u/StrawberrySteph03

I had the chance to talk with my boyfriend after he'd been dropping hints that indicated that he's into the interracial aspect of hotwifing and possibly more and he confirmed it. He also explained a little more about his headspace with stuff like the skin contrast and size difference and that he'd love to see me have sex with black men.

What do you guys think the next steps when it comes to exploring this (aside from sex)? We've been exploring hotwifing for a few months now and we're currently not looking to have sex with someone for the time being, so any suggestions/advice/information not including that are welcome.

A short hotpast story and detail I told my bf that you guys might like!

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips! Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips! Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips! Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips 😩. Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips 😩. Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

Bf likes hearing about details from past hookups so I figured you guys might want to here this as well!

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips 😩. Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, which also means a lot of other people on the floor could, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

What role does this kink play in your relationship? And if you are currently single, what role do you think, if any, would it play in a future relationship? For us, my boyfriend and I have been playing around with the hotwifing kink for several months now online and more recently started exploring the interracial part of it. The role it plays is a more of a fun thing that adds to our sex life through things like roleplay, sexting with black guys, bf sending me pics/vids about it😂, and me sharing pics on "BBC" focused subreddits occasionally as well. In time, I do see us taking this irl with actual interracial hotwifing, but for now we're taking our time 😂.

My (23) boyfriend (25) who I've been with for a little over 3 years now, enjoys hearing about my past partners and sexual past, which is not as numerous or as wild as he probably hopes 😂. He let me know about this a few months ago. I figured it might be worth sharing his favorite story and some details.

In the first semester of my sophomore year of college, I took a psych course and I ended up sitting and getting to know a guy name Brian. He swam for on the college's team and was just very laid back and funny so we hit it off. About a quarter into the semester is when we started getting to know each other better and began hooking up casually. Here's a few spicy details 🤭:

-Once we started hooking up more regularly, it became almost like a routine and on most of the Tuesdays and Fridays after the psych class ends, which met twice a week, we would both go to my dorm and have sex 😂. Favorite position was doggy and one of my favorite things is how tight he'd hold my hips! Him being a swimmer, had a swimmers body (duh) which was very nice 😂. His dick was probably like 7 inches with some girth, and had sorta a downward curve.

-My roommate knew and she was always out of our dorm after the Tuesday class days, but for the Friday class, the time we'd usually hook up would usually be a time she usually otherwise come back to our dorm, so I'd write "do not disturb" on our door whiteboard. She'd joke later that the sign is kind of worthless since she can hear us fucking when approaching the door anyway, since apparently I'm pretty loud 😅

-One time, my roommate had to ignore the do not disturb on the whiteboard due to a pseduo emergency and had to quickly grab something in our bathroom and leave. She was fast and didn't look, but she definitely heard 😂. But I won't forget the moment I saw that door open 😂. I was facing the door while he was fucking me doggystyle and he abruptly stopped thrusting and loosened his grip on my hips when we both saw the door open and her quickly run in and out. We resumed a few minutes after but got startled so we had to recoup ourselves 😂

After the semester ended, we hung out a lot less frequently, and just slowly sort of went our separate ways. I also met my now current boyfriend in the 2nd semester, after we had already stopped hooking up and hanging out. I'd occasionally saw him on campus, but we never had another class together.

How often do you guys talk about her sexual past? For us it's something my bf likes to know more about and he definitely enjoys hearing about it 😂. I think it's called hotpast. We also found it to be a good way to roleplay! What about you guys?

I had the chance to talk with my boyfriend after he'd been dropping hints that indicated that he's into the interracial aspect of hotwifing and possibly more and he confirmed it. He also explained a little more about his headspace with stuff like the skin contrast and size difference and that he'd love to see me have sex with black men.

What do you guys think the next steps when it comes to exploring this? We've been exploring hotwifing for a few months now and we're currently not looking to have sex with someone for the time being, so any suggestions/advice/information not including that are welcome.

As my bf and I continue to explore hotwifing, he's been dropping hints that indicate he's at least pretty into the interracial aspect of hotwifing and possibly more. As of now, I don't know if it's just limited just that or if it goes into any of the other kinkier territory.

Wondering now the next step which is probably just asking him directly. He's pretty open about a lot of stuff so maybe it'll just be a matter of time for him to directly bring it up. Information and advice would be appreciated on the topic as it's something I just don't know as much about yet aside from the surface level stuff and I obviously have my limits as would he.

I'd like some advice on a kink that I think is relevant to this subreddit (I also don't really know another good subreddit except for one other to ask this on without it potentially being removed). Does anyone have any experience or advice with the interracial aspect of hotwifing or cuckolding? I'd also like to know some more general stuff about the appeal of it and other stuff, or how to move forward with it.

The situation is in short, my bf and I have been exploring hotwifing recently and I've come to realize from some of the stuff he says that he at the very least gets excited at the thought of me with black men. We've talked about hotwifing a lot but I can sorta tell he's into this aspect of it and we haven't talked about it directly yet and wanted a little more background on it. Possible also that he is also into at least some parts of the overall the "BNWO" thing though idk for sure yet.

Has anyone ever gone from hotwifing to cuckolding? How'd it happen? and how is it now?