. I will make it known that I am going down on you because I want to be between your legs. You will hear sounds from me like "mmmmm" and "ahhhhhh" and "you taste so good" to let you know I am enjoying the act.
2. I will take it slowly with my tongue, making the strokes slow and short at first, and gradually making them longer as I encircle your labia.
3. I will use a firm tongue with light pressure, allowing the tip and edge to brush up against places as my tongue moves past.
4. I will use my fingers to stimulate places while my tongue is otherwise occupied. They will caress your labia and lips, touch you from the inside, find your G-spot and return to it frequently, and they will remember places you like so my tongue can visit them.
5. I will spread your lips with my fingers to allow my tongue better access to your clit, and so the sensation of warm tongue can alternate with cool air to increase the sensations and stimulation.
6. I will massage you while I go down on you. My hands will caress your hips, your back, your stomach, your thighs, whatever they can reach. They will also hold you firm so I can focus on one spot to heighten stimulation. If you are mounted on my face, they will reach up to massage your breasts.
7. I will engage in very light anal play while I go down on you. Multiple orgasms are best achieved through multiple stimulation. I will explore and lightly play with your rosebud, and if you are receptive to the sensations I may engage in other forms of play. Not everyone is into it, so I will refrain if you ask me not to when I start.
8. I will penetrate you with my tongue, so you may feel its texture on your outer walls, and so that I may taste of your juices. My tongue will go into you as deep as I can go.
9. I will close your outer lips when your inner lips are swollen with arousal, causing them to pucker up. I will lick you lips around the edges. I will release them, lick the places in between them, and then close them again.
10. I will suck on your clit. When your clit is swollen, I will take it between my lips and suck on it to give you different sensations of pleasure. I will do so slowly and gently, and let the tip of my tongue touch your clit's tip. I will listen and feel for your reaction so I know if I should suck it harder, or return to using my tongue.

About me:

\* Height - 6'

\* Build - Medium built

\* Weight - 195 lbs

You know what a conventional massage is, correct? Well, picture that for a start and let's start mid-massage then...

As I massage and caress down the front of your body, your arm, breasts, abdominal, legs, and toes, your expectation heightens, each stroke continues to create an ever building pleasure in you, that causes your quiet moans, to escalate and your breathing to become much heavier. No part of your body will escape my attention. Tantric massage is a sacred ceremony, where the mind, body and energy becomes one, through erotic stimulation, teasing, touch manipulation leading to sweet orgasmic bliss. I will move back to your thighs. You'll be in paradise as my hands and fingers knead and massage your inner leg and in the region of your pelvic area. The sensations will half tickle you, as I run my fingers, teasing and slightly brushing your........... you'll be in heaven.

This session will make you feel as if you are in a trance, physical boundaries dissolve, your worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including particularly sensitive areas.

As my hands masterfully and methodically work their way to your lower back and tail bone area, you'll feel a heighten sensation coupled with a delightful tingle that stirs your entire body into a wonderful place of ecstasy. I'll slowly massage your entire body, each stroke creates an ever building pleasure in you that causes your breathing to become heavier and quicker. My hands will move lower to massage and explore the globes of your rounded buttocks. As they do, you'll find yourself fighting not to allow your hips to rise up into my touch slowly gyrating into the rhythm of my massage strokes. I'll continue this motion, caressing your inner thigh, the back of your knee, your calf, teasing you as my hands glides the entire length of your body. At this time you will not be able to stop yourself and will slightly lift your round buttocks and begin to make a small circular motion. I'll whisper to you "Not Yet" and conclude this part of our session at the end of your feet and I'll turn you over. You'll now feel yourself longing for that ultimate conclusion, that "magic" moment. I will then move to and focus on your most intimate areas where you yearn to be touched, bringing you to an orgasmic state.

Please do not be shy if you are older or younger. Please tell me a bit about you and lets get this started..

\~ I know my situation isn't that unique as I've met people in the past that were in identical situations.

See if this sounds familiar to you. You are attached, whether married or a long term relationship and for the most part things are fine. For whatever reason the physical side of your relationship has diminished from what it used to be. You find yourself craving some of the attention you used to get from your significant other. Not just sex, although that may be a large part of it, but the phone calls, text message, notes, etc. from him letting you know he was thinking of you. The butterflies or excitement waiting to see that other person has diminished as well.

Perhaps like I've done before, you've confided in a friend(s) and their only advice is for you to leave. But what they may not understand is leaving isn't really an option. Maybe there are financial reasons or even children involved and leaving just simply isn't an option.

So what do you do? Do you stay in the relationship because of those reasons I mentioned above and more? Odds are yes, even though you'd be unhappy.

Or do you do what some people would think is unthinkable and find someone that can help you fill that void you have? There is always the concern then of discretion then as you don't want to destroy the relationship you're in. But what if you could find someone that was attached themselves, had no intention of leaving his relationship for various reasons but was like you, longed to feel those butterflies and get back that lost part of your life that you miss.

