47 [M4F] #Essex - seeking a submissive plaything
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I am looking for an alternative partner. You will have to know your place and crave my affection, but know that you'll get just enough to remind you of your value and be grateful for it.
You'll need to enjoy existing for my pleasure. Even if it's for my sadistic whim, or for the joy I take in your discomfort.
I am in a relationship and I'm not looking to change it. She has no interest in kink and will not be involved here.
I like to control a helpless sub. Someone who will do my bidding and serve at my pleasure. To have her denied pleasure desperate for release. There may be some light sadistic torture too.
Consent is everything. Clear yeses, firm limits discussed up front, safewords in place, and thoughtful aftercare are non‑negotiable. Trust is the base that turns careful scenes into unforgettable ones.
You should probably also need to know I'm demisexual, so I'll need a connection before I can properly abuse you. I hope you can cope with a sea of questions that you might think are pointless.
But we're all human.