u/strangebus85

My wife and are were in a little argument that seemed to be boiling over into this morning. I still want to make her coffee this morning but I just placed it on her desk next to her. She said " I am probably not even going to drink that because it wasn't presented the way I like" so I picked up the cup and got on my knees and held it for her to take. Then we hunged and all is better now.

How do I get it so I can wear the cage overnight. I am a grower the cage fits very well when flaccid. It's pretty tight when erect which isn't really an issue except for I have pretty long night time erections. And I've only tried wearing it overnight one time. But I've had the same issue with all the cages that I get kind of an inflamed urethra type of issue if I wear it overnight. Is it something that I could maybe build up to? Does anyone else have similar issues and overcome them. I'd like to be able to be caged without having to remove it at night.

I keep it on most of yesterday and all night. Night was not that bad but at the edge of the base I had some discomfort. I might try heating it up to flair it a tad and it could be a little egg shaped because the top of my shaft is pretty flat when hard. One issue I am having today is something that has happened with other cages. The opening of my urethra (my pee hole) is kinda swollen like if has lips. I am not sure why that happens but hopefully after leaving it off for a bit and maybe not sleeping in it tonight that will not continue to be an issue.

I grabbed the mail on my way into town and I had to find a private place to pull over and try it on. I just couldn't wait. And it is very comfortable so far. Obviously it's very early to be giving a review but it is nice and snug there was some pitching putting it on that considering I was in an awkward position putting it on it was not bad. I'm sure it will not take long at all for me to be able to put it on quickly without anything it went on so much easier than any other cage I've tried.

So our flr was a full dom sub dynamic for a predetermined set period of time. After that the more extreme parts faded and we still had\have a more casual FLR. I get her permission for things, try to do most of the chores, make her coffee, things like that. We recently got back into some denial. Yesterday morning when servings her coffee I kneeled when giving it to her like I used to. And asked is this the way you want your coffee served. Her response was "it's not necessary... But it's kinda fun.." so today when I handed her her coffee she pointed and said down and handed it back. I did as I was told. I really want you queens to understand the significance of rituals and symbolism to someone in the submissive position. It makes us feel like you really appreciate and desire our submission. Make him kneel, make him kiss your feet, make silly rules that he has to follow or ask permission to do regular things, make him get approval for what he is wearing before you go out together. Order his food for him at the restaurant. These are all text book things for reminding a submissive that they are owned. And if you want him to serve then you want his submission. There are plenty of women submitting to men in this way. It's only fair to have men submit to their woman fully. It's just about equality. 😆

Not in a fantasy but real life. After you have been playing around with chasity. Do you think you would want to never cum again. I really like being denied. I have only gone for a couple weeks though. So I don't know if I would feel different after more time. But I like the way I feel and act. I love the way sex feels when I am not allowed to finish and I have pent up sexual desire. I am 40+age I don't think it could have worked when I was younger.

So our current reward system is I can get released after I finish a task that might take a couple weeks. But I'm starting to feel like I don't want to be released.... What are some other ideas for rewards for someone that is more permanent in denial.. she prefers PIV so we do that regularly I just stopped before. I've been getting pretty good stop it before explosion. I was thinking about rewards of not having to do something I don't want to do or being able to do something I want to do. I don't know what are your thoughts