Well, that someone is me. I am married with one child and have no intention of leaving my relationship or in any way destroying someone else's relationship. Intimacy and more is nearly completely void in my relationship. I long for someone to send me text messages letting me know they are thinking of me or how much they look forward to the next time we get to see each other. I would love to find someone to have that 'special' relationship that is just between the two of us where discretion and boundaries are important.

I don't smoke, am a social drinker and take good care of my body. I enjoy a variety of things in life and always open to learning and trying new things.

If I've piqued your curiosity, feel free to write. I do look forward to hearing from you!

I am 45, 6' tall, medium built, dd free, 195 lbs. \~

We've just gotten back, I've just locked the door behind us. Already I've pushed your back against it, my hand firm on your shoulder. You struggle for a moment, out of habit, out of sassiness, and I step in even closer, my other hand grabbing your chin. "Weren't you, young lady?"

You can tell by my tone that I mean business, but you think you might be able to talk your way out of it. "Come on, you know I didn't mean anything by..."

I put my index finger over your lips. "Shhhh. You know it's important to daddy that you behave yourself."

I trace your lips with my thumb, the rest of the hand holding your chin. I've previously kissed off all of your lipstick in the cab. "Shhhh. You're going to have to be a good girl now and listen. Here, suck your daddy's thumb while you listen." My thumb slips between your lips, and you open your mouth just a little bit. I smile at your resistance. "You can do better than that, little beauty."

Eyes downcast and submissive, you take my thumb in your mouth and softly suck. You feel both the deep, fleeting embarrassment at being treated like a petulant child, and also something else. You feel that strange mixture of safety and helplessness that come from surrendering control of yourself to your loving and stern daddy.

"That's my good girl. Now listen: it's very important to daddy that you behave yourself when we're out and about. Now you know that I'll never stop you from having fun or acting a little wildly; but you also know that I have to punish you for misbehaving when you get home. Because daddy has to teach you what happens to naughty girls. You know that, don't you princess?"

Still sucking my thumb, you know that your best bet is to just nod. You now know that you've got some discipline coming, and your dominant concern is not making it worse.

"Now pull up your little dress with both hands so daddy can see if you're wearing those panties I picked out for you yesterday."

The blush on your little cheeks deepens even more as you realize your mistake... you're wearing the wrong panties! As you coyly raise the hem of your dress higher and higher, all you can do is hope I've forgotten which pair I told you to wear for me.

But of course I remember. And you're going to have a hard time over my knee tonight, young lady...

I'm looking for a woman who's a little girl on the inside, whatever her age on the outside. I'm just a man who'll spank you when you need a spanking, and let you sit on my lap and feel my arms around you when you're a good girl. Are you looking for your stern and loving daddy?

About me:

Height - 6' \\Build - Medium built \\Weight - 195 lbs Dark Brown eyes

~ I know my situation isn't that unique as I've met people in the past that were in identical situations.

See if this sounds familiar to you. You are attached, whether married or a long term relationship and for the most part things are fine. For whatever reason the physical side of your relationship has diminished from what it used to be. You find yourself craving some of the attention you used to get from your significant other. Not just sex, although that may be a large part of it, but the phone calls, text message, notes, etc. from him letting you know he was thinking of you. The butterflies or excitement waiting to see that other person has diminished as well.

Perhaps like I've done before, you've confided in a friend(s) and their only advice is for you to leave. But what they may not understand is leaving isn't really an option. Maybe there are financial reasons or even children involved and leaving just simply isn't an option.

So what do you do? Do you stay in the relationship because of those reasons I mentioned above and more? Odds are yes, even though you'd be unhappy.

Or do you do what some people would think is unthinkable and find someone that can help you fill that void you have? There is always the concern then of discretion then as you don't want to destroy the relationship you're in. But what if you could find someone that was attached themselves, had no intention of leaving his relationship for various reasons but was like you, longed to feel those butterflies and get back that lost part of your life that you miss.

Well, that someone is me. I am married with one child and have no intention of leaving my relationship or in any way destroying someone else's relationship. Intimacy and more is nearly completely void in my relationship. I long for someone to send me text messages letting me know they are thinking of me or how much they look forward to the next time we get to see each other. I would love to find someone to have that 'special' relationship that is just between the two of us where discretion and boundaries are important.

I don't smoke, am a social drinker and take good care of my body. I enjoy a variety of things in life and always open to learning and trying new things.

If I've piqued your curiosity, feel free to write. I do look forward to hearing from you!

I am 45, 6' tall, medium built, dd free, 195 lbs. ~

You know what a conventional massage is, correct? Well, picture that for a start and let's start mid-massage then...

