47 [M4F] #Essex - seeking a submissive female
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I am looking for an alternative partner. She will have to know her place and crave my affection, but know that she'll get just enough to remind her of her value and be grateful for it.
You'll need to enjoy existing for my pleasure. Even if it's for my sadistic whim, or for the joy I take in your discomfort.
I am in a relationship and I'm not looking to change it. She has no interest in kink and will not be involved here.
I like to control a helpless sub. Someone who will do my bidding and serve at my pleasure. To have her denied pleasure desperate for release. There may be some light sadistic torture too.
You should probably also need to know I'm demisexual, so I'll need a connection before I can properly abuse you. I hope you can cope with a sea of questions that you might think are pointless.
But we're all human.