u/Easy_Mirror2032

Hello and thanks for stopping by.

I'm a 27-year-old tall, dark, and handsome bull who is interested in meeting the right couple for a genuine long-term connection. While chemistry and attraction are definitely important, I'm not just looking for a random encounter. What I'm really hoping to find is a couple who values friendship, trust, communication, and mutual respect as much as I do.

I believe the best connections start with getting to know each other as people first. I enjoy meaningful conversations, good laughs, shared experiences, and building a level of comfort where everyone can be themselves. Whether it's meeting for dinner, grabbing drinks, enjoying a weekend getaway, spending time outdoors, or simply relaxing and getting to know one another, I appreciate creating real bonds that go beyond the physical.

About me: I'm confident without being arrogant, respectful, open-minded, and easy to get along with. I take care of myself, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy staying active. I'm reliable, drama-free, discreet when needed, and believe honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship or arrangement. I understand the importance of boundaries, communication, and making sure everyone feels comfortable, appreciated, and respected.

What I'm looking for is a couple who knows what they want and is interested in exploring a lasting connection rather than a one-time experience. Ideally, we'd develop a friendship where we genuinely enjoy spending time together, supporting one another, and creating memorable experiences. Strong chemistry is great, but a strong friendship makes everything even better.

If you're a couple looking for a mature, genuine, and attractive man who is interested in building something real, I'd love to hear from you.

Looking forward to meeting a great couple and creating something meaningful together.

Not in Toronto

Hey all,

I am a 27M fit and handsome! I would describe myself as a a "guest" or added third, rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. Anyway, I have come to the realization of wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me and I find it boring. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open swinger and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. Wondering if anyone wanted to chat about this, anyone has this, want this. Your own take on this. Happy to connect, maybe make new friends!!

Hey all,

I am a 27M fit and handsome! I would describe myself as a a "guest" or added third, rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. Anyway, I have come to the realization of wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me and I find it boring. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open swinger and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. Wondering if anyone wanted to chat about this, anyone has this, want this. Your own take on this. Happy to connect, maybe make new friends!!

Hey all,

I am a 27M fit and handsome! I would describe myself as a a "guest" or added third, rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. Anyway, I have come to the realization of wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me and I find it boring. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open swinger and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. Wondering if anyone wanted to chat about this, anyone has this, want this. Your own take on this. Happy to connect, maybe make new friends!!

Hey all,

Love to use the term guest rather than bull but guess thats a term most people know. I would describe myself tall, handsome, dark features and fit. Looking for that one couple or even wife who wants that extra love and fun in their relationship. Looking for friendships, good times with both of you or you alone (with the intentions that the fun is towards the wife, I am straight). Love the idea of being friends and tight knight on the vanilla side and a fun kinky time behind close doors. Prefer first timers as it is fun the establish a relationship! not into meaningless hook ups and pic collectors. lets chat.

hey all,

27 "added lover" lover here. My question here is I'd really like to hear from cuckold couples who have successfully found a long-term lover and made the relationship work over time as I myself struggle here to look for this with a couple.

How did you and your wife meet your bull? Was it through lifestyle websites, dating apps, Reddit, local events, social media, or simply by chance? How long did it take before you found someone who was the right fit?

What qualities were you looking for in a long-term added lover beyond physical attraction? Was communication the biggest factor, or were reliability, discretion, personality, confidence, chemistry, and respect just as important? What made you decide that he was someone you wanted to see regularly instead of keeping things casual?

For those of you who went through several bulls before finding the right one, what were the biggest red flags or deal-breakers? Were there common mistakes that caused things not to work out? On the other hand, what did your long-term bull do that made you feel comfortable, respected, and excited to continue the relationship?

I'd also love to hear how your dynamic developed. Did it start slowly with conversations and getting to know each other first, or did it naturally evolve after an initial meeting? How involved was the husband in the process, and how did everyone establish boundaries, expectations, and communication?

As someone on the other side of the dynamic, I'm always interested in learning what couples appreciate most from a bull. What advice would you give to someone who wants to be seen as more than just another guy looking for a hookup? What can a bull do to build trust, show respect for the relationship, and increase the chances of developing a healthy, enjoyable long-term connection that benefits everyone involved?

I'd appreciate hearing both success stories and lessons learned from experiences that didn't work out. The more detail you're comfortable sharing, the better. Thanks in advance for any advice or insights.

I am a fit and handsome! I would describe myself as a a "guest" or added third, rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. I have always dreamed wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open swinger and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. I have also liked the idea of joining a couple who is pussy free and I become the sole lover

Hey all,

Love to use the term guest rather than bull but guess thats a term most people know. I would describe myself tall, handsome, dark features and fit. Looking for that one couple or even wife who wants that extra love and fun in their relationship. Looking for friendships, good times with both of you or you alone (with the intentions that the fun is towards the wife, I am straight). Love the idea of being friends and tight knight on the vanilla side and a fun kinky time behind close doors. Prefer first timers as it is fun the establish a relationship! not into meaningless hook ups and pic collectors. lets chat.