As I massage and caress down the front of your body, your arm, breasts, abdominal, legs, and toes, your expectation heightens, each stroke continues to create an ever building pleasure in you, that causes your quiet moans, to escalate and your breathing to become much heavier. No part of your body will escape my attention. Tantric massage is a sacred ceremony, where the mind, body and energy becomes one, through erotic stimulation, teasing, touch manipulation leading to sweet orgasmic bliss. I will move back to your thighs. You'll be in paradise as my hands and fingers knead and massage your inner leg and in the region of your pelvic area. The sensations will half tickle you, as I run my fingers, teasing and slightly brushing your........... you'll be in heaven.

This session will make you feel as if you are in a trance, physical boundaries dissolve, your worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including particularly sensitive areas.

As my hands masterfully and methodically work their way to your lower back and tail bone area, you'll feel a heighten sensation coupled with a delightful tingle that stirs your entire body into a wonderful place of ecstasy. I'll slowly massage your entire body, each stroke creates an ever building pleasure in you that causes your breathing to become heavier and quicker. My hands will move lower to massage and explore the globes of your rounded buttocks. As they do, you'll find yourself fighting not to allow your hips to rise up into my touch slowly gyrating into the rhythm of my massage strokes. I'll continue this motion, caressing your inner thigh, the back of your knee, your calf, teasing you as my hands glides the entire length of your body. At this time you will not be able to stop yourself and will slightly lift your round buttocks and begin to make a small circular motion. I'll whisper to you "Not Yet" and conclude this part of our session at the end of your feet and I'll turn you over. You'll now feel yourself longing for that ultimate conclusion, that "magic" moment. I will then move to and focus on your most intimate areas where you yearn to be touched, bringing you to an orgasmic state.

Please do not be shy if you are older or younger. Please tell me a bit about you and lets get this started..

I have a secret thing for girls with a bit of androgyny to them, whether in looks or attitude. Think Joan Jett, Pink, or Hillary Swank when she is looking leaner and a bit less soft. It is something of an irony, because I am very much a heterosexual Alpha-male type who loves lush, feminine women and all of their delicious curves and ages.

Although, there is something so tempting about an athletic, almost boyish female with slim hips, firm and lithe belly, and long, lanky limbs. My own personal nod to homo-eroticism, I suppose, but I do not desire men in this way, although I really like girls who are a bit queer (and I mean that in the best possible way). I think it is the contrast of hardness with softness, a touch of butch amid the girlishness like a sharp spiciness accompanying sweetness, they do make me hungry, oh yes, they certainly do, the way I savor chocolate with a dash of chili powder.

I also am drawn to them because I do like to play rough. The feeling of a woman struggling against me arouses me ferociously; the way the thrashing of a prey animal stimulates a predator. Of course, only if that is what she wants, because I might be a bit of a beast, but I do try not to be a bastard and I am generally successful. But that is what I want to find, someone who has the spine to struggle, fight back against me, who enjoys resisting me until I have to overwhelm her, then enjoys the act of surrendering to me even more.

I have exceptionally strong, sensitive hands, so it gives me great pleasure to grip, squeeze, and pinch smooth, supple flesh. My palms ache at the idea of doing so. Spanking and smacking are other things I enjoy very much, and I love knowing that I have left vivid reminders of my attentions on the secret places beneath a woman's clothing. Ones only she knows about, but which remind her of their presence with every movement.

I also have a particular fondness for biting, especially on a woman's thighs, hips, legs, and ass. My teeth and jaws are very strong, sharp, and sensitive, and the feel and taste of skin between my teeth is a potent aphrodisiac to me. Literally, I feel like a wolf at a feast when I do that.

So, this is what I seek, someone young enough that she is eager to learn some of the many wicked things I can impart, but mature enough to understand that we both have lives apart from each other and desire to keep that separate from one another. Someone who will share time with me when I can come to her, who will allow me the opportunity to feed the appetites that the darker aspects of my nature give rise to, and who will draw enjoyment from that sort of interaction with me. Almost needless to say (but not quite), she should be intelligent, the brighter the better, because I love clever brains and smart girls of all sorts are the only ones I can connect with.

As for me, I am highly intelligent, have a very good (if warped) sense of humor, creative, witty, and generally very interesting. I am 6', medium built, athletic, non-smoker, well educated and well traveled.

Whoever might answer this post should be similar to me in at least some respects, particularly with regard to having a good brain and taking care of herself physically, as a sound mind and body go hand in hand for me. Beyond that, there is not much more to say. Well, there is, but I will keep that for if and when I get to know someone. I am not averse to e-mailing/chatting online until we both get comfortable with one another, given what I am looking for. Just be straightforward and open-minded above all else. Please be kind enough to send a picture in your reply.

