u/QuietStorm6969

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

42, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career.

Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.

Brown

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection.

There are many other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

Few other kinks of mine:
Edging
Orgasm control/denial
Begging or pleading for orgasm
lite Bondage
Casual Stimulation
public play
Ownership
anal play/anal training/Butt plugs
Breast/Nipple torture and worship
Spanking
Body writing
Non permanent marks
Collaring
Degradation
Pee control
Free use
Rimming
sensation play
Watersports (still exploring)
Making you feel little
Mental control
Using toys on you

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

42, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.

Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.

Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection.

There are many other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

Few other kinks of mine:
Edging
Orgasm control/denial
Begging or pleading for orgasm
lite Bondage
Casual Stimulation
public play
Ownership
anal play/anal training/Butt plugs
Breast/Nipple torture and worship
Spanking
Body writing
Non permanent marks
Collaring
Degradation
Pee control
Free use
Rimming
sensation play
Watersports (still exploring)
Making you feel little
Mental control
Using toys on you

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:
42, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

I am sure all the women and few men will downvote this.

But most will agree, desi women are most entitled when it comes to affair. What i have noticed :

- they will never put effort when making a post, some dont even put age and location, or if they just want things online

- most are here only to feel wanted and seek validation. They love how me flock in their DMs, they enjoy the dopamine from number of dms with no intention to find an AP

- then if they do reply to a mens post, they are so fucking tired of typing that they will just say hi and ask basic questions like age which are already there in the post.

-they expect men to make huge post and carry the conversation, while they put minimal effort and their excuse, “i have a life, i am busy”

- there are few who would ask to exchange pictures, but do not understand the definition of word exchange, for desi women exchange means only men giving

- then there are few who wants men to tell them on text what they will do with them - fuck you, if you want to read erotic literature then go read erotica, i can guide you to many sites

- many desi women here are BBW… lol the term is basically created by women, who are okay to be big but want their affair partner gym tonned

I am sure many of you desi men would have your own stories. Lets put it out here in comments.

And i would say if you see such women, call them out.

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

42, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.

Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.

Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection.

There are many other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

Few other kinks of mine:
Edging
Orgasm control/denial
Begging or pleading for orgasm
lite Bondage
Casual Stimulation
public play
Ownership
anal play/anal training/Butt plugs
Breast/Nipple torture and worship
Spanking
Body writing
Non permanent marks
Collaring
Degradation
Pee control
Free use
Rimming
sensation play
Watersports (still exploring)
Making you feel little
Mental control
Using toys on you

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

42 [M4F] #Toronto #GTA – Looking for a discreet affair partner.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

About me:
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

I am naturally dominant. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focus.

We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we are a match.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:
42, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

\*About Me\*
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

*\*The Vibe*\*
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

*\*How this works*\*
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe .

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

*\*About me*\*
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

\*The Vibe\*
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

*\*How this works*\*
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe .

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

*\*About me*\*
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

*\*The Vibe*\*
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

*\*How this works:*\*
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe .

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*About me:\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*The Vibe:\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*How this works:\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe .

Hey! I have been looking for a submissive partner but seems the stars are not aligned, hopefully today they are :). I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting.

We can start with getting to know each other, build and develop a connection. I am willing to put the effort to do that if you are. We can start the dynamic online first, so we both get comfortable before we decide to meet in person.

Before we get into my dom style and kind of dynamic i want, you should know few things so that i can clear your filters. I know everyone has them.

42, 6’3 so really tall. Professional, in a successful career where i lead.

Married, not looking to change that. Here to find someone understanding, respectful of my situation and non judgemental.

Born and raised in India, living in Canada.

I have had some really good dynamics in the past, online and in person. I identify as a soft pleasure dom, with a switch that flips the intensity. I love to take care of my subs, so thats why DDlg works perfect for me. I am not into age regression little. I also lean a bit towards being sadist, so if you enjoy pain, it will be perfect.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

If you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. I believe thats a really intimate act and one can only do that if there is a strong connection.

