u/strangebus85

After a little over a week of denial I start to get more service orientated and attentive (Chastity conditioning). We are on week 2 of a 4 week denial. My question is. If at the end of the 4 week if she is able to get me to cum through prostate only will I still remain in my Chastity conditioning. (We need a better word for this) Also after some time I get pretty sensitive during sex. I am hoping that prostate milking would help reduce my cock sensitivity?

For contacts I never have precum. Except when denied. It has been denied (cage free) a week and a half. And we are planning on going a month. Never been milked. I'm wondering if she went to milk me if. Would still keep my submissive and attentive behavior that I only really get after a week + of denial. And if I would reduce the sensitivity of my cock. My cock is her favorite toy but it is getting so sensitive that he can't really use it and keep me denied. If you know what I mean. I (we) would love to keep me in this attentive state and also keep my cock functional for her use.

Apparently call the Meatus. I have the flexibile ring and my cage fits so the head is snog on the halead cap. After a day of wearing I start to get micro swelling around my Meatus (pp hole) lit kinda looks like the hole has lips. It goes around after a 12-24 hours. It prevents me from wearing for 24 hrs or even every day. I think I would get a UTI if continued use. I wounder if a hard ring would be better or even a larger shaft so I have a little more movement?

I would love to hear peoples experiences. I am a growers and nothing seem to work well soft and hard I hope I might have luck with a pad and shaft only but that is a lot of effort if it doesn't work. I don't see much conversation about it. I know some people like to block erection but I do not. Just want to block orgasms and feel my wife's control of my cock

I would like to be denied for an entire month. My wife tends to only want to go for 2 weeks before she wants me to cum. I was thinking about proposing a payment for her and reward for me for going an entire month. I was thinking think if she agrees to deny me an entire month I will give (or pay for) a 1 hr massage 2 times a week. And if I behave I can have a 1 hr message at 2 weeks and at the end of the month. Maybe a couples massage at 2 weeks and she gives me one with a ruined happy ending orgasms at the end of the month. Just wondering if you all had any other ideas to repay her for having to go without my me having an orgasm. Obnoxious she will have as many O as she can since I love experiencing her orgasms especially when denied.

If your man is not allowed to masterbate without your permission. And you confesses to doing so is there a go-to punishment in your household? (Edit; if I get enough answers I will share this post with my wife)

My wife finally decides that she wants to have multiple orgasms from penetration—something I'm not able to provide due to my lack of endurance. She tells me to do whatever is necessary to find her a handsome bull.

It doesn't take long for me to find someone on an app. His name is Tyler. I spend some time getting to know him and vetting him. He's a pretty down-to-earth guy with a great smile, handsome, muscular build.

He lets me know that he's had a vasectomy and hasn't been with any partners since his recent STD testing. This is great news because my wife does not enjoy condoms.

I make sure to let him know that I am bisexual. While this encounter is about my wife's pleasure, I didn't want him to feel misled. Tyler makes it clear that he's straight but doesn't mind penetrating a man. He just has no interest in reciprocity.

I wasn't expecting this. I was really just looking for my wife's pleasure, but I won't lie—the idea of being able to participate was exciting.

At my wife’s instructions, I invite Tyler over for dinner. I prepare a fine meal for the two of them, so they can get to know each other over dinner

I am allergic to shellfish, but this meal isn’t for me. I cook them lobster tails with drawn butter, wild rice, and grilled asparagus. This is about my wife having things she can’t have with just me and we rarely eat lobster due to my allergy.

After I serve them their dishes, I ask if they would like some mead or a beer. My wife asks for the mead, and Tyler chooses a beer.

Once they are settled into their meal, I grab myself a dish without lobster and sit down at the table with them. After only a couple of bites, my wife asks Tyler if he would like another beer. Tyler says he would, and she gives me a look to go get it, so of course I oblige. I then ask if she would like some more wine.

The conversation continues, and I keep serving them drinks for about an hour and a half oh so while they get to know each other. Just as I am in the middle of a sentence, my wife cuts me off to announce that she would like to go lie down in the bedroom.

Without hesitation, she stands, takes Tyler’s hand, and leads him. Just as they are about to round the corner into the hallway, she looks back at me and tells me to join them. I take a seat at the foot of the bed. My wife lies on her back, and Tyler climbs in beside her. I suggest to Tyler that we both give her a massage to help her relax.

She instructs us both to take all of our clothes off as she removes hers for the massage. She rolls over and lies face down, her body parallel to the headboard and her face at the edge of the bed.