One last thing that needs to be said: Even if 50 Shades of Grey is what inspired you to seek out this sort of interaction, please understand that it is decidedly not an accurate or realistic representation of healthy or realistic kink relationships. So, let's play rough, shall we. And yes, you may definitely hit me back if you are so inclined. All the more fun if you are!

~ I have a very unique ask. I am looking for someone who is a "thinking Dom's sub"!! In fact, very few men inspire submission in you... really. It's a dilemma. 

You are smart. 

You are instinctual. 

You are kind. 

You are petulant. 

You are confident. 

You are insecure. 

You are capable. 

You are sensual. 

You are intuitive. 

You are cute, sexy. 

You are also imperfect. 

You have a good sense of style. 

You are honest and genuine. 

Sometimes you like kissing girls.

You are usually restless.

You try hard.

You are lucky.

You would giggle if you were made to call someone, "my Lord", you are all for "Sir". 

You are well read.

You watch too much TV.

You have good manners and you love the "edge'.

You are nasty and graceful.

Most importantly, you are willing. And ready to look into what else you may be.

You are grinning right now.

I think it's safe to say most ‘Doms’ would not be disappointed. A little about Me. 

I am brilliant I have that Alpha thing going. I am honest and intuitive. I am funny and focused. I am strong - very strong. I am genuine and have integrity. I am talented. I am good at this. I know how to handle you. I will know when you are trying to control the situation and I won't allow it. You won't know what to expect next. You won't be able to write the script. I know a woman's body well. I know "Gor" is a make believe place. I don't write​ "​​W/we". I am tall. I am charismatic. I don't wear cheap things. I am in control. I am perceptive and stern. I am gentle. I know the difference between "your" and "you're". I love what I do for a living. I am very passionate. I enjoy a woman giving herself over to me in a very deep way. It's my nature.

What you & I want!! You want the stillness and quiet mind that comes when you give up. I want the pleasure that comes when you please. You want me to know it is no "gift" you give. You are doing what you need to. It is no "gift". You want easy silence. And we want easy laughter. You want the loss of control. ​You want to go past or over or beyond what you imagine the edge to be. You want to feel safe with someone taking you there. You want to trust that someone will bring you back. You want to be challenged and wanted. You want the freedom that comes with complete submission. You want your submission to be absolutely genuine and real. You want to be played with. You want to give what I want. Or you want me to take it if that's what I want. You want to be completely uninhibited and you want to feel what that's like. You want to be accepted after that. You want that small smile to cross your lips the next day. ~

 

You know what a conventional massage is, correct? Well, picture that for a start and let's start mid-massage then...

As I massage and caress down the front of your body, your arm, breasts, abdominal, legs, and toes, your expectation heightens, each stroke continues to create an ever building pleasure in you, that causes your quiet moans, to escalate and your breathing to become much heavier. No part of your body will escape my attention. Tantric massage is a sacred ceremony, where the mind, body and energy becomes one, through erotic stimulation, teasing, touch manipulation leading to sweet orgasmic bliss. I will move back to your thighs. You'll be in paradise as my hands and fingers knead and massage your inner leg and in the region of your pelvic area. The sensations will half tickle you, as I run my fingers, teasing and slightly brushing your........... you'll be in heaven.

This session will make you feel as if you are in a trance, physical boundaries dissolve, your worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including particularly sensitive areas.

As my hands masterfully and methodically work their way to your lower back and tail bone area, you'll feel a heighten sensation coupled with a delightful tingle that stirs your entire body into a wonderful place of ecstasy. I'll slowly massage your entire body, each stroke creates an ever building pleasure in you that causes your breathing to become heavier and quicker. My hands will move lower to massage and explore the globes of your rounded buttocks. As they do, you'll find yourself fighting not to allow your hips to rise up into my touch slowly gyrating into the rhythm of my massage strokes. I'll continue this motion, caressing your inner thigh, the back of your knee, your calf, teasing you as my hands glides the entire length of your body. At this time you will not be able to stop yourself and will slightly lift your round buttocks and begin to make a small circular motion. I'll whisper to you "Not Yet" and conclude this part of our session at the end of your feet and I'll turn you over. You'll now feel yourself longing for that ultimate conclusion, that "magic" moment. I will then move to and focus on your most intimate areas where you yearn to be touched, bringing you to an orgasmic state.

Please do not be shy if you are older or younger. Please tell me a bit about you and lets get this started..

