It's almost Sunday for me. I pretty much slept Saturday away š I could be sleeping more but the room temperature isn't cooperating. I can't afford to have A/C on 24/7. Lol.
It would be nice to get a colder weather especially at night š
How is the weather where you guys are?
I love watching documentaries here and there. The one about Wu Zetian has been my favorite. It tells the story of Wu Zetian: The 1st and only Emperor in Chinese history.Ā
I have some time today before I got in some kind of 24hr gaming mode. I want to chat with someone regarding this clip.Ā
To qualify, I require the following:
ā¢ Your thoughts on a female led empire. Do you believe that there could have been more prosperous kingdoms if there were more educated, scheming and capable women to take charge?
ā¢ Do you think she is more evil than male counterparts for eradicating her competition? Or you would consider it as a form of misogyny as male rulers pretty much did the same but were not painted as badly as they did with her?
ā¢ How do you feel about the deliberate attempt of historians to delete her from history/ demonize her reign?
ā¢ General review about her life story
You know where to go. My gifts are a few clicks away š
I do not have enough energy to play the usual games that I have so I was content to gamble with a bot š¤£š¤£š¤£
This week really took out my energy and sanity. From extra demanding work expectations, issues and delays in my small business, my spending+business capital money being stuck on floating due to a bank glitch and other annoying things.
I do not have owned subs but I am fortunate that this week, I have rockstars who stepped up to make things lighter for me.
I won't tag their names for their privacy. But I want to share with everyone how they showed up for me even if they didn't need to.
Sub 1: He's a teacher but in my presence, he is my student. He doesn't have a big budget but he makes sure I am happy by reading 1-2 chapters of my book with me. He even humored me when I asked for additional coffee because I was stressed. He even attached a message. Close to 30 chapters covered. Quite a feat considering how busy we are. It's been almost a month since he approached me on Twitter.
Sub 2: New guy from the block. I laud his determination to find me. From Reddit > Loyalfans > X till I finally noticed him š I am so glad I followed my gut and dmed him. He is a feet enthusiast so I am ecstatic that all my feet vanity collection will see the light of day. He doesn't demand but will happily watch me brag about my clips. I have been wanting one for months already
Sub 3: I just casually shared the tea about fellow dommes in the server I am in were not paid for a drain game they participated in. The sissy sub refused to pay and ran. He saw how upset I was for them that he offered to do small sends for all of them. And of course, a coffee for me too to replace one I gifted another domme.
I love how amazing subs need not be owned to go the extra mile in ensuring that I am my happiest self. Yes, long term and exclusive dynamics are not as readily available for me but at least I am surrounded by great company.
Sometimes you just have to reward yourself after you got burned at work š
Thank you sponsors! ā¤ļøā
I have a habit of purging my followers when I know they do not like findom or I do not know if they do findom.
This one stood out because of his profile description so I decided to "invited him to send" for the giggles š
I wasn't expecting much from it so I laughed when I saw he actually sent. He was quick to provide AV too so I am over the moon. He's definitely a lovely one y'all. ā¤ļø
The title is bait. š
I just picked it since this is like a classic and very much persistent question in this subreddit.
Honestly speaking, I do not have an answer to such profound question. š«¢
What I can share though is how some subs can find you. I have a habit of interviewing people on why they followed, approached or how they found me.
Based on their responses, these are some of the intel I've gathered:
ā¢ Your words: Words have power. The way you interact or express your thoughts may lure or deter people. Just imagine, you can get subs because you write provoking posts in subreddits like textonlyfindom. There are dommes here with no photos but people recognized as real dommes.
ā¢ Media you post: As much as words hold weight, others would want to see more of you as a person. It could a photo, a video clip or a voice note. Seeing more of you may be the key for you to haunt their minds for days, weeks or months till they couldn't hold out anymore and approach. Case in point, someone heard me laugh in a voice note and lurked for weeks.
ā¢ Your humanity: At times, even your silly, random antics or interests will draw attention. I recently had my 1st Twitter sub because he saw me yapping and posting a screenshot of my PokeMMO emulator. He messaged to see if I indeed have such interest apart from findom.
ā¢ Your uniqueness/peculiarity: In a world them seem so templated and filled with generic caption posts, someone that sticks out like an eye sore may be the wanted break they yearn for.
ā¢ Ability to sell your desires: Every domme wants a send/sub(s) but is not owed one. But if you can make a sub laugh because of how much you hated Throne marketing spam when I all you wish is a send(s) notification, that elusive send might just be around the corner. Make them feel that you not getting what you desire is a capital crime and an urgent problem that they should resolve.
I am sure there are other things we can add. But these are some of the recurring feedback I got with countless of people I've talked to. All I hope is it will offer some value or idea.
There are days you just want your feet to look extra fancy so you "dress it up" even when working from home š
Hope everyone is having a lovely Monday! I always see people share their hobbies so I guess I will share mine too.
Doing volunteer work is something that I have been doing for over a decade already (way before becoming a domme). I've volunteered for a lot of organizations during work and personal hours.
Many times, the activities I help host focus on learning, fun and interactive activities. Although I cannot always give life changing assistance, I at least want to offer a temporary escape and relaxation from the harsh realities of life.
As for the donations done in cash or in kind, my capacity is limited so I love to partner with people/organizations to help make it impactful. The most recent one I participated in last week helps a group of people afford life saving medications to enable them to live a normal life. With them, the few dollars I gave aren't just mere dollars anymore. They will help extend someone's life. As much as I want to give specifics and share pictures, I will not for privacy reasons.
This is one aspect of my life wherein I am always willing to give something. I feel that I gain more instead of losing. That my little effort is not wasted and is actually making a difference.
That's all for me.
How about you guys? What are your hobbies that you hold dear?
Night all!
Most people in my country get paid 15th and 30th/31st of the month. Since my pay days fall on different dates, I treated this day like any normal Friday evening. Well, famous words for sure.
It's already 03:34 am Saturday now and no luck booking a ride. I am still a little bit drunk from a nice (and sponsored) karaoke night. I guess I'll have to wait it out till sunrise in some 24/7 coffee shop.
Lesson learned: check the calendar š
I hope you luck is better than mine. Lol
Happy Friday/ Saturday everyone!
Go eat my shoe šš
You will always end asking about could have beens if you stick to inaction and do nothing.