Tyler begins massaging her shoulders, and I massage her legs and feet. I have been fully erect since before I took my clothes off. I got a good look at Tyler; his cock was already full of blood, though not fully erect.

As the massage continues, he gets harder and harder. Soon he is standing next to the bed massaging her shoulders, his cock right near her face, and she takes it into her mouth.

This continues for a moment as I massage and kiss her feet. Tyler begins thrusting into her mouth. I watch, surprised that she is able to take his girth so deeply without choking. She eventually pulls back to catch her breath, then resumes sucking his cock and stroking his shaft.

She then lays on her back with her legs spread open, and Tyler does not hesitate to accept the invitation.

Tyler’s cock is rock hard. It is not enormous, but it is much bigger than mine. My wife is extremely wet, and he does not need to take his time entering her. His stamina amazes me. I have a hard time holding myself back, and I also know I do not have the endurance to keep up with him.

I can tell she is close to orgasm, but she usually needs to be on top to finish. Still, he continues, and she moans louder and louder.

While I continue kissing and rubbing her feet, Tyler’s foot briefly lands on my face. At first he pulls it back, but then, almost as an afterthought, he presses it more firmly against me. I remain in place as he continues to pound her.

I am convinced she is going to orgasm, but then she stops him and instructs him to lie on his back.

He moves his foot from my face and she climbs on top of him in reverse cowgirl. She motions for me to come to her and suck on her nipples, and I happily oblige.

She then pushes me down toward her midsection, guiding my head with her hands and her grip in my hair until my tongue reaches her clitoris. I stimulate her with as much intensity as I can.

At this point, I am extremely aroused, but I cannot understand how she has not already orgasmed. I have never seen her like this, nor experienced her receiving this level of pleasure.

Still gripping my hair, she lifts my head away about four inches. From this angle, I can see him inside her as they move together. I look at her face and see pleasure written all over it. I feel in love with her all over again seeing her with Tyler while I am able to assist.

After a while, she lifts herself off him and his cock slaps me in the face. She giggles and slaps me in the face with his cockva couple more times. She grabs my hair again and guides my mouth over his thick hard cock. Moving my head up and down his shaft. I begin to gag slightly as she pushes my head deeper.

She then pulls me away and turns back to Tyler, kissing him passionately. Their lips and tongues connect as he re-enters her, continuing forcefully.

She finally lets out a long, intense orgasmic moan and collapses onto him for a moment.

She then lies on her stomach and whispers for him to fuck her hard.

As he gets into position, I ask if I should apply lubricant. She agrees, so I take out the KY and apply it to my hand before stroking his shaft briefly.

He then pushes me aside and penetrates her from behind, pounding her harder and harder. Her moans grow louder and more intense until she reaches another explosive orgasm.

Afterward, she explains she can't take anymore and tells him he can use me to finish.

I did not expect this. I had fantasized about it, but didn't expect it on the first encounter. Without hesitation, Tyler grabs my hips and pulls me to the edge of the bed like I am some petite doll.

He inserts his erect, lubricated cock into me. It feels so good, though I am also self-conscious about my wife watching. I glance over and see her watching me, her fingers circling her clit.

Tyler begins thrusting into me forcefully. I have had some experience with men, but nothing like this.

Eventually, he says he is going to come and asks where he should finish. Before I can react, my wife tells him to come in my mouth.

He pulls out, positions me on my knees, grips my hair, and tilts my head back. He finishes a massive load in my mouth and across my face, groaning as he does.

Afterward, he asks to take a shower. My wife agrees, and I show him where it is and give him a towel.

I return to my wife in bed, hug her, and kiss her, telling her how much this experience turned me on. She strokes me and guides me on top of her. I begin moving inside her.

She tells me not to finish yet. I try to slow down. I am getting so close. And ask if I can cum. I pull out to take a break and avoid cumming. At time I hear Tyler finish his shower and return.

My wife then tells me she wants me to put on my cage and a thong. She also says Tyler deserves a massage.

Tyler agrees. I am at little stunned. I was expecting to get to finish.

She gestures for me to go, so I head to the closet and put on the cage. It takes a while since my cock is so hard. Mean while I can hear them talking and laughing in the bedroom.

When I return, Tyler is already face down while she applies lotion. I begin massaging him. My cock throbbing inside my cage while I tenderize his muscular body. After a while, he rolls over and I notice he his cock is hard again.

My wife relaxing beside us, looks at it and tells us she cannot take any more—but suggests I should take care of that. With her eyes she gestures toward his cock.

I ask her if she wants me to. I am still kinda uncomfortable with my wife seeing me please like that. She tells me yes, that it is an order.