You clicked on this post because you are curious. There is a good chance this post will leave you craving, much in the same way I crave. You should really respond to me to put me to test…

1. I will make it known that I am going down on you because I want to be between your legs. You will hear sounds from me like "mmmmm" and "ahhhhhh" and "you taste so good" to let you know I am enjoying the act.
2. I will take it slowly with my tongue, making the strokes slow and short at first, and gradually making them longer as I encircle your labia.
3. I will use a firm tongue with light pressure, allowing the tip and edge to brush up against places as my tongue moves past.
4. I will use my fingers to stimulate places while my tongue is otherwise occupied. They will caress your labia and lips, touch you from the inside, find your G-spot and return to it frequently, and they will remember places you like so my tongue can visit them.
5. I will spread your lips with my fingers to allow my tongue better access to your clit, and so the sensation of warm tongue can alternate with cool air to increase the sensations and stimulation.
6. I will massage you while I go down on you. My hands will caress your hips, your back, your stomach, your thighs, whatever they can reach. They will also hold you firm so I can focus on one spot to heighten stimulation. If you are mounted on my face, they will reach up to massage your breasts.
7. I will engage in very light anal play while I go down on you. Multiple orgasms are best achieved through multiple stimulation. I will explore and lightly play with your rosebud, and if you are receptive to the sensations I may engage in other forms of play. Not everyone is into it, so I will refrain if you ask me not to when I start.
8. I will penetrate you with my tongue, so you may feel its texture on your outer walls, and so that I may taste of your juices. My tongue will go into you as deep as I can go.
9. I will close your outer lips when your inner lips are swollen with arousal, causing them to pucker up. I will lick you lips around the edges. I will release them, lick the places in between them, and then close them again.
10. I will suck on your clit. When your clit is swollen, I will take it between my lips and suck on it to give you different sensations of pleasure. I will do so slowly and gently, and let the tip of my tongue touch your clit's tip. I will listen and feel for your reaction so I know if I should suck it harder, or return to using my tongue.

About me:

* Height - 6'

* Build - Medium built

* Weight - 195 lbs

Not sure if there is anyone else on here experiencing what I am experiencing but I have to search to satisfy my curiosity, not because misery enjoys company but because I am very curious to see if what is happening in my marriage is normal or not.

My wife and I have sex maybe once a quarter..... MAYBE. We have gone several months without sex and she seems perfectly ok with that.

My wife and I rarely kiss, like the make out type of kissing that you used to enjoy when you were in High School or first started dating...not sure why (I am sure that passion and kissing diminishes over the years but mine is none existent).....I do get a smooch goodbye every morning which is more like a PECK on the cheek or lips but nothing to get me all excited. It feels like she is just giving me a peck in the event I do not make it home then she can say she at least kissed me goodbye!

When we do have sex..... it is routine.... same old stuff. No sparks....she gets off and goes to sleep..... which is what I thought the MALE is supposed to do...lol

I have tried to bring in toys, mix it up, go on date nights and offer various venues but she declines... she says she likes it the way it is and that I am just overly sex crazed?

I disagree... I am a normal human that enjoys having sex. I want affection and I want to be wanted sexually. no reason why I should not be wanted sexually....I am fun in bed... I love to please a woman. I am easy on the eyes, I work out... I floss....., I feel I have about 20-25 years of good sex left in me, but at this rate I am going to become a fricking monk. It's ridiculous.

Is it wrong to want sex once a week? Is it wrong to love sex?
I enjoy it...I enjoy a woman's body.....every inch of it. I am passionate and enjoy kissing.

I truly feel we are like two ships passing one another down the hall as I walk to one side of the home and she walks to another. There has to be more.

If any of this sounds familiar, believe me it's not fun to admit it can be our secret....let's chat and see if perhaps we can make a friendship out of this and enjoy the things we both enjoy doing. We owe it to one another right???

So in closing....THANKS FOR READING and PLEASE...let me know if this is normal or not...if so...I will deal with it....I will book guy trips to Vegas or Thailand more frequently (that's a joke), but my guess is this is NOT normal...even if it is I say... LET'S NOT BE NORMAL

I have a secret thing for girls with a bit of androgyny to them, whether in looks or attitude. Think Joan Jett, Pink, or Hillary Swank when she is looking leaner and a bit less soft. It is something of an irony, because I am very much a heterosexual Alpha-male type who loves lush, feminine women and all of their delicious curves and ages.

Although, there is something so tempting about an athletic, almost boyish female with slim hips, firm and lithe belly, and long, lanky limbs. My own personal nod to homo-eroticism, I suppose, but I do not desire men in this way, although I really like girls who are a bit queer (and I mean that in the best possible way). I think it is the contrast of hardness with softness, a touch of butch amid the girlishness like a sharp spiciness accompanying sweetness, they do make me hungry, oh yes, they certainly do, the way I savor chocolate with a dash of chili powder.

I also am drawn to them because I do like to play rough. The feeling of a woman struggling against me arouses me ferociously; the way the thrashing of a prey animal stimulates a predator. Of course, only if that is what she wants, because I might be a bit of a beast, but I do try not to be a bastard and I am generally successful. But that is what I want to find, someone who has the spine to struggle, fight back against me, who enjoys resisting me until I have to overwhelm her, then enjoys the act of surrendering to me even more.

