u/QuietStorm6969

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

\- 39, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.
\- Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.
\- Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

\- 39, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.
\- Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.
\- Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

\- 39, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.
\- Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.
\- Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

- 39, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.
- Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.
- Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Physic - 6’3, 210lbs, in good shape. Married, Not looking to change my situation. Professional successful in my career. Kink friendly

Looking for an affair partner. I offer emotional connection, and physical intimacy. We will talk online until we build trust, and connection, then would love to meet up.

Not much to share here, if this is what you are looking for DM me.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type). I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type), South Asian. I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type). I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type), South Asian. I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type), South Asian. I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’m 39, 6’2”, in shape, takes care of my self (runner, sports guy, not a gym type), South Asian I have a full life — but I’m missing one woman where the connection feels easy, consistent, and mutually exciting.

I’m not looking for chaos. looking for:

intellectual conversations that wander into unexpected places

Someone I can check in with during the day

A slow build of tension and comfort

Feeling wanted — and making you feel the same

Quality time and physical touch are big for me. I’m attentive, affectionate, and I genuinely enjoy learning how someone thinks.

I prefer something long-term, starting online, with room to grow into voice and more comfort over time.

I value discretion and clarity. If you’re married or single but grounded in your situation and not looking to disrupt lives, we’re on the same page.

I’m naturally dominant, but I don’t rush that. Power exchange, for me, is something earned and built through trust, communication, and mutual enthusiasm — never rushed. Chemistry first, labels later. I appreciate a woman who knows her desires and communicates them.

I am also very calm and patient.

You:

Communicative. Comfortable building something intentional. Can hold and initiate a conversation.

No pressure for photos. No games. Just don’t ghost — communicate and we’ll be good.

Do not have a checklist, we can figure out as we talk. If you have on then happy to check them off for you.

I’ll keep this simple. Reddit is full of messy posts and endless checklists. I’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 39, 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

The Vibe:
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

How this works:
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:

39, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

I am 39 married. Not looking to change my situation.. looking for someone who is in similar situation or someone who understands rather than judge.

\\\\\\\*ABOUT ME\\\\\\\*

\\\\\\\*Physical stuff:\\\\\\\* I am 39, 6’2”, around 210 lbs, athletic build. I am not gym toned, i do not like gym i get my exercise from running and playing couple of sports that i like.

I am based on the east coast and am usually available through out the day and would like someone to talk to while i go through my work. (I might be busy somedays so need someone who understands what’s important for me sometimes). Would love to put you to sleep every night, listen to your rant about your day, discuss the positives and negatives, give the attention you need and take back the attention I deserve. I am basically looking for someone with whom I can be me and you can be you.

\\\\\\\*The Good Stuff:\\\\\\\*

I love to talk a lot, and i would expect the same from you.. i really enjoy an intelligent conversation, could be on any topic.

I love love language - my biggest love language is quality time and physical touch

\\\\\\\*Kinky stuff:\\\\\\\* This is not what we would be discussing in our first conversation, but i thought of putting this here so that you know a bit about my other desires. I like some form of bdsm dynamic, and vanilla romance at times. You could expect me to be rough at times and be clingy at the same time. Then i like nipple play, breast play, lite bondage, orgasm control/denial, edging, (big on edging and orgasm control) oral (giving and receiving. Cock warming is one of my biggest kink), punishment and praise, dirty talk (being naughty whenever we get chance). I love discreet public play, giving tasks, setting rules, and thinking of creative ways to keep my sub on the edge, horny and desperate. I would expect my sub to contribute if she has ideas. There could be more as we talk and explore each other. Also I am really big in aftercare.

With the right partner I would love to explore TPE, M/s, wax play, anal and few more.There could be more as we talk and explore each other

\\\\\\\*About you:\\\\\\\*

\\\\\\\*Physical stuff:\\\\\\\* You are well-groomed and takes good care of your health and fitness. You are smaller than me. Be 22 or above (Age is not a hard limit as long as you are mature and can have a good conversation)

\\\\\\\*Bonus:\\\\\\\* You are married and understand my situation. Respectfully. You are into cock worship/cock warming

\\\\\\\*The fun stuff:\\\\\\\*

Emotionally intelligent

looking for long term online only to begin with

loves to text or get on a call and have long conversations.