I begin, sucks his cock and after some time he finishes again in my mouth. I swallow.

Afterward, he lies back exhausted next to my wife. I lie at the foot of the bed as they relax together, both satisfied. My body fills with warmth and affection for my wife, and gratitude toward Tyler. I was never allowed to cum but it almost feels like I did. For a moment we all just lay there all 3 of us feeling relaxed an satisfied.

Eventually, I crawl back to my wifes side, hug her, and thank her for the experience. I ask if there is anything else I can do. She tells me to bring them both water, and I do as I’m told.

Polyandry seems like they were being awesome setup. With two husbands my wife could live a real life of leisure without having to do any chores around the home. And I would have another strong guy to help me with my projects. I am also bi so I can see some perks there. Are any of you or am I multi-husband household? How did you create this dynamic?

Do any of you go out with your wife to queer or bi spaces or events with your wife. Apparently she would not be welcome in Gay spaces according the reddit people. I just want to be around some that. I have never really experienced any "queer spaces" not sure if they existed back in the day except the gay bars. I tried to go to one when I was 18 but they didn't take my fake id.

So there is a French movie about a man that gets transformed into a female lead world. It's called I'm not an easy man. We watched it last night and then today ladies first came out on Netflix and it's pretty much the exact same plot but in English. Kind of wish they could have been a little more creative

My wife and are were in a little argument that seemed to be boiling over into this morning. I still want to make her coffee this morning but I just placed it on her desk next to her. She said " I am probably not even going to drink that because it wasn't presented the way I like" so I picked up the cup and got on my knees and held it for her to take. Then we hunged and all is better now.

How do I get it so I can wear the cage overnight. I am a grower the cage fits very well when flaccid. It's pretty tight when erect which isn't really an issue except for I have pretty long night time erections. And I've only tried wearing it overnight one time. But I've had the same issue with all the cages that I get kind of an inflamed urethra type of issue if I wear it overnight. Is it something that I could maybe build up to? Does anyone else have similar issues and overcome them. I'd like to be able to be caged without having to remove it at night.

I keep it on most of yesterday and all night. Night was not that bad but at the edge of the base I had some discomfort. I might try heating it up to flair it a tad and it could be a little egg shaped because the top of my shaft is pretty flat when hard. One issue I am having today is something that has happened with other cages. The opening of my urethra (my pee hole) is kinda swollen like if has lips. I am not sure why that happens but hopefully after leaving it off for a bit and maybe not sleeping in it tonight that will not continue to be an issue.

I grabbed the mail on my way into town and I had to find a private place to pull over and try it on. I just couldn't wait. And it is very comfortable so far. Obviously it's very early to be giving a review but it is nice and snug there was some pitching putting it on that considering I was in an awkward position putting it on it was not bad. I'm sure it will not take long at all for me to be able to put it on quickly without anything it went on so much easier than any other cage I've tried.

So our flr was a full dom sub dynamic for a predetermined set period of time. After that the more extreme parts faded and we still had\have a more casual FLR. I get her permission for things, try to do most of the chores, make her coffee, things like that. We recently got back into some denial. Yesterday morning when servings her coffee I kneeled when giving it to her like I used to. And asked is this the way you want your coffee served. Her response was "it's not necessary... But it's kinda fun.." so today when I handed her her coffee she pointed and said down and handed it back. I did as I was told. I really want you queens to understand the significance of rituals and symbolism to someone in the submissive position. It makes us feel like you really appreciate and desire our submission. Make him kneel, make him kiss your feet, make silly rules that he has to follow or ask permission to do regular things, make him get approval for what he is wearing before you go out together. Order his food for him at the restaurant. These are all text book things for reminding a submissive that they are owned. And if you want him to serve then you want his submission. There are plenty of women submitting to men in this way. It's only fair to have men submit to their woman fully. It's just about equality. 😆

Not in a fantasy but real life. After you have been playing around with chasity. Do you think you would want to never cum again. I really like being denied. I have only gone for a couple weeks though. So I don't know if I would feel different after more time. But I like the way I feel and act. I love the way sex feels when I am not allowed to finish and I have pent up sexual desire. I am 40+age I don't think it could have worked when I was younger.

So our current reward system is I can get released after I finish a task that might take a couple weeks. But I'm starting to feel like I don't want to be released.... What are some other ideas for rewards for someone that is more permanent in denial.. she prefers PIV so we do that regularly I just stopped before. I've been getting pretty good stop it before explosion. I was thinking about rewards of not having to do something I don't want to do or being able to do something I want to do. I don't know what are your thoughts