I have exceptionally strong, sensitive hands, so it gives me great pleasure to grip, squeeze, and pinch smooth, supple flesh. My palms ache at the idea of doing so. Spanking and smacking are other things I enjoy very much, and I love knowing that I have left vivid reminders of my attentions on the secret places beneath a woman's clothing. Ones only she knows about, but which remind her of their presence with every movement.

I also have a particular fondness for biting, especially on a woman's thighs, hips, legs, and ass. My teeth and jaws are very strong, sharp, and sensitive, and the feel and taste of skin between my teeth is a potent aphrodisiac to me. Literally, I feel like a wolf at a feast when I do that.

So, this is what I seek, someone young enough that she is eager to learn some of the many wicked things I can impart, but mature enough to understand that we both have lives apart from each other and desire to keep that separate from one another. Someone who will share time with me when I can come to her, who will allow me the opportunity to feed the appetites that the darker aspects of my nature give rise to, and who will draw enjoyment from that sort of interaction with me. Almost needless to say (but not quite), she should be intelligent, the brighter the better, because I love clever brains and smart girls of all sorts are the only ones I can connect with.

As for me, I am highly intelligent, have a very good (if warped) sense of humor, creative, witty, and generally very interesting. I am 6', medium built, athletic, non-smoker, well educated and well traveled.

Whoever might answer this post should be similar to me in at least some respects, particularly with regard to having a good brain and taking care of herself physically, as a sound mind and body go hand in hand for me. Beyond that, there is not much more to say. Well, there is, but I will keep that for if and when I get to know someone. I am not averse to e-mailing/chatting online until we both get comfortable with one another, given what I am looking for. Just be straightforward and open-minded above all else. Please be kind enough to send a picture in your reply.

One last thing that needs to be said: Even if 50 Shades of Grey is what inspired you to seek out this sort of interaction, please understand that it is decidedly not an accurate or realistic representation of healthy or realistic kink relationships. So, let's play rough, shall we. And yes, you may definitely hit me back if you are so inclined. All the more fun if you are!

~ I have a very unique ask. I am looking for someone who is a "thinking Dom's sub"!! In fact, very few men inspire submission in you... really. It's a dilemma. 

You are smart. 

You are instinctual. 

You are kind. 

You are petulant. 

You are confident. 

You are insecure. 

You are capable. 

You are sensual. 

You are intuitive. 

You are cute, sexy. 

You are also imperfect. 

You have a good sense of style. 

You are honest and genuine. 

Sometimes you like kissing girls.

You are usually restless.

You try hard.

You are lucky.

You would giggle if you were made to call someone, "my Lord", you are all for "Sir". 

You are well read.

You watch too much TV.

You have good manners and you love the "edge'.

You are nasty and graceful.

Most importantly, you are willing. And ready to look into what else you may be.

You are grinning right now.

I think it's safe to say most ‘Doms’ would not be disappointed. A little about Me. 

I am brilliant I have that Alpha thing going. I am honest and intuitive. I am funny and focused. I am strong - very strong. I am genuine and have integrity. I am talented. I am good at this. I know how to handle you. I will know when you are trying to control the situation and I won't allow it. You won't know what to expect next. You won't be able to write the script. I know a woman's body well. I know "Gor" is a make believe place. I don't write​ "​​W/we". I am tall. I am charismatic. I don't wear cheap things. I am in control. I am perceptive and stern. I am gentle. I know the difference between "your" and "you're". I love what I do for a living. I am very passionate. I enjoy a woman giving herself over to me in a very deep way. It's my nature.

What you & I want!! You want the stillness and quiet mind that comes when you give up. I want the pleasure that comes when you please. You want me to know it is no "gift" you give. You are doing what you need to. It is no "gift". You want easy silence. And we want easy laughter. You want the loss of control. ​You want to go past or over or beyond what you imagine the edge to be. You want to feel safe with someone taking you there. You want to trust that someone will bring you back. You want to be challenged and wanted. You want the freedom that comes with complete submission. You want your submission to be absolutely genuine and real. You want to be played with. You want to give what I want. Or you want me to take it if that's what I want. You want to be completely uninhibited and you want to feel what that's like. You want to be accepted after that. You want that small smile to cross your lips the next day. ~

 