Hello and thanks for stopping by.

I'm a 27-year-old tall, dark, and handsome bull who is interested in meeting the right couple for a genuine long-term connection. While chemistry and attraction are definitely important, I'm not just looking for a random encounter. What I'm really hoping to find is a couple who values friendship, trust, communication, and mutual respect as much as I do.

I believe the best connections start with getting to know each other as people first. I enjoy meaningful conversations, good laughs, shared experiences, and building a level of comfort where everyone can be themselves. Whether it's meeting for dinner, grabbing drinks, enjoying a weekend getaway, spending time outdoors, or simply relaxing and getting to know one another, I appreciate creating real bonds that go beyond the physical.

About me: I'm confident without being arrogant, respectful, open-minded, and easy to get along with. I take care of myself, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy staying active. I'm reliable, drama-free, discreet when needed, and believe honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship or arrangement. I understand the importance of boundaries, communication, and making sure everyone feels comfortable, appreciated, and respected.

What I'm looking for is a couple who knows what they want and is interested in exploring a lasting connection rather than a one-time experience. Ideally, we'd develop a friendship where we genuinely enjoy spending time together, supporting one another, and creating memorable experiences. Strong chemistry is great, but a strong friendship makes everything even better.

If you're a couple looking for a mature, genuine, and attractive man who is interested in building something real, I'd love to hear from you.

Looking forward to meeting a great couple and creating something meaningful together.

Not in Toronto

Hey all,

I would describe myself as a fit and handsome man! I would describe myself as a a "guest" , rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. Anyway, I have come to the realization of wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. Ideally I love the ide of being the main lover and a husband pussy free but not needed I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me and I find it boring. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open "singer" or "poly" and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. Wondering if anyone wanted to chat about this, anyone has this, want this. Your own take on this. Happy to connect!

For the hotwives and couples here: Do you ever look for a stable, long-term third who becomes an actual lover, rather than someone you only meet occasionally?

As 27m someone who's interested in being a lover for a hotwife, I'm curious how common that dynamic is. If you've had a regular third, what made it work, and what qualities were most important? Or do you generally prefer to keep things more casual and avoid emotional attachment?

I'd love to hear about your experiences and perspectives.

For the hotwives and couples here: Do you ever look for a stable, long-term third who becomes an actual lover, rather than someone you only meet occasionally?

As 27m someone who's interested in being a lover for a hotwife, I'm curious how common that dynamic is. If you've had a regular third, what made it work, and what qualities were most important? Or do you generally prefer to keep things more casual and avoid emotional attachment?

I'd love to hear about your experiences and perspectives.

I don't usually make posts like this, but I figured there's nothing to lose by putting myself out there.

I'm 27 years old, single, and looking for a genuine relationship with someone who's interested in building something meaningful. I've been told I'm a good-looking guy, but I know looks only go so far. At the end of the day, personality, trust, communication, and shared values are what make a relationship last.

A little about me: I'm ambitious, hardworking, and always trying to improve myself. I enjoy staying active, taking care of my health, spending time with family and friends, and making memories with the people I care about. I appreciate both exciting adventures and quiet nights at home. Whether it's going for a drive, watching movies, exploring new places, trying different restaurants, or just relaxing and talking for hours, I'm happy as long as I'm with good company.

What I'm looking for is someone who's kind, honest, loyal, and emotionally mature. Someone who communicates openly, has a good sense of humor, and wants a partner they can support and grow with. I believe the best relationships come from mutual respect, trust, and being able to enjoy life's ups and downs together.

I'm not interested in games, drama, or wasting anyone's time. I'd rather take the time to get to know someone properly and see where things naturally lead. I believe that the strongest relationships start with a solid friendship and genuine connection.

If you're someone who values loyalty, enjoys good conversations, likes to laugh, and is looking for something real, I'd love to get to know you. Even if it just starts with a conversation, you never know where it might lead.

Life's too short not to take chances, so here's mine. If this post resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.

not in toronto

Love to chat, tall dark and handsome! love banters, fun and create connections!! Im fun and worth it here :)

Hey everyone! I’m a 27-year-old single guy who's looking to connect with the right couple that's genuinely into the cuckold lifestyle and searching for a confident, respectful bull.

I take good care of myself and stay in shape. I'm attractive, clean-cut, well-groomed, and have a positive attitude. I enjoy staying active, taking pride in my appearance, and living a healthy lifestyle. Beyond the physical side of things, I consider myself easy to talk to, laid-back, respectful, and someone who understands that trust and communication are just as important as chemistry.

I'm looking for a couple that values honesty, mutual respect, and clear boundaries. I know every relationship is different, and I respect the unique dynamic each couple has built together. Whether you're experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore it, I'm happy to take the time to get to know each other first. There's no pressure or expectations—I'd rather build comfort and trust than rush into anything.