There are many other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

Few other kinks of mine:
Edging
Orgasm control/denial
Begging or pleading for orgasm
lite Bondage
Casual Stimulation
public play
Ownership
anal play/anal training/Butt plugs
Breast/Nipple torture and worship
Spanking
Body writing
Non permanent marks
Collaring
Degradation
Pee control
Free use
Rimming
sensation play
Watersports (still exploring)
Making you feel little
Mental control
Using toys on you

More About Me:

I am confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am usually available during weekdays

As i am married, my family takes up my time, but that doesn’t mean i will take you for granted. You will be equally important to me.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:
42, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

Hey! I am focusing on my physical desire in the post, that said, i understand and want this to happen after i get to know you and we build a connection. I am not looking for hookups. I am not looking to just meet someone after talking here just once, want to build a connection before any meeting. But this post is focusing on my physical desire, as i very strongly lean towards this.

We can start this with online play at first if thats what you are comfortable with.

I’ve always had a strong preference for breasts and nipple play, and I enjoy taking my time and fully indulging in that. When I’m focused on someone, I like to be in control of the pace and intensity, building things up slowly and keeping my attention exactly where I want it.

I’m looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being desired like that—someone who’s comfortable letting me take the lead and who genuinely enjoys a mix of slow, teasing attention and more intense moments. With the right person i can stay latched on for hours. Of course, everything is based on clear consent and mutual comfort, but I’m drawn to someone who likes that kind of dynamic.

I’m not expecting much in return—at the very least, I’d want you to gently stroke or caress my cock, if you would like i would rub your holes casually and you can run your hands over my face, neck, hair, back, or wherever feels natural. I’m not expecting oral (giving or receiving), but I’m open to exploring if there’s mutual comfort and chemistry.

Bonus - if you are into cock worshipping/cock warming. This can only happen if we get to know each other and like each other. There are other kinks, but these two are most sensual need of mine.

About Me:
42, 6’3, fit, confident, and easygoing. I am professionally successful, ambivert, calm, patient, can hold a conversation. I enjoy taking my time and staying in the moment and going with the flow.

I am married and not looking to change my situation. I expect you to be understanding and respectful of that. I am professional educated and successful.

I do not want to meet up immediately, once we have built up trust then we can decide to meet up. And i cannot meet up regularly, it will be weekdays and once or twice a month.

We can get to know each other online, then meet casually for vibe check before anything happens.

If this is IRL then i can only meet up once or twice a month. I can drive so you can be anywhere from London to Toronto.

I’ll keep this simple. ’m not here to play games or waste your time, and I’m guessing you feel the same way.

I am looking for one real, long-term connection with a submissive woman. A mix of good daily banter and an intense, heavy D/s dynamic when we get down to it.

*About Me*
I’m 42 6’2”, I’m South Asian (Indian), professionally successful, and work from home. I am married and not looking to change my situation. I’m grounded, drama-free, and total discretion is a given with me.

*The Vibe*
I am naturally dominant and a protective caregiver. I’m calm, patient, and easy to talk to during the workday. But when it comes to the kinky side, I have a switch that flips. I can be incredibly rough, demanding, and intense when the mood is right.
Physically, I like to take total control of the pace. Instead of rushing, I have a massive preference for slow, heavy teasing. I can spend hours just entirely focused on you, worshipping your body, and building the tension until you can't take it anymore and i decide you have had enough. In return, I love a partner who enjoys giving that same deep, focused physical attention back.

*How this works*
We start online. I respect privacy, so there is zero pressure for photos or videos. If we have chemistry, we can move to voice calls and eventually meet up down the road. Because of my schedule, physical meets are weekdays, maybe once or twice a month. I drive, so anywhere along the London-to-Toronto corridor works.

I’m not going to give you a list of rules or requirements for messaging me. If you’re mature, independent, and want a dominant man who actually knows how to take charge, my DMs are open.

Drop me a line and let's see if we vibe .