Not sure if there is anyone else on here experiencing what I am experiencing but I have to search to satisfy my curiosity, not because misery enjoys company but because I am very curious to see if what is happening in my marriage is normal or not. My wife and I have sex maybe once a quarter..... MAYBE. We have gone several months without sex and she seems perfectly ok with that. My wife and I rarely kiss, like the make out type of kissing that you used to enjoy when you were in High School or first started dating...not sure why (I am sure that passion and kissing diminishes over the years but mine is none existent).....I do get a smooch goodbye every morning which is more like a PECK on the cheek or lips but nothing to get me all excited. It feels like she is just giving me a peck in the event I do not make it home then she can say she at least kissed me goodbye! When we do have sex..... it is routine.... same old stuff. No sparks....she gets off and goes to sleep..... which is what I thought the MALE is supposed to do...lol I have tried to bring in toys, mix it up, go on date nights and offer various venues but she declines... she says she likes it the way it is and that I am just overly sex crazed? I disagree... I am a normal human that enjoys having sex. I want affection and I want to be wanted sexually. no reason why I should not be wanted sexually....I am fun in bed... I love to please a woman. I am easy on the eyes, I work out... I floss....., I feel I have about 20-25 years of good sex left in me, but at this rate I am going to become a fricking monk. It's ridiculous. Is it wrong to want sex once a week? Is it wrong to love sex? I enjoy it...I enjoy a woman's body.....every inch of it. I am passionate and enjoy kissing. I truly feel we are like two ships passing one another down the hall as I walk to one side of the home and she walks to another. There has to be more. If any of this sounds familiar, believe me it's not fun to admit it can be our secret....let's chat and see if perhaps we can make a friendship out of this and enjoy the things we both enjoy doing. We owe it to one another right??? So in closing....THANKS FOR READING and PLEASE...let me know if this is normal or not...if so...I will deal with it....I will book guy trips to Vegas or Thailand more frequently (that's a joke), but my guess is this is NOT normal...even if it is I say... LET'S NOT BE NORMAL

Everyone thinks you're such a nice girl and that's ok, you suppose, because that's what you have always wanted them to think.

Professional, established, independent, intelligent - a high-drive, high-morals kind of girl.

The girl next door.

The Perfect Catch.

EXCEPT - there's one little problem.

Inside, in your quietest darkest place, you're not that all-American-girl-next-door at all.

You're a slut.

Or at least, you like the thought of someone telling you you are. Hearing those words.

Out loud.

Knowing they're directed at you.

Very possibly while someone is bending you over, or holding you down, about to violate you...again...and you're loving every filthy minute of it.

How deliciously appalling.

You shudder at the thought of someone leaning over, whispering in your ear, "dirty whore," knowing someone knows what's lurking inside of you, what you crave. And you find yourself excited at the prospect all the same.

All your life, you've done the right thing.

Made the smart choices.

But with all you've accomplished, there's still those opinions, hanging over you. Fuck what THEY think. Its what YOU want.

Now.

RIGHT NOW.

And you want to be BAD.

A Slut.

A Whore.

Used.

Humiliated.

Objectified.

Fucked.

Making Love and intimacy can be great.

That's not what this post is about, but you already know that - even HOPE that.

You need someone you can trust with this little bend of yours.

That someone is me.

Not looking to jeopardize our health, or our stability, or the places we've worked so hard to earn in our worlds. Instead, let's just step away, with each other. For all appearances "normal" 23 hours a day, or even 6 days a week. Some women like to read, others like the theater, while others knit. I like a woman who happens to be in touch with this aspect of herself, to be open once trust is established, to sometimes explore and flirt with this side of herself. I like the chance for a little game. A little role play. Submissive, docile, humiliated, slutty, or just plain rough. This is hardly a casual encounter, but instead an intense mutual experience. Discretion and safety assured and expected. . Not interested in expanding my social calendar with a date with no potential and actually would prefer this route to find what I want. How about you?

Non-smoker/drug/disease free, professional, clean cut, conservative looking...just like you. You'll likely be surprised when we meet that I posted this. If you think I would be similarly surprised when we meet that you answered a post like this, then we're off to a good start. This is a lot of reading for just sex, and if you've read this far, we'll agree that what we're really looking for is something more subtle, a certain je ne sais quoi.

You clicked on this post because you are curious. There is a good chance this post will leave you craving, much in the same way I crave. You should really respond to me to put me to test…

1. I will make it known that I am going down on you because I want to be between your legs. You will hear sounds from me like "mmmmm" and "ahhhhhh" and "you taste so good" to let you know I am enjoying the act.
2. I will take it slowly with my tongue, making the strokes slow and short at first, and gradually making them longer as I encircle your labia.
3. I will use a firm tongue with light pressure, allowing the tip and edge to brush up against places as my tongue moves past.
4. I will use my fingers to stimulate places while my tongue is otherwise occupied. They will caress your labia and lips, touch you from the inside, find your G-spot and return to it frequently, and they will remember places you like so my tongue can visit them.
5. I will spread your lips with my fingers to allow my tongue better access to your clit, and so the sensation of warm tongue can alternate with cool air to increase the sensations and stimulation.
6. I will massage you while I go down on you. My hands will caress your hips, your back, your stomach, your thighs, whatever they can reach. They will also hold you firm so I can focus on one spot to heighten stimulation. If you are mounted on my face, they will reach up to massage your breasts.
7. I will engage in very light anal play while I go down on you. Multiple orgasms are best achieved through multiple stimulation. I will explore and lightly play with your rosebud, and if you are receptive to the sensations I may engage in other forms of play. Not everyone is into it, so I will refrain if you ask me not to when I start.
8. I will penetrate you with my tongue, so you may feel its texture on your outer walls, and so that I may taste of your juices. My tongue will go into you as deep as I can go.
9. I will close your outer lips when your inner lips are swollen with arousal, causing them to pucker up. I will lick you lips around the edges. I will release them, lick the places in between them, and then close them again.
10. I will suck on your clit. When your clit is swollen, I will take it between my lips and suck on it to give you different sensations of pleasure. I will do so slowly and gently, and let the tip of my tongue touch your clit's tip. I will listen and feel for your reaction so I know if I should suck it harder, or return to using my tongue.