For me, attraction isn't just about looks. Personality, confidence, and good conversation go a long way. I enjoy meeting genuine people who are open-minded, know what they're looking for, and appreciate discretion. If we click, I'm open to seeing where things naturally develop, whether that's a one-time meeting or an ongoing connection.

I'm reliable, discreet, and respectful of everyone's privacy. I understand the importance of keeping things confidential and making sure everyone involved feels comfortable, safe, and respected throughout the experience. Communication before, during, and after any meeting matters to me because it helps create the best possible experience for everyone.

If you're a couple looking for someone who's confident without being arrogant, mature, easygoing, and understands the dynamics of the cuckold lifestyle, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourselves, what you're looking for, and what kind of connection you hope to find. I enjoy getting to know people, so don't be shy about reaching out.

If there's mutual interest and chemistry, we can take things at a pace that works for everyone. No games, no unnecessary drama—just honest conversations, respect, and the possibility of creating something exciting together.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for, send me a message. I look forward to getting to know you both and seeing where the connection leads.

Hello and thanks for stopping by.

I'm a 27-year-old tall, dark, and handsome bull who is interested in meeting the right couple for a genuine long-term connection. While chemistry and attraction are definitely important, I'm not just looking for a random encounter. What I'm really hoping to find is a couple who values friendship, trust, communication, and mutual respect as much as I do.

I believe the best connections start with getting to know each other as people first. I enjoy meaningful conversations, good laughs, shared experiences, and building a level of comfort where everyone can be themselves. Whether it's meeting for dinner, grabbing drinks, enjoying a weekend getaway, spending time outdoors, or simply relaxing and getting to know one another, I appreciate creating real bonds that go beyond the physical.

About me: I'm confident without being arrogant, respectful, open-minded, and easy to get along with. I take care of myself, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy staying active. I'm reliable, drama-free, discreet when needed, and believe honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship or arrangement. I understand the importance of boundaries, communication, and making sure everyone feels comfortable, appreciated, and respected.

What I'm looking for is a couple who knows what they want and is interested in exploring a lasting connection rather than a one-time experience. Ideally, we'd develop a friendship where we genuinely enjoy spending time together, supporting one another, and creating memorable experiences. Strong chemistry is great, but a strong friendship makes everything even better.

If you're a couple looking for a mature, genuine, and attractive man who is interested in building something real, I'd love to hear from you.

Looking forward to meeting a great couple and creating something meaningful together.

Not in Toronto

Hello and thanks for stopping by.

I'm a 27-year-old tall, dark, and handsome bull who is interested in meeting the right couple for a genuine long-term connection. While chemistry and attraction are definitely important, I'm not just looking for a random encounter. What I'm really hoping to find is a couple who values friendship, trust, communication, and mutual respect as much as I do.

I believe the best connections start with getting to know each other as people first. I enjoy meaningful conversations, good laughs, shared experiences, and building a level of comfort where everyone can be themselves. Whether it's meeting for dinner, grabbing drinks, enjoying a weekend getaway, spending time outdoors, or simply relaxing and getting to know one another, I appreciate creating real bonds that go beyond the physical.

About me: I'm confident without being arrogant, respectful, open-minded, and easy to get along with. I take care of myself, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy staying active. I'm reliable, drama-free, discreet when needed, and believe honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship or arrangement. I understand the importance of boundaries, communication, and making sure everyone feels comfortable, appreciated, and respected.

What I'm looking for is a couple who knows what they want and is interested in exploring a lasting connection rather than a one-time experience. Ideally, we'd develop a friendship where we genuinely enjoy spending time together, supporting one another, and creating memorable experiences. Strong chemistry is great, but a strong friendship makes everything even better.

If you're a couple looking for a mature, genuine, and attractive man who is interested in building something real, I'd love to hear from you.

Looking forward to meeting a great couple and creating something meaningful together.

Not in Toronto

Hey all,

I dont like to use cub so just to say I am a 27 year old male here. GL, tall, dark and handsome! I keep myself clean, healthy and I would say I support myself well. I would say I look for someone to banter, have fun and just have good memories and fun! I prefer to always chat and see where things go!! nice to meet ya

Hey all,

I am a 27M fit and handsome! I would describe myself as a a "guest" or added third, rather than the typical bull and cuck terms, I am not a fan of them. Anyway, I have come to the realization of wanting something long term, something where we can grow, build, love. Where I become the lover for a wife and to see her happy and her husband to see his wife happy. I am not into the mindless hook ups and quick things, does not do it for me and I find it boring. I want something where we can all grow, travel, enjoy a fun vanilla friendship but behind closed doors, we have something more and kinkier. I am not an open swinger and like my privacy and would ask for the same. I have tried the apps and online stuff and does not work for me. Not into the parties and stuff as I said I like remaining private. Wondering if anyone wanted to chat about this, anyone has this, want this. Your own take on this. Happy to connect, maybe make new friends!!