Clingy

you are ideally between 22 and 46 (No hard limit on age as long as you can have a conversation)

What i look for in you would be to include an adventurous, responsive personality, a good sense of humor, ability to hold conversations, strong intellectual sense, creative, and interest in all variety of kinks.

I do see lot of girls in here are not into video and pictures, i understand that privacy is important and i do not ask for videos or picture, but you might want to okay with getting on voice calls with me. And please do not be a ghost. If you need me time then just communicate and things will be fine.

I am okay with chat or DM on reddit, however, after talking here for some time, i would like to move to a more comfortable platform.

This was long, but if you are who i am looking for you probably at least didn't completely hate reading it, if that’s you, message me, if not, you should probably message me anyway, so i can fix you

FYI - Since you made it here, and are thinking of sending a DM, you should know my ethnicity, so you can be sure if you are interested. I am Brown (Indian origin), living in Canada.

I am 39 married. Not looking to change my situation.. looking for someone who is in similar situation or someone who understands rather than judge. I have met few redditors online, but never got where i wanted to be or LDR didn’t work for my partner, so always decided to mutually end things. I am looking for a female partner, with whom i can develop a meaningful connection, talk anything and everything, be attracted to physically and emotionally, make her feel wanted and make myself feel wanted, appreciate and get appreciated and much more. Online only if you are outside of NA. Possibility of meeting IRL if you are in Canada or USA. Definitely IRL if you are in Ontario/Quebec or in GTA.

Preferably from India or an Indian/Desi.. as there will be so much in common and we can relate too.. Here i am to fill that void.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*ABOUT ME\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Physical stuff:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I am 39, 6’2”, around 210 lbs, athletic build. I am not gym toned, i do not like gym i get my exercise from running and playing couple of sports that i like.

I am based on the east coast and am usually available through out the day and would like someone to talk to while i go through my work. (I might be busy somedays so need someone who understands what’s important for me sometimes). Would love to put you to sleep every night, listen to your rant about your day, discuss the positives and negatives, give the attention you need and take back the attention I deserve. I am basically looking for someone with whom I can be me and you can be you.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*The Good Stuff:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*

I love to talk a lot, and i would expect the same from you.. i really enjoy an intelligent conversation, could be on any topic.

I love love language - my biggest love language is quality time

I love that i always try my best to reach my goals! I will be always there to support you to reach your goals. I want the control, but I want to empower you to be your best.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Kinky stuff:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* This is not what we would be discussing in our first conversation, but i thought of putting this here so that you know a bit about my other desires. I like some form of bdsm dynamic, and vanilla romance at times. You could expect me to be rough at times and be clingy at the same time. Then i like nipple play, breast play, lite bondage, orgasm control/denial, edging, (big on edging and orgasm control) oral (giving and receiving), punishment and praise, dirty talk (being naughty whenever we get chance). I love discreet public play, giving tasks, setting rules, and thinking of creative ways to keep my sun on the edge, horny and desperate. I would expect my sun to contribute if she has ideas. There could be more as we talk and explore each other. Also I am really big in aftercare.

With the right partner I would love to explore TPE, CNC, M/s, wax play, anal and few more. There could be more as we talk and explore each other

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*About you:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Physical stuff:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* You are well-groomed and takes good care of your health and fitness. You are smaller than me. Be 25 or above (Age is not a hard limit as long as you are mature and can have a good conversation)

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Bonus:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* if you are Indian, or from India or on east coast. You are married and understand my situation. Respectfully.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*The fun stuff:\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*

Emotionally intelligent

looking for long term online only to begin with

loves to text or get on a call and have long conversations.

Clingy

you are ideally between 25 and 44 (No hard limit on age as long as you can have a conversation)

What i look for in you would be to include an adventurous, responsive personality, a good sense of humor, ability to hold conversations, strong intellectual sense, creative, and interest in all variety of kinks.

I do see lot of girls in here are not into video and pictures, i understand that privacy is important and i do not ask for videos or picture, but you might want to okay with getting on voice calls with me. And please do not be a ghost. If you need me time then just communicate and things will be fine.

I am okay with chat or DM on reddit, however, after talking here for some time, i would like to move to a more comfortable platform.

This was long, but if you are who i am looking for you probably at least didn't completely hate reading it, if that’s you, message me, if not, you should probably message me anyway, so i can fix you