About me:

* Height - 6'

* Build - Medium built

* Weight - 195 lbs

You know what a conventional massage is, correct? Well, picture that for a start and let's start mid-massage then...

As I massage and caress down the front of your body, your arm, breasts, abdominal, legs, and toes, your expectation heightens, each stroke continues to create an ever building pleasure in you, that causes your quiet moans, to escalate and your breathing to become much heavier. No part of your body will escape my attention. Tantric massage is a sacred ceremony, where the mind, body and energy becomes one, through erotic stimulation, teasing, touch manipulation leading to sweet orgasmic bliss. I will move back to your thighs. You'll be in paradise as my hands and fingers knead and massage your inner leg and in the region of your pelvic area. The sensations will half tickle you, as I run my fingers, teasing and slightly brushing your........... you'll be in heaven.

This session will make you feel as if you are in a trance, physical boundaries dissolve, your worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether. According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including particularly sensitive areas.

As my hands masterfully and methodically work their way to your lower back and tail bone area, you'll feel a heighten sensation coupled with a delightful tingle that stirs your entire body into a wonderful place of ecstasy. I'll slowly massage your entire body, each stroke creates an ever building pleasure in you that causes your breathing to become heavier and quicker. My hands will move lower to massage and explore the globes of your rounded buttocks. As they do, you'll find yourself fighting not to allow your hips to rise up into my touch slowly gyrating into the rhythm of my massage strokes. I'll continue this motion, caressing your inner thigh, the back of your knee, your calf, teasing you as my hands glides the entire length of your body. At this time you will not be able to stop yourself and will slightly lift your round buttocks and begin to make a small circular motion. I'll whisper to you "Not Yet" and conclude this part of our session at the end of your feet and I'll turn you over. You'll now feel yourself longing for that ultimate conclusion, that "magic" moment. I will then move to and focus on your most intimate areas where you yearn to be touched, bringing you to an orgasmic state.

Please do not be shy if you are older or younger. Please tell me a bit about you and lets get this started..

Not sure if there is anyone else on here experiencing what I am experiencing but I have to search to satisfy my curiosity, not because misery enjoys company but because I am very curious to see if what is happening in my marriage is normal or not.

My wife and I have sex maybe once a quarter..... MAYBE. We have gone several months without sex and she seems perfectly ok with that.

My wife and I rarely kiss, like the make out type of kissing that you used to enjoy when you were in High School or first started dating...not sure why (I am sure that passion and kissing diminishes over the years but mine is none existent).....I do get a smooch goodbye every morning which is more like a PECK on the cheek or lips but nothing to get me all excited. It feels like she is just giving me a peck in the event I do not make it home then she can say she at least kissed me goodbye!

When we do have sex..... it is routine.... same old stuff. No sparks....she gets off and goes to sleep..... which is what I thought the MALE is supposed to do...lol

I have tried to bring in toys, mix it up, go on date nights and offer various venues but she declines... she says she likes it the way it is and that I am just overly sex crazed?

I disagree... I am a normal human that enjoys having sex. I want affection and I want to be wanted sexually. no reason why I should not be wanted sexually....I am fun in bed... I love to please a woman. I am easy on the eyes, I work out... I floss....., I feel I have about 20-25 years of good sex left in me, but at this rate I am going to become a fricking monk. It's ridiculous.

Is it wrong to want sex once a week? Is it wrong to love sex?
I enjoy it...I enjoy a woman's body.....every inch of it. I am passionate and enjoy kissing.

I truly feel we are like two ships passing one another down the hall as I walk to one side of the home and she walks to another. There has to be more.

If any of this sounds familiar, believe me it's not fun to admit it can be our secret....let's chat and see if perhaps we can make a friendship out of this and enjoy the things we both enjoy doing. We owe it to one another right???

So in closing....THANKS FOR READING and PLEASE...let me know if this is normal or not...if so...I will deal with it....I will book guy trips to Vegas or Thailand more frequently (that's a joke), but my guess is this is NOT normal...even if it is I say... LET'S NOT BE NORMAL