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I literally haven’t enjoyed an orgasm for what feels like.. maybe 6 weeks?

It makes everything feel so fuzzy. Clit always swollen. Always ready for it.

I can’t stop now I’m hooked. Getting so close to the edge and letting go. Sometimes pushing myself over the edge but taking the wand away and watching the ruin happen. Watching myself squirt and drip without any pleasure.

I’m a sub without a dom, there is nobody to give me an orgasm or control my orgasms.

I’ve decided the next time I can enjoy an orgasm is when I have a daddy or a dom and he decides when and how I touch and cum. Even he may not allow me to enjoy but that will be his choice.

Hope I’m not single for long. The side effect of all this is I just want to please men.. like.. all the time. It makes you so desperate and feral.

Anyway, glad to be here.

Good girls don’t cum.

I’m 36. I’m considering going on a date with a 21 year old who could be a daddy 🙈

We already did do some stuff (oops yes, before a date) and I’ll be honest I was surprised by his natural dominance. He’s also a lovely guy, he seems like a caregiver. I’ve mentioned DdLg and he’s not unfamiliar or scared away.

Anyone else with a reverse/inverse age gap? I never foresaw myself being up for this, but maybe it could work?

I’m 36. I’m considering going on a date with a 21 year old who could be a daddy 🙈

We already did do some stuff (oops yes, before a date) and I’ll be honest I was surprised by his natural dominance. He’s also a lovely guy, he seems like a caregiver. I’ve mentioned DdLg and he’s not unfamiliar or scared away.

Anyone else with a reverse/inverse age gap? I never foresaw myself being up for this, but maybe it could work?

So, something I’ve noticed in my short time doing this is some clients will sit there conducting business on their phones. Usually when giving a relaxation massage after, occasionally during hand relief. Not during actual sex but on the fringes so to speak.

Is it appropriate or even expected for me to say something like “maybe put the phone down baby, this is your relaxation time?”

I don’t mind them doing this (it’s their hour!) I just feel like perhaps some of these high flyers really need someone to be a bit low key pleasure-dommey or even maternal and remind them to take care of themselves?

Or intrusive to even say? These are important’ish people clearly. I want repeat business and for clients to be relaxed, I don’t want to seem like a nag.

Thoughts on a postcard :) x